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Children's character education is also a headache for parents, many parents do not know how to cultivate children's character, so it will lead to children more introverted, the next will be introduced to you, when children are more introverted, how to cultivate children's courage?
First of all, we must know that children have such a situation, most of them have a certain relationship with the education of their parents, it may be that the parents are overly doting, or it may be that the parents are overprotective and cause the children to dare not try new things, nor dare to deal with everything in the outside world, so parents can take their children to go to more crowded places when they are fine, so that the children see more things and people, so that there will be no timidity for people and things. Secondly, if parents find that their children are more introverted and less courageous, they should be anxious to guide, not yelling at their children, yelling at their children for a long time, which will also cause certain damage to their children's psychology, resulting in their children's personalities becoming more and more introverted.
In addition, when children are more introverted, parents can also buy some picture books, with the help of the stories in the picture books to tell their children some truth, although we are now more introverted, but if we continue to develop like this for a long time, not only will there be no children to play with us, but at the same time, teachers will not like us very much, so children are very afraid, so they will gradually force themselves to open their hearts to accept others.
Finally, parents must set a correct example for their children in life, if parents are more introverted and do not speak in life, then children will imitate their parents' behavior, so there will be an introverted personality, so parents must also pay attention to their behavior in life.
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Be sure to encourage your child more, let your child be exposed to some new things, and encourage your child to communicate positively, so that your child can have a happy childhood and take your child on adventures.
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I think we can use games, Lego, movies, shopping and travel to develop children's courage.
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The child is introverted and timid, and parents can slowly cultivate and educate him, so that he can have an optimistic attitude, self-confidence and temperament, and a mature and stable attitude.
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Parents should give their children more opportunities, let him exercise his courage more, let go and let him do things on his own.
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You should find some suitable opportunities to train him, such as letting him perform his talents in front of relatives and friends, and encourage him, and gradually he will like this feeling of being affirmed, and then be more willing to express himself.
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Take your children to walk around places with a lot of people, see more things and people, and recognize them, and they will not be timid to deal with things and people, and they will be more and more bold. The child's character comes from the family's education, if parents find that the child is timid, they should give guidance, and the child's character should not affect the child's growth. With the help of stories in books, reason with your child and tell him that there is nothing to fear, nothing to fear.
Be brave children and set some examples. Whether you understand it or not, I have also talked about it. I hope he will understand one day.
<> parents should respect their children, do not beat and scold their children, do not compare their children with other children's children, do not make excessive demands on their children, do not give negative hints to their children, and encourage and praise their children more. If you are timid, you have to deal with more people, so how can you deal with more people? There is a good way to teach children to set up a stall, and at the same time, they can learn to survive and exercise their courage.
Fear is a two-sided thing, on the one hand, a slight fear can protect children in time, such as parents to educate children to pay attention to safety when crossing the road, if there is no respect for the system, fear of traffic accidents, a pair of indifferent, not afraid of heaven and earth, it is equivalent to being in danger at all timesTrain your child's language skills at home. Our family often holds a small family party for my daughter to host, she likes it very much, and every time she can perform her own show, tongue twisters, children's songs, and more performances, she will be more confident when she goes out.
Just a little timid. **Suggestion: Be good at discovering children's strengths and advantages, praise and encourage more.
No blame, no criticism. Gradually, slowly take your child to play in places you don't want to go and places you don't like, gradually cultivate your child's adaptability and self-confidence, and don't show timidity and fear in front of your child. Also, children are particularly afraid of the sound of firecrackers and the sound of the line, and such timidity can only give children time to adapt slowly.
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Parents should accompany their children more, exercise more, give him more opportunities, let him participate in more group activities, go out to see more, walk, let him contact all aspects of things, and let him be good after a long time. In short, don't lock him up at home and isolate him. Be sure to let him have more contact with people and small animals and all kinds of things.
Only in this way can his mind and courage be exercised.
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Introversion is just a kind of personality, in fact, introversion is not a bad character, and it does not necessarily have to be changed, but if you want your child to become brave, you can take it step by step, give your child some simple tasks first, let your child get a sense of accomplishment from it, and gradually cultivate self-confidence and courage.
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When the child is young, you can take him outside to play, contact different children, let them think independently and make friends, and parents can communicate more with their children.
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The best way is to spend more time with your children and go out with them for outdoor sports and exercises, read more with your children, read some picture books with more positive energy, and play more parent-child games with your children.
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<>First of all, as adults, as parents, and as teachers, we must respect children as they are.
Some of his children are introverted by nature, and he is not very talkative. Some children are more willing to talk, and they are more gregarious. People are like that, and there are many kinds of people.
First of all, we can't artificially shape our children into a certain person according to our ideas. Isn't it a beauty for a child to be relatively silent and not very communicative? I think first of all, don't use our standards and our ideas to shape the child who belongs to us, that is, I think we still have to respect the original state of the child.
But if the child is really excessive, that is, he is not an introvert, he has already done that part of us is that he is afraid to communicate with others, then he can't go out, and he is very timid. Then I think this may be two aspects, that is, he is actually a kind of lack of self-confidence, and what we need to do are two things.
There are some ways to encourage your child, try it: for example, arrive early at the party to let him slowly adapt to the crowded environment; Let him prepare in advance instead of letting him play on the spot; Invite children of the same age to play at home; The exemplary role of his parents allows him to learn to imitate how adults get along with each other; Give your child space and don't rush to finish their sentences.
I used to be a very boring and introverted person, and when I was in junior high school, I was very serious, and I even suffered from depression.
I don't know how the subject's younger brother is treated at school, now many children in the class will bully introverted classmates, the more introverted they bully, the more introverted they will bully, which will cause introverts to be more introverted, and the abuser will become more serious. That was the case when I was in junior high school. If the younger brother is hurt at school, the subject should pay attention to it.
It can be seen that the encouragement and trust of parents is a great encouragement and affirmation for children, allowing them to bravely pursue their dreams and bloom with the dazzling brilliance of rumors!
As a parent, the ultimate task is not to cultivate the children of your imagination, but to help them become better versions of themselves.
In the process of accompaniment,Parents also need to continue to learn and explore how to get along with them, so as to be targeted, in order to become a growth help for their children
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The best way is to take the child out for sports and exercise, exercise can make the child more cheerful, and also Li Jiaoshan should accompany the child more parent-child games and parent-child picture book reading, so that the child will have a more sense of security, which will be more cheerful.
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Let your child socialize more. It can create a small circle of friends for children, so that children know how to communicate with others.
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I think I can take my child to participate in more summer camp activities, so that he can take the initiative to meet some friends, so that he can naturally cultivate the child's courage.
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Children are more introverted and dare not speak in kindergarten, I believe this is a problem that many parents will encounter, the child is very lively and active at home, but once he goes to the kindergarten, he becomes very introverted. Therefore, if you want to exercise your child's courage, first of all, parents should not always force their children to behave extroverted, which will only make their children more nervous and the situation will be more serious, and they should find solutions to the problem from the front. Secondly, parents should also help their children to build self-confidence, because children may be more timid, because children lack self-confidence, and doubt whether they can do something, so parents can usually encourage their children more, so that children believe that Yuan Wuzi is capable of playing at the best level.
If parents can also take their children to communicate with some strangers, especially some cheerful and lively peers, or take their children to some crowded occasions, let their children deal with strangers, and slowly let their children become cheerful and willing to socialize with others.
Guide your child to speak in public every day.
Parents can usually guide their children to speak in crowded places, I know that children are timid and shy, in fact, it is the biggest obstacle in children's interpersonal communication, some parents will overprotect their children It is easy for children to have a tendency to be timid and afraid, so the best way for children to overcome this character is to let children speak in public. In fact, if the child says not very well, there is a stumbling situation, don't correct it immediately, let alone sarcastically or blame the child, you can encourage the child to say that the child is very good, and slowly the child will gradually forget about shyness.
Teach your child how to build relationships with others.
Parents can also teach their children how to build a good interpersonal relationship with others, such as telling them what to do if others ask them for help. At the same time, if others help you, you must express your gratitude and share what you like with others, and in the process you will let your children know how to deal with others, and they will be more proficient.
Finally, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's independence when their children are young, let them do what they can, and let their children learn to take care of themselves.
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You can take your children to travel, you can also take your children to play in haunted houses, if you have free time, you can also take your children to participate in some extracurricular activities, and you can often take your children to watch Chi Oak movies, and you can often take your children downstairs to play with your children.
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After the child is out of school, parents can take the child to play with other children on the playground of the kindergarten, and the child is familiar with other children.
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You can usually take your child to more social occasions, and you can let your child communicate with others more, so that you can train your child's courage.
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Don't label your child and don't judge easily. The bottom line of being a parent is not to face the characteristics of children's evaluation, such as "timid" and "not brave". Every time a child hears an evaluation from a parent, it is actually a strong psychological suggestion.
For example, please don't think about a white bear wearing a bikini, you will still unconsciously have the image of a white bear wearing a bikini in your mind, this is the influence of labels on people's psychological suggestion. Children's hearts are fragile, please do not hurt your child with casual words and hit your child's self-confidence.
Do what you like and grasp the key. Interest is the best teacher, first follow the child's interest, and slowly bring the best state by the parents. Children can only do well when they feel good.
The understanding and love from parents is the best boost for children to be brave. If you use it well, you can achieve twice the result with half the effort.
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Every child's personality is different, some children are more outgoing and lively, while others are more introverted and unwilling to communicate with others. Children who are in love and extroverts will have their own advantages and disadvantages, but in daily life, children with an extroverted personality will be more sociable, and will be more proactive, easier to make friends, and able to integrate into the unfamiliar environment faster. Therefore, introverted children should practice their courage and adaptability.
However, if you find that your child is very introverted, you should usually let your child go to the outside world to contact Yu A, and you can take your child to play outdoors when you have free time on weekends, so that your child can get closer to nature, and don't always worry about your child getting dirty clothes or falling and hurting when you are playing. If children stay at home for a long time, they will only become more and more introverted and more autistic, so parents should spend more time with their children in the process of growing up, rather than overprotecting their children. Moreover, parents should also let their children play with children of the same age, which can promote friendship between children, and also make children become more confident and courageous in the subtle way.
If parents find that their children are very introverted, especially lacking self-confidence and courage, they can cultivate a wide range of interests and hobbies in their children. As the saying goes, in addition to learning in school when children are in primary school, parents can also enroll their children in some interest classes on weekends, whether it is sports or art or calligraphy, as long as the child is interested in something, you can basically let the child try it, so that the child can be more confident in the process of communicating with others.
Introverted children especially need parental encouragement, and parental encouragement is a good medicine for children. When children make progress in learning or getting along with others, parents can give their children timely encouragement, which can increase their confidence. Parents don't have to lose material rewards when giving encouragement to their children, sometimes praise the child verbally, and the child will be very happy.
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