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Usually must take the child out more, take the baby to participate in social activities, more than two years old is the child begins to appear in the stage of social sprouts, take the child out to play, mainly to guide the child to communicate with people. Don't force your child, it's all about encouragement and guidance. Usually interact with your child more, such as kissing, hugging, liking and kissing, and other intimate behaviors, and expressing your love for her with your baby, which can bring your child and her closer.
Be sure to play with the child, and in the process of playing, the distance between the child and the person is pulled in very quickly.
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This is normal, the baby is so old that there is this period, parents can usually take the baby to contact with people, you can take the baby to the playground or park to contact with people, take the baby and children to play together, and slowly the baby will get used to it.
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Be sure to pay more attention to the child, squat down, communicate face-to-face on an equal footing with some things he can understand and like, and then slowly instill some things to do and what not to do, talk less and do more, and teach by example. My three-year-old nephew and I are usually role-playing, I play Xiong Da when he plays the bald head, Ultraman when he plays Ultraman, I play the monster, and I play the thief when he plays the policeman. If he falls in love with this type of game, we can add a character and slowly let him play with multiple people at the same time, have fun, and then he will listen to you.
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Be concerned about your child's feelings and help him. Children are not close to other people, which makes parents feel uncomfortable, and the child's feelings should be considered, only in the eyes, in the heart, not exposed, do not force the child. For example, when a child is reluctant to socialize with others because of shyness, parents should first accept this and then give concrete help to overcome this timidity.
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Before the child is about two years old, the child's main social object is the main caregiver, such as the parents, and in the eyes of the child at this stage, other children are actually more like toys. There are also many times when several children at the same stage are together, they are just a few parallel lines, each playing with each other and not communicating. These are all normal phenomena.
It is advisable to first let the child see how the parent himself deals with others, which may be more effective than simple verbal encouragement for the child.
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In fact, I think that children's current emotional bond will only focus on one person at the same time, which is quite normal at this age, and there is no need to take it too seriously. But if you want him to be close to other people at the same time, you can use tools such as picking up his favorite toys and interacting with him.
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In our hometown, there is a saying that boys generally speak late, so they will be sensible later, my family is two years old and a month, and they will only call me. I can't say anything else, and I can distinguish family members. I also went to the doctor, and the doctor said that if the child is not active at this stage, has little interaction with the parents, and has a more wooden expression, then he can go to check, which is completely normal.
Don't worry, be patient for a while.
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Get in touch with other people and take your baby out to play, and it will improve slowly.
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It may be a kind of life-fearing behavior, so you can let him adapt slowly.
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First of all, "clingy" is not a bad habit, but a manifestation of the child's mental maturity, indicating that the child's judgment and choice ability have been further developed, he can judge the difference between doing things alone and being with his mother, and he also has the ability to make himself happier with his mother.
Secondly, 1-2-year-old children are in a clear period of attachment relationship, and their preference for specific people becomes stronger, so they are more likely to have "separation anxiety", and they feel uneasy when they leave their caregivers.
From this point of view, what you said about "this kind of clinginess has never been seen since birth, when I was busy with him in the past, he played alone, and never followed me to ask for a hug" The situation is actually very normal Children are at different stages of mental development, and their behavior is naturally different! Hope.
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Spend as much time as you can with her.
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