What kind of people are those who like to denigrate others?

Psychologically dark, jealous. Some people do not see the good of others or the bad of others, and they criticize the achievements and advantages of others, and "peel off the cocoon" of others' shortcomings, and do slanderous things, and their language is even more outrageous: they either make something out of nothing, or add oil and vinegar, or infinitely distort it, and do everything they can.

That kind of behavior that harms others and is not beneficial to oneself may really be a certain psychological deviation. Maybe it's a jealousy, or maybe it's just a spoof. I guess it's this kind of person who is specifically targeting a specific person, maybe it's really that the specific object is weaker and makes people feel bullied, so it's okay to use it to amuse, to alleviate the unhealthy emotions in their hearts, or the kind of sour grapes psychology that is depressed but unable to extricate themselves.

Driven by nature, low emotional intelligence. We all know that a person's personality traits are influenced by their own background and growth experience. Therefore, if a person does not have a good environment and experience, then the person's character is very likely to be affected, that is, the overall quality is low, the emotional intelligence is low, and it is difficult to get the love of others in the process of getting along with others.

As the saying goes: the wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it! Many people can't see the good of others, and they don't have this ability, so they do everything possible to slander others, these people are often sour grapes, and they can't eat grapes to hype that grapes are sour and destroy the image of others.

The purpose of slandering others is to step on others and climb up by themselves, so that others cannot compete with themselves for benefits. There are also people who have stepped on others, but they have no ability to prevent others from advancing, but they can't get good things, this kind of person is even more hateful, called "harming others and disadvantage". Therefore, this kind of person often backfires, and is spurned by the public after the truth of the matter is exposed.

Harming others and not benefiting oneself is pure jealousy, for example, Woman A and Woman B were originally friends, but later B worked hard, was very sunny, worked well and made a lot of money, much better than A; And A is lazy, or has a bad job, and makes less money, and then others often compare A with B, and A is unbalanced, and then maliciously says that B is engaged in an improper industry, or this or that ......Such a person is jealous and has a small belly.

In fact, there are quite a few people who like to slander others. Some people like to make fun by slandering others, and think they are self-excreting; Some people are fond of slandering others and removing obstacles for themselves; Some people slander others and invite pets to reincarnate; Some people often come to slander others as dry rice, and from time to time they take two bites to explain their slander. However, most of the people who are slandered are high-ranking people, so let's take the slander as a kind of concern.

There are basically two purposes for slandering others, one is out of self-interest needs, in order to elevate oneself, and build one's image on trampling on the dignity of others; One is to harm others and not to oneself, purely to vent one's emotions.

The bottom line is that they don't need to be held accountable for what they say. If there is no cost to doing the wrong thing or saying the wrong thing, why should they kill their brains and consider the feelings of others?

Of course, there are some reasons, such as that they can fool a part of the mob whose IQ is not much different from him by belittling others to prove that they are superior; For example, they are paper tigers, and they will soon be speechless when they talk about things seriously with you, but if their mouth is dirty, it is easy to divert your attention and it is more beneficial to him; For another example, he is a loser in life, but he refuses to admit it, refuses to face this fact, and wants to catch someone grinding his teeth and venting his resentment against this society.

For this kind of malicious brush of existence, no matter how unhappy you are, you will let him brush it, he will dirty your eyes for a while, and it will not dirty your whole world. If you find that you're surrounded by people who are almost all like that, you can only say, you're in the wrong forum community, and it's time to leave, because staying here doesn't do you any good anymore.

Slandering others is because they are narrow-minded. Thinking badly of others is because you have a dark heart. People with sunshine in their hearts see the world brightly, and dark people instigate, envy and criticize everywhere, slander and slander others, and see what others are like, because they are like this, which is called psychological projection, projecting their own characteristics or defects to others and the outside world.

Because they are jealous of others, because they are inferior to others. If he doesn't get what others get, he will slander others, and it is a truth to say that grapes are sour when he can't eat them.

This kind of person is not good at his own cultivation and can't see the good of others, so he thinks of slandering others and making others have a bad life.

People and personalities are different. Therefore, it is different to deal with people. People who are willing to slander others, I think such people are arrogant. One day he will be slandered by others. It's really not good.

Because this kind of person does not work hard, does not improve himself, is not self-confident, and is always afraid that others will be better than himself, he will always slander others.

It is related to a person's personality and his behavioral characteristics, and some people like to slander others.

Some people are psychologically distorted and can't see that others are better than themselves, and most of these people are psychologically unbalanced.

Hello, because people are very bad nowadays, and it's normal to slander others, so you don't have to deal with this kind of person.

Those who love vanity will show off themselves by slandering others.

The world is so big that there are no surprises.

Everyone's personality is different, thousands of people, thousands of personalities, and there are all kinds of birds when the forest is big, not strange.

People who usually like to denigrate others do so because of jealousy. It's the kind of fox that can't eat grapes and says that grapes are sour. If we meet this kind of person, first of all, we must keep our mind at peace, because if we are disturbed by him and we are out of order, it may not be worth it at all because it affects our work, studies and life.

Summary. Hello dear, in the face of slander, you should first be calm and composed. 1. Don't rush to justify.

If you are attacked and others say something bad, don't explain it urgently, let time prove everything. 2. Don't slump. It is also a basic workplace skill to have a certain tolerance for some slander from others, because sometimes it is difficult for everyone to live in harmony with each other for their own interests.

3. Don't torture yourself. Some people always like to punish themselves for the faults of others, and it is very undesirable to do so. We don't need to pay for the malice of others, so don't be unhappy, let alone torture yourself.

4. Don't be submissive. If the other party is bullying and does not have the courage to attack maliciously, you must recognize the situation, don't let the other party bully, let alone make promises, only appropriate resistance can make the other party rein.

What to do if someone denigrates you.

Hello dear, in the face of slander, you should first be calm and composed. 1. Don't rush to justify. If you are attacked and others say something bad, don't explain it urgently, let time prove everything.

2. Don't slump. It is also a basic workplace skill to have a certain tolerance for some slander from others, because sometimes it is difficult for everyone to live in harmony with each other for their own interests. 3. Don't torture yourself.

Some people always like to punish themselves for the faults of others, and it is very undesirable to do so. We don't need to pay for the malice of others, so don't be unhappy, let alone torture yourself. 4. Don't be submissive.

If the other party is bullying and does not have the courage to attack maliciously, you must recognize the situation, don't let the other party bully, let alone make promises, only appropriate resistance can make the other party rein.

Don't let outside opinions disturb your own life, and when someone denigrates you, learn to resist and fight against it.

Faced with such a friend who has known him for a long time but belittles him everywhere, I will deal with it in the following ways:

First of all, I would choose to communicate directly with this friend. Expressing one's discomfort with its frequent demeaning behavior is not conducive to the development of friendships. If it's just an unconscious idiom, hopefully the other person can change it.

If it's intentional, I'll ask why the other person is doing it, and if I can explain it.

Secondly, if the other party is still unwilling to change through communication, I will appropriately back down and draw a clear line. In the past, we used to get along with each other a lot, but instead of going in and out of each other's life circles as often as before, which can avoid the influence of the other person. My personal life is limited, and I don't need to waste time with people who are always belittled and in my way.

Besides, I wouldn't share too many of my thoughts or plans with such a friend. Because no matter what he says, this friend will always evaluate it in a negative and sympathetic tone, which will bring more frustration to himself. I am more inclined to share my life and thoughts with friends who are always positive and supportive, which will make my mood more positive.

Of course, it is not necessary to completely cut the table, after all, they are long-term friends and will maintain a certain contact on the right occasion. However, I will try to avoid in-depth one-on-one communication, especially when it comes to some important decisions or plans of myself, and avoid revealing my vulnerability or suspicion too much in front of this friend. Keeping a certain distance from such a friend can help you to be emotionally stable.

People need to get along with each other, but if the other person keeps adopting a demeaning and negative attitude, this will not make the relationship closer, but will gradually drift apart. I try to express my feelings through communication and try to repair the relationship. However, if the other party's attitude does not change, it is wise to draw a clear line and share and communicate selectively.

It is not necessary to maintain a relationship because of the longevity of history, especially when the relationship has always had a negative impact on you. But there is no need for a heartbreak relationship, a moderate amount of contact and distancing will make it less troublesome for each other, and this may be a balance that I will achieve in dealing with this type of relationship personally. Keeping your distance and being selective requires a lot of emotional and psychological focus, but it makes life much more refreshing.

I will have my own set of solutions to such relationships, which require established principles and proper avoidance skills. It is inevitable to encounter such and such people and things in life, the key lies in your attitude, and you must learn to avoid negative influences while no longer caring too much as before. Moderate dedication and moderate resignation is a small skill for me to deal with interpersonal relationships, especially for some long-term but negative interactions.