My child is timid outside but active at home, how can I help her change?

According to your child's lively performance at home, it can be seen that the child's body and mind are no problem, but the outside society is very strange to the child, only take the child to the outside to express himself, cultivate his child's self-confidence, so that the child will behave outside, will not be shy and timid, and cultivate their children's positive performance is the most important.

Parents should encourage their children to become bold and confident, so that their children's social skills will improve.

Timidity and shyness is a bad character trait that is present in many children. If you want to change your child's timidity and shyness, you must first create an atmosphere for your child to dare to express himself. Parents should create a can for their children at home"Be upfront and encourage yourself to express yourself"to cultivate children's courage to speak up fearlessly.

When children have something to say, parents should guide them to speak up positively. In addition, in life, often take children to participate in some social activities, and find more opportunities for children to socialize and play with other children.

How to change children's timidity and shyness?

See the essence through the superficial phenomena in children's lives, children are not confident, parents should first educate themselves, first make themselves confident, every child needs us to cultivate with our hearts. People's self-confidence is very important in a person's life, and even in our lives are very important, why some children usually study well, can not get results, the reason is that parents have too high expectations for their children, too concerned about their children's grades, or children are not confident.

Start by cultivating your self-confidence and make yourself confident first. What kind of environment we give our children will become. It is only by improving our self-confidence that we can help our children.

Encourage your child to talk and express more. If the child is particularly shy, parents can let the child smile and talk in the mirror, and after a while, let the child talk to someone he knows and is close to. Parents should give their children more encouragement and tell him that it is not so difficult to interact with people and that he is very happy.

Create opportunities for children to socialize with others. Parents can take their children to play at the homes of relatives and friends, or invite other children to play at home, and parents can let their children receive guests, serve tea and pour water, etc., which can effectively exercise children's communication skills. When you go out to play, you can consciously ask your child for directions, shopping, etc.

Take your children out to "see the world" from time to time. Many children are shy because their families rarely take them out and stay at home. People's courage is trained, and if you are in constant contact with people and playing outside, children will become more and more courageous.

Teach your child the right communication skills and use them. Tell kids you're awesome! You are a child full of sunshine and confidence!

Children who dare to express their thoughts! A good boy who is knowledgeable! Civilized and polite good boy!

Reasons why children are timid and shy:

Personality reasons. Character cultivation is a long-term process, if the child is introverted and shy, you can take the child out to interact with others, or the parents themselves should strengthen their interaction with them, and encourage the child to show more and express more. Lack of capacity.

Sometimes parents' demands can be stressful for children. Many parents like to let their children behave more in front of others, so that their children can earn more face for themselves. But these are not the child's concerns, and he is not even willing to do them.

But in the eyes of adults, they will think that they are shy. Personal Privacy. Everyone has their own privacy, and small children are no exception.

But it is precisely many people who ignore the privacy of their children and treat their children as transparent people everywhere. If it is a child's privacy and shyness, it does not need to be paid too much attention to, or even downplayed.

Then you can take your child out to play more, let him have contact with children, and then teach him at home not to be afraid of others when he goes out, but to dare to say and do.

We must respect our children, we must constantly encourage our children, and parents must have a good guiding role to keep their children confident.

Let your child go out to play more, and be sure to let your child go out to make friends more, and don't restrict your child's development at this time.

There are many children who are very active at home, but once they are very dull outside, they are unwilling to communicate with others, which is actually an inferiority complex, parents should make their children's personalities more lively, and dare to contact people outside, so that children can make more friends, if children dare not socialize, they will become more dull and inferior, and even affect children's mental health and share a few small tips.

Parents should usually take their children to contact the new environment, for example, when parents go to a friend's house, they can also bring their children with them, so that the children can slowly get in touch with the new environment, and the children's courage will naturally become bigger, in fact, the children have a natural fear of strange things, so that the children try to contact this strange world, so that the children become more bold, parents should encourage the children more, let the children try.

Parents should encourage their children to communicate and contact with others. Some children are timid and more active at home, but they become dull when they go outside, parents must become the backing of their children, so that children can rely on them, so that children can more easily express their inner thoughts, in order to become more active in a strange environment, which is inseparable from the support of parents, when the child is timid, parents should be behind the silent support, cheering for the child.

Parents should cultivate an optimistic and open-minded personality in their children. Parents should accompany their children more, take their children to travel everywhere, experience different customs and cultural environments, increase children's knowledge, increase children's knowledge, children's personality and family environment have a great impact, so parents should become optimistic and open-minded in daily life, do not let children be too depressed, to cultivate children's independence, must not be high to order children, purely take the initiative to contact the little friends in life, children will naturally become more bold.

Now in life, we should encourage children to help children more, you can give children some ways and methods, followed by taking more children to participate in some parties, taking children to some crowded places, you can go to amusement parks, you can let children give speeches on the stage.

Parents should encourage their children to have their own friends and take them out to play more, so that they can better integrate into unfamiliar groups.

Children who are timid outside the home but are active at home should help them make changes: this is when parents should improve their children's interpersonal skills, so that children can take the initiative to play with other children, so that your children can see a lot of good friends. Mom and dad can let their children take the initiative to share their small toys with other children, and carry out social networking according to the small toys**, so that other children can accept your children, and also let your children quickly integrate into the group.

Since children are very fond of playing with toys, and small toys are a social one, according to the sharing of toys can let your children be warmly welcomed by other children, and also let your children play well with them. So if the child doesn't know how to play with the other child, you can ask him to share the toys.

Parents can take their children out to play, and the areas for this kind of play can be children's playgrounds in shopping malls, or playgrounds, and there are many children in these places, and they are very lively. In the process of playing games, this kind of child can play with your child, after all, your child can also play with them, you can let your child give a lot of good friends, and can also improve its interpersonal skills. Therefore, parents should bring their children out to see the world, so that they can develop their children's vision.

Most children tend to be unscrupulous at home, and they are very shy after going out, because in the case of being at home, parents and grandparents are more accustomed to children, so children will be naughty at home, and they are not afraid of anything.

After going out, no one will be as accustomed to children as parents, and children will become very shy, so parents should cultivate their children's concept of right and wrong when they are at home, and don't spoil their children too much. If parents want their children to have fun outside, they need to improve their children's social work experience, let them feel more things, store essential work experience according to what they see and think, and then internalize it as their own ability drive.

After the child has previous work experience, and encounters similar problems in the future, he will be able to deal with things correctly through relevant experience, and it is not easy to be at a loss and will not appear timid. Parents can usually take their children out more, walk more in the nearby community, let their children socialize more**, make some new children, and improve their ability to get along with others in the process of getting along with other children, so that the children will not be too shy when they go out next time.

The best thing to do is to take your child out to play more often, so that the child will not be timid when he gets used to the outside environment.

Encourage your child to socialize when he is away, but don't force him to socialize.

The child is more timid outside, indicating that the child is more afraid of life. Parents should take their children to participate in more outdoor activities, so that they can be more cheerful outside.

Parents attach great importance to their children, they want their children to be cheerful and lively, and they hope that their children will make more good friends. But some children are naturally more introverted, they are very timid outside, and they don't dare to play with other children at all. If these children are active in the family, they can take the initiative to help their parents with some small household chores.

It can be seen that children's social skills are relatively poor, and they know how to communicate with strangers. So how can parents help their children socialize?

At this time, parents should improve their children's social skills, so that children can take the initiative to play with other children, so that your children can meet more good friends. Parents can let their children take the initiative to share their toys with other children, and socialize through toys, so that other children can accept your children, and also let your children quickly integrate into the group. Because children are very fond of playing with toys, and toys are a medium for social interaction, by sharing toys can make your children popular with other children, and also let your children play with them very well.

So if the little one doesn't know how to play with other children, you can let him share the toy.

Parents can take their children out to play, these places can be playgrounds in shopping malls, or amusement parks, these places have a lot of children, they are very lively. In the process of playing, these children will be able to play with your little ones, after all, your little ones can also play with them, which will allow your little ones to make a lot of good friends and improve their social skills. Therefore, parents should take their children out to see the world more often, so as to broaden their children's horizons.

If you want to help the sedan chair to socialize, you should need to encourage the child more, and then tell the child that you really have to talk about the excellence of the line, and also take the child to the kindergarten to make friends, you can take the child to the amusement park, let the child meet more children.

Children react by imitating adults to get their own Xingjing Brother Bridge, so Jia Liang Mengchang still plays a major role. Secondly, often take the children to play outdoors, at least 2 hours a day, play with the children in the community, or go out to a farther place to walk more, and slowly socialize.

Some parents find that their children are very timid outside, but very active at home. If this happens, it may be because the child is very introverted, or it may be because the child is afraid of strangers, so this situation will occur, and there are many babies who will habitually go to their parents when they are young. However, when they are outside, they will not speak, and when others touch the child, it is also very noticeable, which can cause the child to cry.

If we want our children to change this situation, we also suggest that parents should tell their children that others have no malicious intentions and that others just want to play with you. If you can let go of yourself, it will also allow you to gain more good friends, so that children can let children realize that others are not malicious, others play by themselves, and children can also let go of themselves to play with others. We need to let children know that not all people will hurt you when they approach you, for example, some children share toys with you, maybe because they like you.

If we want our children to become more extroverted, we also suggest that parents should encourage their children more often, so that their children can accumulate self-confidence, so that children may become more extroverted. Parents can't be stingy with their praise, and they can't often belittle their children, if we often belittle children, it is likely to cause children to become more and more inferior.

If parents want to educate their children well, the education method is very important, we must praise the children more, so that the children realize their excellence. In this way, it can also make effective improvements for children, and we must encourage children to play with other children.