My ex has a new love, do you think it s possible for us to get back together?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Hardly possible. Because he has a new love, it means that he wants to start a new relationship, and his new love will not let go easily, even if they break up, they may choose a new person instead of you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I don't think it's very likely that you will get back together, the ex already has a new love, which means that he has given up on the relationship between you and you, even if he separates from the new love and comes back to you later, I don't mind you getting back together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I don't think it's possible to get back together, because he doesn't want to get along with you anymore, so he will find a new love, and you don't need to spend time on a crooked neck tree all the time, you can see if there are other better people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No, you all know that your ex has a new love and still wants to get back together, it's no problem if you break up and someone else has a new love, it's a moral problem for you to get back together and destroy others, why would you go if you want to get back together, a qualified ex should be like dead.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Why think about getting back together? If your ex had you in his heart, would he still be with someone else? Don't be a fool, find someone who likes you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The ex and the new love broke up and came to you, you should try to accept him and give him another chance, so that you can get back together, after all, you had feelings before.

    Actually, you have a big advantage. The ex and the new love broke up, which actually means that there is no special relationship between them, so even though he once had a new love, you don't feel that the other party just doesn't love you, so it is very likely that this new love is just his temporary interest, have confidence in him, and believe that he will eventually return to your arms.

    Just imagine, if he and his new love are true love, then why are they coming to you again now, so for him, you still have a lot of charm. Coupled with the fact that there is a certain emotional foundation between you and him, you are in an advantageous position both at the level of redemption and on the issue of him loving you a little more. That is to say, as long as you want to redeem, are willing to change, and use the right method, he will still return to your arms.

    If you want to know more clearly whether he still has feelings for you, you also have to see when he found this new love.

    1. After breaking up, I immediately found a new love.

    Perhaps, you will feel confused, looking for a new love so quickly, is it so quick to forget you, and then have negative feelings. But if you think about it from another angle, the other party is looking for a random one because he lost you and was lonely, then this new love is likely to have your shadow, and he is likely to love you too much, so he finds a new love like you to anger you, so don't be afraid.

    At this time, you need to arouse his miss for you, that is, when he has just broken up with his new love, contact him again, just as a friend. You can care like a friend, and get rid of the problem that he didn't like you at first, when you are constantly getting better, and it happens that he breaks up with his new love, he thinks more about your goodness and your past. That is, in the case of contrast, you will be chosen.

    2. Break up for a while and find a new love.

    In this way, it will be seen that your ex is still more rational, and the relationship between him and his new love may not be because of loneliness, but he really has feelings, but he broke up for various reasons, so he wants to get back together with you, and then he will remember you even more. That is, your position in his heart is far higher than that of his new love. As a man who is a visual animal, he will definitely consider choosing a companion in the future from factors such as appearance and personality.

    At this time, you should not always take the initiative to find him, but build yourself into a new image, such as changing your reputation and style, changing your dressing style, etc., and appear in front of him in a different way, so that he will be attracted to you again. Although he once had a new love, that doesn't mean anything, the one who persevers to the end is the most beautiful, and self-confidence is the posture you should have. I'm sure you'll be able to walk into his heart again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it's okay, after all, I've experienced it with my ex, so there must be regrets, but whether it can still be reunited, it mainly depends on whether the contradictions between the two parties are resolved, and whether you choose to reunite with each other at this time, you need to take the right way to deal with it. Specifically, you should analyze and judge from three aspects: the state of interaction between each other, the emotional foundation between two people, and whether the conditions between each other are suitable.

    1. Analyze whether two people can get back together from the state of interaction between each other.

    For two people who have broken up, whether they can get back together depends first on the state of interaction between each other, if the two people can still maintain a normal state of communication, it means that there is still the possibility of reunion between two people. And if two people can no longer interact normally, then there is absolutely no possibility of reuniting between these two people.

    2. Judge whether you can get back together according to the emotional foundation between two people.

    Whether love can exist, its basis lies in the emotional state between two people, if the two people after the breakup still have a good emotional foundation, then, there is a certain possibility of continuing the front edge, and the two people may be reunited. And if there is no affection between two people, then everything is impossible to talk about, and it is impossible to get back together.

    3. Analyze whether it can be compounded from the perspective of whether the conditions of both parties are suitable.

    If two people want to fall in love together, they must have the right conditions in all aspects. For two people who have broken up, if the two people are more suitable in all aspects, then there will be more common language between each other, and it is possible to resolve conflicts through mutual communication and get back together. On the contrary, if the conditions of the two parties are very different, the possibility of getting back together after the breakup will be very low.

    It is these factors that ultimately determine whether the two people can get back together after a breakup.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Many times, the ex says that breaking up does not necessarily mean that he is not in love, but after the breakup, after a series of entanglements and quarrels, he doesn't know how to face the other party, so he can only let each other calm down, in fact, he still wants to find a step down and be with you again.

    First, "You have to take care of yourself."

    If your ex has said such things to you, it means that he is still very worried about you, and only when he subconsciously wishes you well, he will say such words that care about you. So if you want to know if your ex has you in his heart after the breakup, it depends on whether he will send these words that care about you after he breaks up with you.

    Second, "you will meet better".

    When your predecessor says this, it means that this person is full of guilt towards you. If he doesn't love you anymore, he won't care who you meet next, anyway, you have already been cautious, it doesn't matter what you do, he can't wait for the next one to be worse than him, make you regret it, take the opportunity to breathe, so that you won't ask you to meet someone better than him.

    Actually, what the other party really wants to say is: Although I love you very much, maybe I am not the best for you, and I am also at fault, I hope you can meet someone with better conditions than me. In the eyes of the people who love you, even if the breakup is intense, calm down and hope that you can live a better life in the future.

    Third, "I keep what you gave me."

    If you really hear this, don't hesitate, it's 100% hinting that you want to get back together with you. As the old saying goes, "Seeing things and thinking about people". When a person completely wants to let go, he will erase all traces of the relevant and start a new life.

    After breaking up, not only did I not throw away the things you sent, but took the initiative to tell you, "I still keep the things you gave me." Isn't that just waiting for you to go down the stairs and ask him, "Why do you still keep me to be lenient?" Logically reply to communication.

    Fourth, "Can we still be friends?"

    I believe I don't need to explain too much about this sentence. A completely dead heart person is usually decisive in the face of love, and if he doesn't love it, he doesn't love it, especially when he wants to leave completely, in order to avoid entanglement, he doesn't want to have the slightest relationship, let alone be friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. In principle, yes, but before you do it, you have to think about whether your predecessor or your current one is better. What are the strengths and weaknesses of each of them? Think it through and make a final decision.

    If you have a new appointment, you still want to get back together with your ex, is it okay?

    In principle, yes, but before you do this, you must consider whether it is the predecessor or the current one. What are the strengths and weaknesses of each of them? After thinking clearly, we will make the final decision on the lack of dismantling.

    I haven't been with me for long, but I always want to miss my ex.

    Do you think about your ex, do you want your ex? This is the most important point, and you must make a decision after you have figured it out.

    If you want to get back together with your ex, you have to tell your current one.

    You must not say this, after saying that, which man can be so generous? I'm going to break up with you.

    I said that I broke up, and I still wanted to find a good reunion, but I was afraid of disturbing her.

    If you feel that you love your ex more than you love your current one, then be brave enough to confess. But you must make it clear to the current one before going, otherwise it will hurt both of these two women.

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