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It's better to stay away from him. As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. If he has the first split, he will inevitably have a second time. Don't believe the lies he will change.
It is very important for girls to be confident and self-reliant. Only when you are strong and excellent can you cope with the many uncertainties in your future life. Naturally, it will also have immunity to scumbags.
The above is purely a personal opinion, if there is anything inappropriate, please understand, thank you.
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In fact, the prodigal son does not change his money, if he really wants to return to this love that really belongs to him, he can really promise that there will not be a next unbeautiful experience, after thinking about it, he can't say no, he can't say that it can't, as long as the hearts of two people really yearn for the direction of happiness, everything is a happy enough story that can harvest the most genuine love.
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Can the scumbag still be together after being exposed? Personally, I think it's better not to be together. Because once a scumbag splits his legs, there will be a second time because it is a matter of character.
It proves that this man has a quality problem. Surround yourself with people like that. There will be no happiness in the future.
It's best to break up with him after finding out he's splitting his legs.
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It's best not to be together, because if he has the first time, it will inevitably have a second time, so don't believe his rhetoric, you won't be happy if you live with such a person.
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If it were me, I would definitely not be together after encountering the scumbag's splitting and exposing it. With the first time, there will be a second time, and even if you get married, it is possible to have an extramarital affair.
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The scumbag's splitting was exposed, and the arrest or evidence proved that the man was splitting. As his lover or other half, he resolutely does not live with such a scumbag.
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You know it's a scumbag, and now you're splitting with someone else. As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. It depends on what you think, and you can tolerate what he does.
He has the first time, and there will be many times later. I think since you've decided you're a scumbag, make up your mind to leave as soon as possible. Why bother, find another one and start over.
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Can the scumbag still be together after being exposed?
This depends on your own mentality, whether you can tolerate his approach, he has this time, there will definitely be many times later, you must think clearly, what advantages do you like about him?
The advice is to get out early.
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Do I still need to be consulted on this issue?
If you really need advice, you're foolish.
If you decide that "you don't marry him", and you are also ready to "marry a chicken and a dog", whether you marry a monk or not and become a nun, it is also your own choice, and others have no right to interfere!!
If you don't reach the realm of "don't marry him", then you should have the answer yourself!!
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If you are sure that you are a scumbag, you should make up your mind to break up!
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I already know that I am a scumbag, and I still want to be with him! Do you like to give him a split? Is there no other man besides him?
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The scumbag split his legs: You still want to be with him, is it disgusting or not
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I know it's a scumbag.
And go for revenge. Do you want to abolish your martial arts when you encounter a mad dog?
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The best way to retaliate against a seamless person is to snub the other person, read the other person's routine, and use his routine against him.
1. Coldly treat each other.
The best way to deal with a scumbag is not to be distracted and learn to be indifferent to the other party, so that the scumbag can be taboo and afraid. The definition of a scumbag is not only in terms of messing with flowers and grass, stepping on two boats, but also a kind of scumbag is the kind of scumbag who is hot and cold to his friends, not taking the initiative and not being responsible, but the latter type of scumbag makes many women go up without hesitation, and likes to comfort themselves that the other party is just slow to heat.
2. Read each other's routines.
How to take revenge on a scumbag, the best way is to know how to love yourself, the more we know how to love ourselves, the better we can become, and naturally the scumbag has nothing to do with you. Emotionally, the most worthwhile thing is to be able to pay regardless of it, and the most terrible thing is to keep giving, and to give all your heart and express all your love with your own enthusiasm, which is the easiest to fall into the other party's routine.
3. Use his routines to deal with him.
Scumbags all have routines. Learn to trick the other party in the other party's way, and your high rank is the best revenge for him. Sasha is a woman who is very serious about relationships, and she has experienced many relationships, but each relationship has an unsatisfactory ending, but despite this, she is still willing to adjust her mentality to face the next relationship.
Retaliation
Basic paraphrasing is an attack on someone who criticizes themselves or harms their own interests.
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I am most afraid of my wife being separated:
He didn't care about these things at all before betraying his family life, and he didn't think he would be discovered, but what he was most afraid of after betraying his marriage was that his wife and children would not forgive him, and then he would feel deeply guilty for breaking up his wife.
2. I am most afraid of losing my reputation:
A man loves face, if his reputation is discredited, he will fall into a panic, a man has this situation, his future may be limited, and a man will have a lot of stumbling blocks in his career.
3. Afraid of both people and money:
Once these things are gone, then everything is gone, not only the wife will leave, but the lover will also leave, and in the end, the scumbag will find that he has not gained anything, betrayed the marriage, his reputation has been ruined, his career has been affected, and finally there is a person with no money.
4. Afraid of free strong women:
Strong women believe in freedom and desire freedom, although they are married to their husbands, they have no concept of a small family. Where do you want to travel, and you won't ask for your husband's opinion. Wind and fire and girlfriends have a trip to go, completely ignoring her husband's feelings.
They don't trust men and don't intend to care about them.
5. Afraid of lack of love and weak women:
I don't know if I was deficient in calcium when I was a child, and I have been lacking love when I grew up, and I always feel that my husband didn't love me before, but I don't know that I am not as gentle, virtuous, beautiful and lovely as before. In the world of such a woman, there is only love, and material things are secondary. She feels insecure all day long, and she finds a way to stick to her husband, which can be called the most feared scumbag.
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Hello! It's a pleasure to meet you here. Hope mine helps you.
See your question: "Every time you encounter a scumbag who cheats and splits his legs, he has to die, how should I resolve it?" "After that, I'll give you a warm hug in the air.
You can feel the anger in your heart when you face the deception and hurt of the scumbag.
First of all, when you meet a scumbag, no one wants to. It's not your fault. But you also have to think about yourself in the process of identifying scumbags and interacting with scumbags.
Some people are **, needless to say, just to cheat money and sex. But some scumbags, were you trained to be scumbags? Your hysteria, your irritability, etc., are pushing him out.
Indeed, it is really sad and sad to face the deception and hurt of a scumbag in your emotions, especially when you have done your best to pay for this relationship, only to find that all your efforts have been disappointed, and at that moment there is really anger that wants to tear the whole world apart. So, in the face of being hurt by a scumbag, allow yourself to have angry emotions.
Secondly, when we see and accept our emotions, we can no longer let ourselves have emotions to express, although this will make us feel the joy of treating others in the way of others to a certain extent, but the unmet expectations and needs behind our emotions are still there, and they are still not well responded to and satisfied. Therefore, we need to explore the hidden needs behind emotions through angry emotions, and then try to express our emotions in a better way, such as when you feel the scumbag's words and behaviors, making you feel uncomfortable and hurt, be brave enough to say your true feelings in your heart at that moment, and the way you want to be treated. Make him aware of the harm his actions have caused you, and whether to change it or not is his own business, but you have expressed in a soft and powerful way that you cannot be hurt and that you have the right to choose to end the harm.
Finally, in your description, I saw that you said that you have encountered scumbags many times. Then you need to be consciously aware of why you always meet scumbags, whether you have some of the same patterns in the process of getting along with these so-called scumbags, what they are, and this is the part that you need to grow up alone.
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If you are one of those who like him, you will be very angry, and you will be very angry for your stupidity, thinking that it is not worth paying such feelings, you should think more about yourself, love yourself more, learn to let yourself go, don't let yourself be immersed in this bad relationship, travel more, breathe fresh air, meet more people, meet more partners, don't let yourself be alone, let yourself learn more, and become better in knowledge, so that you will meet better people.
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I think you should calm your mentality, since the other party is a scumbag, it's okay not to be with the other party, if you do this, you will lower your status.
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I think why do you want to resolve it, you are doing this very right scumbag, that is, they should be punished, and they dare to be scumbags, so they should bear these consequences.
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