What it s like to help your child with homework

<> tutoring homework for the baby, especially the child has just entered the first grade, the homework habit has not yet been formed, and the homework tutoring for more than an hour every night is done, and I am tired enough after writing, and I really understand that it is not easy to be a parent.

Today's primary school textbooks are much more complicated than in the past, every night to help the baby read the questions, correct her bad sitting posture, and constantly remind her to concentrate on her homework, and the child forgets it for a while, I keep reminding her. When writing homework, I will be distracted for a while, buckle my nails and bite my fingers or play with a pen, just don't start, remind me to be better, and continue to play for a while, homework can be written for more than an hour, and it is inevitable that she can't help but get angry when she doesn't listen, the child is good, and she is wronged, she will cry for a while, and she will say that I forced her. God, I'll force her to do my homework, and sometimes you want to beat her up when you're angry, but you can't help it, and keep telling yourself that it's biological, it's biological.

When I finally finished my homework, I was relieved and relieved. How do you feel that the baby's homework is like being assigned to parents, and after writing her homework, you have to help her check, help her review, and guide her to correct. There is no doubt that tutoring has become a compulsory part of every parent's every evening.

When a child first enters the first grade, many teachers say that when they first enter primary school, they mainly cultivate a good habit of writing homework, and when the habit is formed, it will be easier in the future. So I mainly have the goal of forming good habits for her, put down my mobile phone, put down everything I do, and accompany my children to do homework.

At the beginning, when I didn't have this idea, I was very painful, there were many things in the unit, and I had to report work on my mobile phone at night, and I generally had the habit of listening to books and learning at night. Finally I read from a book that to live in the moment, to be mindful. If I think about other things when I accompany my baby to write homework, and regard this homework as a painful ordeal, one is that I am suffering for wasting time, and the other is that the child does not have a good experience, and reprimanding the child too much is not conducive to the child's growth.

Later, I chose to turn off my phone and accompany her to do her homework. Under my attentive tutoring, my child is writing his homework faster and faster, and he can concentrate on it. I find that sometimes I can also get a lot of surprises, such as suddenly the child's expression skills are very strong, and I know a lot of words that I have not learned, which makes me happy, watching the child progress and grow day by day, I really feel relieved and satisfied, it turns out that tutoring homework can also be a happy thing!

Nowadays, my child's homework is written as quickly as possible, and I can finish my unfinished work as soon as possible when I save money, which is very good.

Tutoring the baby's homework, the biggest 3 feelings are:

Minute by minute, I wonder if this baby is my own?

Doubts about your own abilities every minute, why is it so difficult to discipline a little brat?

Crashing in minutes, the old lady has lived for more than 30 years, and she has never encountered a thing that is as difficult as tutoring homework.

I believe that every parent of a primary school student has such an experience, especially tutoring the younger children in grades 1 to 3.

It seems to us that it is a very simple question, but he can do it wrong, gua, he can spell "gua flower", "du du", he can spell "du disciple", how did this come about?

Child, do you really want to see how your brain grows?

I think that when your mother was a child, although she didn't say that she was at the level of learning gods, she was also at the level of a scholar!

Why don't you inherit your mother's genes that are good at learning?

I want to just roll up my sleeves every minute!

So suspicion is not biological.

When writing homework, all kinds of friction, not serious, not careful, not attentive;

Reason with him, give him a demonstration, give him patience, give him anger, all kinds of methods have been used, today will be better, tomorrow will be the same again.

If there's a good way to solve the problem of doing homework, I'm willing to pay for it.

Red envelopes, that's not a problem at all!

The problem is that this red envelope can't be given out at all, so let the child's father come to counsel, unwillingly, all kinds of shirks, can only go on it by himself.

In the workplace, I'm also a powerful white-boned woman, right?

No matter how big the problem is, no matter how difficult the project is, when it comes to my sister, it's not a piece of cake?

But when I went home to help the baby's homework, I was at a loss and had nothing to do.

Why is there such a hard errand in the world?

The kind that doesn't pay salaries yet!

If you want to experience frustration, right?

Then go and have a baby to help him with his homework.

Before homework, review first.

Many children nowadays come home and don't say a word, pick up their homework and do it, which is not advisable. Don't be in a hurry to do your homework, and briefly review what you learned in school today before doing your homework. As the saying goes, "sharpening the knife does not mistake the woodcutter".

As long as you spend a few minutes reviewing, you will get twice the result with half the effort. It's a great study habit.

Personally, I believe that parents, as their children's first teachers, have the responsibility and obligation to help their children with homework. Because you are a parent who is responsible for educating your children, family education is also very important for your children's growth. When tutoring their children to do homework, parents should pay attention to insisting on guidance and inspiration, guide children to think positively, and cannot directly tell children the answers.

Parents should help their children with their homework, because tutoring their children with homework is not only to help children improve their grades, but also to communicate with parents and children. Parents should pay attention to the methods of tutoring, teach their children to do homework, draw inferences from one another, and flexibly use the curriculum knowledge.

Absolutely. First of all, let the child think independently and complete the homework, and let the child learn to look for information in the textbook when he encounters a problem that he does not know. In the end, I really can't solve it, and then go to parents for counseling.

The first case: comfortable, with a sense of accomplishment. In this case, the child who is generally tutored is more obedient, and he really wants to learn from you, and at the same time, he also remembers what you say and the homework you assign, and can naturally accept the study plan you have formulated for him.

After getting along for a long time, your relationship will gradually get better, and his grades will slowly start, or even better, at this time, your sense of accomplishment will be particularly strong, and your heart will be comforted.

2.The second case: a hard, very slow process.

If the child you are tutoring is a child who does not like to learn, is particularly naughty and mischievous, and does not even listen to the words of parents and teachers, then your tutoring experience may be relatively long. Because you start to slowly try to contact him, try to understand him, start from his heart, understand why he doesn't like to learn, and then guide him step by step to learn, guide him to follow your footsteps, and let him feel that learning is also a very happy thing.

3.The third case: patience is gradually worn out.

If the child you want to tutor is a child with poor academic performance, you have tried many methods, but he still does not understand, or when encountering similar problems, it will not be like this for a long time, if you keep this state, your patience will be consumed, and you will even wonder if you are really not suitable for teaching children, whether your teaching methods are correct, whether they can be accepted by most children, and your heart is very hard.

Preface: When parents tutor their children to write homework, they must master the correct tutoring methods, so as to achieve good results. There are some parents who are impatient, they like to yell when they see their children writing wrong, so they must change their impulsive way.

We must be patient with our children, and they will definitely complete their homework carefully. Let's share with you, what should parents do when tutoring their children in homework?

For children, they need to calm down and think while they are doing their homework. I believe that parents must know very well that if the surrounding environment is too noisy, then there is no way to calm down and solve the problem. Then when the child is doing homework, we should quiet the surrounding sounds, and parents should not play with their mobile phones next to them.

At the same time, if you live in a busy city, then parents must pay attention to the room where the child does homework and try to reduce the volume.

There are many parents who have been staring at their children when they are tutoring their children's homework, and if they see their children's homework speed slow or their children are distracted, then parents will treat their children in a rough way, hoping that their children will focus on learning. But children are prone to problems when doing homework, so it is very normal for them to make mistakes. So it is recommended that parents can do housework when tutoring their children with homework, and we should not keep watching their children, which will make children have great psychological pressure.

When the child writes homework, then parents can cultivate good study habits in the child, and we can let the child write the homework first. Parents can be by their children's side during the process of their homework, and we can watch the children. But don't frown all the time, it's very easy for your child to be afraid.

Parents must be patient when tutoring their children's homework, consider from the child's point of view, relieve their emotions and not be irritable.

The most important thing is to control your emotions, be calm, not impatient, don't yell at the child at will, and teach slowly; Parents should also not do things that are not related to learning, such as children playing with their mobile phones when they are doing homework, which can easily affect their children's learning emotions.

What you should do is to stay with the side and not speak, and wait for the child to finish his homework or the child will learn some questions that he will not do, and then the parents will give guiding advice.

Never get angry, and don't put pressure on your child. When tutoring children to write homework, they must be kind and persuasive, they must tell their children how to learn, do not hit their children, do not scold their children, do not slander their children, respect their children, and control their emotions.