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The most urgent thing to do is to meet with her, talk about what you really think in your heart, you have to start with this girl first, you have to tell her what you think, if she is also a last resort, then you can boycott this marriage together, and if you both resist, the final result is not surprising! In addition, another function of meeting is that maybe the person you are waiting for is her.
But to say a thousand things, your own destiny is in your own hands, and you don't agree that no one can do anything to you, even your parents.
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Hehe, in this era when there are fewer and fewer men who marry for love, you are quite rare. Hold on, what a pity it should be for someone who hasn't experienced it in his life to make his heart beat faster! But love is not a good thing, there is no saying, married people are often not the most loved, so it is better not to experience the so-called love in this real era....
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Don't pick a mother's middle school!
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As girls, of course, we have the right to pursue our love, and no one can take away this right from us.
As an individual, I like that you have such thoughts, and many people are in the same situation as you, but most of them will struggle a little at first, and then choose to compromise in the end. Cowardice may be a reason, but the latter tend to account for a larger proportion than parents.
I don't agree that accepting an arranged marriage from my parents is filial piety! Our lives are happy and happy, and if our parents worry less about us, won't it also make them happier and happier?
Parents always say that everything we do is to hope that you can live happily in the future.
You can tell your parents with your own practical actions, you can guarantee your future, and you can make your parents happy to the end.
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According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China.
No one may interfere with the freedom of marriage of others.
If you are unfortunate enough to get married, you can file a petition with the local people's court within three months to invalidate the marriage.
An annulled marriage has no legal effect ab initio.
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You can have a good talk with your parents, and make it clear, there are still arranged marriages, why didn't you tell your parents earlier that you don't want to get married now, maybe your parents will understand. Give it a try and good luck!
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Haven't you met? In fact, marriage is completely free now, and if you don't agree, you can't get married. In fact, you can also get in touch with him first, in the way of falling in love.
I believe that his thoughts are not very much about marrying an unfamiliar woman, if the double call is naturally happy, if there is no feeling, I don't think your parents can point a gun at you to get married.
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Big brother, you came from the Qing Dynasty.
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Yes, I never wanted to be lonely until I grew old, and I never thought about never getting married for the rest of my life, I like children, I like the feeling of a family talking and chatting and eating, so I yearn for the love of choosing a person to live old, even if the love becomes family affection in the end, or it fades I can accept it. When I was young, I felt that love was an indispensable thing in life, and at that time, I took love very seriously, and I minded the feeling of heartbeat, and I minded love very much, but it may be that I am getting older, I have seen more and heard more, and I have more and more understanding of what life is, so at this time, I am actually not so much looking forward to love.
But not so much expectation, does not mean that I do not look forward to marriage, many people sometimes, may be the love and marriage mistaken, many people always say, I want to marry the person I love, I want to marry the person I love, but very much time you will find that the person you love may not be suitable for you, and the person who is suitable for you, you may not be so deeply in love, so I think marriage and love, everyone had better not be confused. Marrying a suitable person, I think there will be a lot of contradictions, such as the right door, so that there will be a lot less trouble, and everyone will not have a sense of insecurity, always feel that you take advantage of my family, I want to take advantage of your family, and because of the education that two people have received, the family environment is similar, it is easier to agree on the three views, and it is easier to agree on many small problems in life, and finally small things will reduce a lot of contradictions. Love is love, marriage is marriage, the marriage I have now is what I thought was suitable at the beginning, the right family, the education is comparable, the income is comparable, the personality is suitable, the two people will not have that heart-pounding feeling together in Pizhou, but it will make people feel very comfortable, not tired, will not always want to take and give, maybe in the eyes of many people, this is a marriage that will be settled, but I feel that this is the marriage I want, I like this kind of dull married life.
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