Excuse me, can a girl really die and not like it in an instant?

Can a girl really be able to die for a moment and not like it? I would say that the answer is no, not so much that girls don't like it for a moment, but that they find that they can't fool themselves anymore. People who say I love you, but don't actually act, you make your own promises, but you don't keep them.

When I was sad, I wanted to confide, but when I saw you, I silently endured all the grievances in an instant, I was there when you needed me, and when I needed you, I couldn't find you. It's only a matter of a moment to really suddenly dislike someone, and this moment takes many moments to firm yourself up and give up.

In every relationship, there will be a hundred moments that make you die, and there will be a hundred moments when you want to give up on this relationship. Once loved vigorously, in the end it was just their own wishful thinking, the other party was accustomed to their own existence, used to taking their own efforts for granted, and finally lost their original self. In the end, after careful consideration, I chose to leave, and I was myself again, believing that if I waved goodbye to the wrong person, I would have the opportunity to meet the right person.

You are never by his side when he needs you. When she treats the other party's affairs as her own, and he is indifferent to everything about her, she always takes this relationship very seriously, but he doesn't bother to respond. The girl struggles to support and struggle alone, but the boy is indifferent, not that love has come to an end, but that the heart is really dead.

The death of a person is only a matter of a moment, and too many moments accumulate together, and the feelings are used up. When you give the most precious love to the wrong person, the heart is dead, and you really let go, and it is never time that defeats feelings, but silence. When she is unwilling to say a word to you again, when she no longer cares about your words and deeds, and no longer shush you for warmth, it proves that she has no love for you, and after accumulating enough disappointment, she will naturally leave, her heart is cold, and she will no longer be warm.

In love, two people get along with each other to understand each other, tolerate each other, and share weal and woe, so that each other's feelings can shine in the plain. Cherish the person in front of you, don't lose her who loves you.

The above is the problem, if there is any error, please understand!

I think girls can die to boys in an instant, and even stop liking each other to keep their distance from each other, if some of the boys' behaviors cause serious damage to the girls, causing the girls to be completely cold, the girls will no longer have any expectations of the boys, and will keep their distance from each other.

I think it's okay, because many times girls feel that a person's action will make them very disappointed, and they will become disliked.

The real manifestation of a girl's heart is that she will no longer contact you, no longer pay attention to your dynamics, try to avoid encounters and contacts with you, give others all the good attitudes she had towards you before, and are unwilling to have anything to do with you anymore.

The manifestations of a girl's real despair are: 1. She will not pay attention to this person's news at all; 2. Devote yourself to learning and work; 3. Begin to accept the pursuit of other boys. In the past, when I first broke up with my ex-boyfriend, I was very miserable, and I would always look through his circle of friends, Weibo or couldn't help but send him messages, but after a while, I knew that there was no drama and I wouldn't do these things at all.

The performance of the girl's real dead heart is as follows:

1. No more clingy.

Girls in love like to be clingy without exception. It's not a personal fetish, it's because I like you and care about you, so I want to stick to you every day and get tired of being together. Even if it's simply together and don't say anything, it feels very beautiful.

But slowly, you find that she seems to be a different person. No longer clinging to you, pestering you, suddenly become extremely sensible and extremely obedient. Just because you said, "I want to be free, not bound", she obediently restrained her temperament.

At the same time, she also restrained her love for you and her caution towards you. The reason is simply because you don't cherish and don't care. "When a girl loses her nature, that's when you lose her. ”

2. No more trouble.

I've seen a lot of guys complaining about their girlfriends, "Why would you do that?" Don't do it, okay? But in the face of such complaints, the girls will not only not relent, but will only intensify.

Psychologically speaking, people only lose their temper with people they trust, and only show their true emotions in front of people they trust. Sometimes it's just too trusting and depending, just trying to get your attention and care, that's all. But in the face of your snubbing again and again, she didn't care about it again and again, and finally she became disheartened.

She suddenly became extremely sensible and independent.

3. No more sharing.

The most obvious sign of liking someone is that you want to talk to him a lot, good or bad mood, interesting things and things that happen every day, everything you will want to share with him. When you are completely dead and completely disappointed in someone, you will no longer have the desire to talk to them. Suddenly he became extremely cold, extremely polite, and extremely unconcerned.

More polite than a stranger, more polite than a stranger.

Everything has changed just because of having a boyfriend who is "incompetent" and "doesn't care about you". has suddenly changed from a chattering "chatterbox" to a person who is "cold" and "cherishes words like gold", and there should be a boyfriend around him who can't listen and doesn't want to listen. No longer sharing is one of the characteristics of dead heart.

1. I won't be near you again.

In the past, she might cling to you every day, even if you have a bad attitude towards her, it doesn't matter, she will make you happy. When you walk together, she will like to hold your hand, she will feel very happy, and when she is sad, she will think of you for the first time, get your comfort, want your hug, and want to be cute and cute in your arms.

If she dies, these performances will be gone, as if she is a different person, and she will become independent. Do your own business, and when she can not interfere in your business, she will resolutely not interfere; She will not take the initiative to approach you, and she will dodge and even get bored of your approach.

2. The attitude towards you becomes indifferent.

A woman who loves you, she will write all her joys, sorrows and sorrows on her face without hesitation to tell you that when she is happy, she wants to share it with you, and when she is unhappy, she hopes to be comforted by you.

She will be sad for a long time because of your inadvertent words or actions, because she has you in her heart, and she is easy to be happy all day because of your words.

If you find that you don't seem to be able to see through her, and she no longer seems to write all her joys, sorrows and sorrows on her face as before, but hide them in her heart, it means that this woman is completely disappointed in you, so she will hide her joys, sorrows and sorrows in the bottom of her heart and no longer share them with you.

3. When she is with you, she is no longer happy.

In the past, as long as she was with you, no matter what you did with her, she would feel very happy, happy, and satisfied.

But, now, when you're with her, you rarely see her smile anymore, and you often quarrel over little things, even though you never did that before, and you feel like she's changed, and you don't know her at all.

Indeed, when a woman no longer likes you, it will make you feel strange, because she doesn't like you anymore, and she puts away her tenderness.

will directly delete you from the friends list, will not notify you in advance, will not take the initiative to contact you in the future, even if you meet you on the street by chance, she will pretend not to know you, because you are already a stranger to her.

1. I have become extremely indifferent to you, it's a little scary to be indifferent, and the past that used to smile at you is gone.

2. I have become indifferent to everything about you, as if you are just a shadow, never seeing you and not wanting to see you.

3. Take good care of yourself, and never ask for a little pity and care in yourself again.

4. I care about my image very much, not because of you, but because she has learned to love herself more.

The real death of a girl is that no matter what you say, she will be silent and will not respond, and she will no longer share her happiness and sadness with you, which proves that she has completely lost her heart to you.

will no longer take the initiative to contact you, and will also pull you into the blacklist, she doesn't want to hear any news from you, not only that, but your good friend will also take the initiative to stay away, the purpose is not to have any contact with you.

A woman will say these three words when she is dead.

When a woman dies, what kind of performance will she have?

Sudden death is not a sudden occurrence, but a lot of small things are slowly accumulated.

1. I like to draw cakes.

My boyfriend likes to draw flatbread, and in this case, maybe once or twice I will be confused by the dreams that Tuan did not have him, and after a long time, I will recognize his true colors. My boyfriend used to keep making promises that when I had money, I would do whatever I wanted to do to you, and I had that expectation when I was younger, and as I got older, I understood that he was just painting me cakes. So I chose to break up with him at some point, and I gave up on him the last time he drew cakes.

Second, when I am very picky.

My boyfriend himself is not very good, but he still has a lot of pickiness about me, especially when the food I cook is not to his taste, and the housework I do does not satisfy him, he starts to sneer at me. After this situation had been accumulating for a while, one day I gave up on him and made up my mind to leave him. Housework is a matter of two people, and if it is only one person, then there is no need to be cautious.

3. Feelings don't get cold in an instant.

Girls have always been sentimental, emotionally overflowing, and like to follow their feelings and make emotional choices. Therefore, most girls' feelings do not change in an instant, and the so-called sudden death is just the outbreak of filial piety accumulated over time. And what consumes feelings is also the little things in life one after another.

Therefore, it is recommended that when you enter a relationship, no matter how small the matter, you must know how to tolerate and be considerate of each other, and understand the difference between the other party and yourself

Here's an answer to that question for you. When the first Qi Leak Mu first talked about love, he was the only one who had and was the only one in this time, but love, after all, is the details of firewood, rice, oil and salt, not the so-called romance hidden in the stars.

How many feelings of high feelings begin with the joy at first sight, and are ruined by these trivial trivial things. There is no instant death, it is a timely stop loss after the accumulation of disappointment. Tell me about the moment of death.

During the Chinese New Year, I followed my boyfriend home for the New Year, and when I went to his house for the first time, I was very nervous, most of the time I was alone playing with my mobile phone, the language barrier, and the eating habits were very different.

The first time I went to the boy's house, I was more or less taken care of, but I didn't feel it, I helped clean up the dishes and chopsticks, wash the dishes, and help my boyfriend wash his clothes, all of which were within my affordability.

The thing that made me speechless the most was that there was a guest at his house, he played poker with his relatives, and loudly asked me to go to the kitchen to help her mother cook, and I lost my temper at that time, but I held back, I didn't want to embarrass him, and I expressed my dissatisfaction afterwards, and he thought I was ignorant.

After returning from his hometown, I broke up with him, and the couple's return home for the New Year is a new standard for testing true love, believe me, there is nothing wrong.