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The former. In many ways, the former is good, and I have known each other for a long time, and it is relatively stable. And he didn't give up because of a long-distance relationship, which shows his sincerity to you, and he can also develop for you. Good man, height is not an issue.
The latter is handsome and immature, can you guarantee that he will be mature after marriage, the choice is yours, don't be too late to save both of you when the time comes.
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Reason tells you that the first is the most reliable.
Now the problem is that you are blinded by fantasy in the face of handsome guys.
The solution is very simple: Don't rashly refuse the request for the second place, and of course, you can't agree directly.
Keep the relationship in the next few months at least until early next year.
If the second place is consistent with you, then you can rest assured.
If there is a tendency for him to be cold, it means that although this man is handsome, he is not reliable.
Another way is to find another girlfriend and ask him out to hang out.
If he is torn between you and her after that, I don't need to say the choice.
That friend had better be your best friend, otherwise you have to grasp and observe the handsome guy's mind.
And one more wordy one: if you end up choosing second place. Then be sure to take care of the emotions in the first place.
At that time, your tone and expression will have a great impact on him, and the boy who can pursue you for two years will definitely not let you down easily.
Not a partner but also a confidant.
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Decisive first ah, dear I also have a time like you Don't mess with your brain at this time You remember Oh, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, fortunately, there was a good sister at that time who pulled me out who was trapped in it, otherwise I guess I will regret it in the future Really, I can't try to be happy for a while, you will regret it in the future You better not contact the second one now You have to have willpower! It's hard for a while, but I won't regret it! Believe me, how good the first one is to you, I want such a boyfriend too, he is willing to come up with ideas for you, develop for you, mature and stable, where to find it, what's wrong with being tall, appearance is really not a problem, you have to live a life, the second one is just a vase, you will regret marrying him.
I really don't want you to go my way, pull you out as soon as possible, you're not greedy, I've had it, everyone will be entangled, relax, feel uncomfortable for a while, you won't regret it. Come on.
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Leave aside the conditions of the two boys. Think about what kind of partner you want and what kind of personality complements your personality. Whoever you are with is more relaxed and self-contained.
Maybe a different perspective and thinking more about your needs will allow you to see your heart very quickly. After all, getting married is a major event in life, you have to face this person for a long time, and you are responsible for yourself.
Looks don't make the difference. How long does temporary spiritual happiness last? You still have to respect your feelings and find someone who can be in harmony with you to spend your life with.
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Temporary grievance: (Seriously, if you are a woman, I will really go up and scratch a few ears and shave for you first, whether you want to or not, you have to go home with me) Do you know how many years you have been used to his love, care, and consideration for you, and it can also be said that it has become the family affection in your eyes now There is a saying that this mountain looks at the mountain high, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot Sooner or later, one day you will reminisce about his kindness to you Obviously the second man is very anxious Think about it You are a smart woman.
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You don't even know what kind of feelings you have for the two of them, and for the sake of your own happiness, I suggest you wait and see, so that you can figure out what you really think first. I think someone who truly loves you will respect you. If you can't even wait, then don't want such a man.
Don't think about who you're going to hurt, because today you don't want to hurt them, tomorrow you're probably going to be bruised. Only when the two are happy can they not suffer.
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Near the water, the first month, no matter what the education is, as long as it is good for you, it is OK, what is good for you is the most important, long-distance relationship will have problems sooner or later, it is recommended not to have a long-distance relationship, although there is a lot of reluctance, but there will also be a long night and a lot of dreams.
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Five years have been good to you? If it were me, I would choose the first one. After all, they have been dating for two years. The difference between five years and five months is really huge. (A man is willing to wait for a woman's five years, which means that he really loves her) I wish you happiness.
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Just find someone you love, more is for nothing, but there are very few long-distance relationships that can be achieved after all, maybe you can stick to it now, but what about the future? There will be many problems, and no matter how much others say, it will be in vain.
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If you have it, why hurt him? Now that I'm already in love with another one, what should I do if I can't rely on it? Be a person worthy of love, so that others will be a person worthy of your love.
Take care of the front one, the back one is what you like, but it's not your reliance.
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If you drag it out like this, it's even worse, and it may hurt both. The first one I think is good, a good choice to get married. If you play a friend, you don't consider getting married and choose the second one.
You also said, accustomed to the existence of the first, you can think about what if he did not exist? What do you do.
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It's impossible to have the best of both worlds, cherish that more precious friendship, I emphasize freedom, because I love a free life, I love this way of life, and I like the feeling of living like this.
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Play first, when will the one who is going to marry you for a long time, just kick the other one and it's over.
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I think you should choose someone who has been dating for two years, and it's good to be mature and steady.
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I think I'll choose the one I've been dating for two years.
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Leave them for a while and let time witness who loves you a little more and who is best for you!
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You have to like what you like, so that you can live happily!
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You just like how good they are for you.
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The second paragraph is good for making friends, and the first paragraph is good for marrying!
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Summary. Hello, happy to answer for you...When two people truly love each other, they will see each other often, and sometimes they will create opportunities to meet.
The two of them don't get tired of staying together all the time, and they can't wait to see each other 24 hours a day. And when you are with each other, it is very natural and not inhibited.
2.Tolerate each other's shortcomings When two people love each other, they see each other as all the strengths. The girl's pretentiousness is cute in the eyes of the boy, and the boy's incomprehensible style is cute in the eyes of the girl.
They don't mind even if they find out about each other's shortcomings, they will think that to love someone is to love all of them, including their shortcomings.
A manifestation of the love between two men.
Hello, happy to answer for you...When two people truly love each other, they will see each other often, and sometimes they will create opportunities to meet. The two of them will not get tired of staying together all the time, and they can't wait to see each other 24 hours a day.
And when you are with each other, it is very natural and not inhibited. 2.Tolerate each other's shortcomings When two people love each other, they see each other as all the strengths.
The girl's pretentiousness is cute in the eyes of the boy, and the boy's incomprehensible style is cute in the eyes of the girl. Even if you find the shortcomings of the other person, you will not mind, and he will think that if you love someone, you should love all of him, including loving their shortcomings.
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I'm going to miss you when I don't see you.
In a relationship, if you really love someone, you will miss it when you are not together, and that kind of miss will be at the top of the conference, and you can't think about it normally. The more you love someone, the more you can't help but want to see him, and they all say that a person who truly loves you will definitely come to see you. Even if the other party is not easy to run to see you, there will still be abnormal misses, and they will run to you if they can't.
Looking at many lovers for a long time, the mentality and longing they have after separation are really real, and generally only those who really love someone can be like this.
To say that I love you is to want to see you all the time, and when I see you, my heart will be at peace. Without hesitation, it is said that if you don't see it for a day, it will be like every three autumns. When you love someone, you will have the emotion of returning to your heart, and you want to confide and share everything with the other party.
Therefore, the person who truly loves you will miss you abnormally and want to see you before he sees you.
Fight and fight when you are together.
Sometimes, love is just so peculiar. When they are not together, they will miss each other, and when they are together, they will quarrel over trivial matters, and even look down on each other. I have to admit that the main manifestation of this kind of mutual dislike is sometimes the more I love someone, the more I will be like this.
It's not that you don't really like the other party, but sometimes you want to prove that you still love each other according to the method of making a big noise. The two of them are quiet together, they can't feel love anymore, and they can only quarrel moderately to arouse the feelings of others, and they can also clearly understand the other party's mentality towards themselves.
It is said that if a person wants to quarrel with you, and no matter how much he quarrels, he can't quarrel, this is true love. And when a person is silent and unwilling to quarrel, it is completely unloved. Therefore, you must cherish the one who still wants to quarrel with you.
Some people have been moved for a lifetime, but they have also been fighting for a lifetime, and this kind of love is very enviable and jealous. Because both of them love each other deeply in their hearts, they will never really quarrel and calculate, which is the main manifestation of deep love for someone. Most of the kind of love that raises eyebrows can't last long.
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They will chat with you when they have time, want to hug you when they see you, and are willing to spend money on you.
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The man who is very good to you, shushs you, helps you solve difficulties, creates surprises for you, creates romance, and spends money on you.
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I miss you like crazy when I don't see you, I make noise when I'm together, and I feel painful when I'm apart.
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A man who truly loves you can see his heart for you in the process of getting along with you. A man who loves you deeply will have these 3 manifestations.
1. Care for you in life.
Truly loving someone will become delicate, and the former rough branches and leaves will become observant, both men and women. And the man who really loves you deeply will spoil you in every way in life, care about you meticulously, and will use practical actions to prove his heart to you. Be there when you need it, be there when you're sad, be happy with you when you're happy.
Therefore, a man who loves you deeply will bring you positive energy, will not make you burdened, and will express his sincerity with sincerity.
2. Take the initiative to compromise and seek harmony when there are contradictions.
A man who truly loves you won't worry too much about you. It is inevitable that there will be contradictions and disputes after getting along for a long time in ordinary life, and the man who loves you deeply will compromise for you and will not have too many quarrels with you, because he loves you, so he can't bear to see you sad, so he is willing to take the initiative to apologize for you. Therefore, every time a man gives in, it is not because of how good you are, but because he loves you and doesn't want to hurt you.
In ordinary life, if a man behaves like this, it proves that he loves you deeply.
3. Respect and support your decision.
To truly love someone is to understand what the other person wants, and after being together for a long time, they will understand all your personality and hobbies clearly, and be able to support you and respect your wishes, which is the real love for you. Therefore, a man can respect your decisions in life, and will not act according to his own wishes, but will consult you on everything. You will support you in everything you do, respect your decisions, really know what you need, and not be perfunctory.
A man with this kind of behavior must love you deeply.
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Whether a person really loves you or not depends on the performance of these three aspects, which is clear at a glance.
1. People who truly love you will become active.
In fact, about love, it depends on how much a person loves you, and the person who truly loves you must not be able to suppress his emotions and will take the initiative to find you.
Those who will unconsciously think of you, remember your preferences, take the initiative to contact you, and give you the best love are all from the heart.
He doesn't like people who only know what they say, but don't do anything they do, and who always talk nicely.
You must know that you can't control your emotions if you really like someone, and you will involuntarily look for you, want to stay with you, and let you feel his sincerity and love.
Love is always obvious, if a person really loves you, they can't help but get closer, try their best to understand you, take the initiative to show goodwill, understand everything about you, and do their best to make you feel his heart.
2. People who truly love you will give priority to you.
It is said that whether a person loves you or not depends on your position in his heart, the more people who love you, the more they will naturally take you to heart, and they will consider your feelings and give priority to your position in everything they do.
In some details of life, we will take care of your mood and ask for your opinion.
As long as it is someone who truly loves you, no matter what he encounters, he will not ignore you, but firmly choose you, believe in you, and stand by your side without reservation.
Love is like this, if you are in a person's heart, he will give you enough favoritism.
In fact, love is never reasonable, and the person you love will be treated specially, there is no so-called fairness, and you will only want to return the best love to you.
Therefore, in the eyes of the person who loves you, you are that special existence, if he truly loves you, he will definitely consider you well, take care of your emotions, and follow your wishes.
3. People who truly love you will protect you.
In a relationship, to see whether a person is good to you or not, in fact, it is not to see how good he is to you when he is good, but to see how bad he is to you when he is bad.
True love, for better or worse, will take care of you as much as possible, protect you, and prevent you from being hurt in any way.
If a person loves you, he will try his best to be good to you, will take the initiative to take care of you, and put you properly.
Even if there are any setbacks, they will try to take care of you first, and they will rather ignore themselves than make you sad, and will take the initiative to take responsibility and pressure.
If in a relationship, a person only cares about his own feelings and interests, and the first thing he thinks about when he encounters things is himself, and even pushes you out as a shield, such a person is not true love.
True love can stand the test, it will want you to live well from the bottom of my heart, and I will do my best to protect you.
Because only girls say that it is not normal for two boys to hold hands, they themselves are discriminating against boys. Girls doing boys' things are called manly, and boys doing girls' things are just sissies or something, which is discrimination in itself.
Whoever you love, you will be with whomever you love.
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