Is it bad to be na ve Do you need to be real to be a human being, is it not good to be too real?

"Innocent", what a beautiful word, in the eyes of your mother, you will always be a child. - This is beautiful innocence. However, sometimes "naivety" can be understood as "simplicity", because of your simplicity, it is easy to trust others, and it is easy to be hurt.

This is the other side of innocence I think that having an innocent childlike heart is what everyone wants, but we must also be cautious and not be deceived all the time. Here's wish: the innocent smile will always bloom on your face!

There's nothing wrong with naivety, there's nothing wrong with it at all.

Naïve people are happy, simple, and don't complicate things.

Think of people very well, be friends with anyone, and be kind to others.

It's the bad guys who take advantage of our naivety.

Therefore, we must adjust our naivety at any time according to our age and environment, and we must adapt to the changeable people and things, and naivety cannot solve things.

Maintain an innocent mood, we will be happy, but the attitude should be slowly matured.

We're all maturing from the naïve side, but the emotional people, the kind people, the naïve ones take a long time.

Innocence does not mean stupidity, but you have to be tactful, and sometimes, innocence is also a kind of self-protection.

Naivety is just your psychological immaturity, it doesn't mean that you are stupid or stupid, hehe has to believe in everything you do.

There's nothing wrong with being naïve, it's silly and naïve. Society is complex. Your naivety may not be rewarded by society. You can be naïve with your best friends, but you must not be so naïve as to be naïve with strangers.

Sometimes it's good to be naïve, but some people will think that your naivety is pretending, and thus he will have a bad impression of you. He may think that you are a different person, but if you are a naïve person, then after a long time, others will really understand you and think that you are a lovely person. In my personal opinion, naïve people are people who think things very simply, that is, those who have no scheming, and such people should be very popular.

Naivety means ignorant of the world.

You should think about it.

in this society.

Not all of them will be on your side.

Your friends will lie to you, probably playing a joke on you.

However, when it comes to society.

Not all people will like your naivety.

Someone has said the same thing to me, and I think we might be the same kind of people. In the past, I actually hated those hypocrites, thinking that they were immoral and would deceive and mislead others. Now, growing up, especially when I face society independently, I think that some of those hypocrisies are correct, because hypocrisy and disguise can sometimes be well-intentioned, can maintain or regulate some relationships, and are valuable.

But those who cover up their mistakes and deceive or tell lies or misguidance in order to gain face or financial benefits are still shameful. However, disguise and disguise have long been one of the social tools used by human beings, and many times they are also necessary, and it is not correct to not lie at all as it is to lie all the time.

Also, you directly express your true emotions at all times, I used to have this, but now it seems to be a sign of immaturity, there is a boundary between people and others, even if they are intimate, they can't be completely integrated, you must treat yourself and his penitential people separately, just like the backstage and presented, it can't be exactly the same, it can be real in the right person and the right situation, otherwise you will lose the protective film that blocks yourself and becomes easy to get hurt or hurt others.

Third, in general, everyone will like sincere and kind people, and truth is the merit guess, but on the premise of the above two points. If you can be true to yourself in most cases, and are very happy, that is a happy person, so as long as you make a little correction, expose your truth in a timely manner, you will be a very lovely person, don't care too much about other people's evaluation, sometimes you need to screen the purpose of others, if it is indeed your own problem, and then correct, do not blindly inferiority.

Hello, I am!

Truth be told, the word "honest" and the "bad rhetoric" in social processes are two different concepts! IMHO, you're just going down the road!

Do you need to be real?

One of my points of view is that being a person needs to be true, and more importantly, it needs to be true to yourself!

Because everyone lives in their own subjective world, and not everyone can face and see their true selves. The truth about oneself includes one's own emotions, thoughts, and everything you experience......can look at it positively, do not evade, do not resist, do not blame yourself, and do not distort the facts!

Point 2, there is a difference between honesty and truthfulness! To put it simply, I don't agree with Chuanxun's definition of the word "honest".

A truly honest person should know how to be self-disciplined and self-loving, and don't regard simplicity and ignorance as "honesty"!

Point 3: Rhetoric in the process of social interaction does not mean that it is all hypocrisy or deviation from the truth.

The rhetoric that I approve of is the cultivation of speech on a certain basis, which is to take into account the ...... of other people's words, thoughts, and opinions about usAcceptance! It is also a form of respect and courtesy.

Fourth, I think that the subject just lacks social experience, and needs to be further learned in speech organization skills and skills.

In your life, you can observe and learn how others socialize and remediate!

To be a real person, the way of doing things can be unrealistic, that is, to be square inside and outside, to do things in principle, but the way can be a little smoother; We must do things with a real heart, and we can't do things with an unreal heart, otherwise it is **. Don't give people the impression that they are unreliable; Therefore, the title of that book is "Don't Be Too Real", and such a title really kills many young people;

To be a man, you must learn to be square and sleek. There is a book about square and circle. That is to say, you have to have a measure of your own psychology, but you have to make some adjustments in the way you deal with things for others.

That is, your goal is the same, but in the process of achieving it, you must have the right means.

Now back to your question. To be honest, you are very serious and sincere. No scheming towards people.

To put it bluntly, it is to do things according to conscience. This way of doing things is generally considered to be honest or down-to-earth. It's good to be friends like this, but you have to be careful between work and colleagues.

Because there is a stake between colleagues and colleagues. So you have to distinguish between the occasion and the environment.

Overall, being a human being is really good in the long run. Support you. However, it is still necessary to understand that there are good people in this society, but there are also many bad people, and it is better to pay attention to the way you deal with them when getting along with unfamiliar people.

It depends on what you think, if you are afraid of everything, then don't be a man, it's nothing good to be a man, you have to suffer hardships and suffer, and you have to run around for responsibility, but being a man is the most wonderful creature in the world, because you can use your own hands to create your own future, a future you want, but you are now a human being, do you still have a choice?

Sincerity and sincerity express similar meanings, but give people a different feeling, sincere to people will win love and friendship and even more, and in the real world I feel that using reality to evaluate a person's words, there is a derogatory meaning rather than a positive meaning. There are hundreds of ways to treat a hundred kinds of people, and they can't be compared, how to treat them depends on your opinion of him, people often say that Qin Hui still has three friends. It's not that someone is bad or good, it depends on their relationship with you.

But there is one thing, as long as you are sure that he is sincere to you, you must cherish it, and never do things that hurt each other that are unacceptable to him, and if it is to the enemy, then be shrewd, and do not be soft-hearted, because to be kind to the enemy is to be cruel to yourself. If you grasp that degree, you will not be troubled by reality or cunning. You tell me!

I think it's really good to be a human being.

There are too many cunning people in this society.

If you are real now.

It's different.

People want to believe in you, too.

Isn't that bad?

Real people are not necessarily bad.

yes, hehe.

Why is it bad to be a human being? Of course, there are setbacks in being a human being. If you don't want to be a human being when you encounter a few setbacks, then aren't there many people in the world who want to commit suicide?

Not good. Real people will always be bullied, but you can't spend too much money on being a man, the best thing is that in the eyes of others, you are very real and you must have scheming!

Society is sometimes quite difficult to understand, but in any case, it's good to be a real person, but don't be stupid.

It's really good, but there has to be a certain degree of everything, if you are too real, you will be taken advantage of, and it is best to judge people whether they are real or not.

Good. It's good to be a human being. At the very least, people have thoughts. Animals don't. That's the benefit of being human.

Because my classmates say that I am too real, and it is easy to suffer in society in the future, in fact, I have also thought about this, but in the end I still persuaded myself not to change, because I think that in the future, who will have a lot of friends in society, you should treat each of your friends sincerely, only if you are sincere to them, they will be honest with you, if you deceive them, they will definitely deceive you, if you deceive them, and they are sincere to you, So don't you feel very ashamed? Of course, if you treat them sincerely, if they deceive you, they will also feel ashamed, I personally think that making friends is heart-to-heart, you only show your sincerity, will you get the sincerity of your friends, don't think about what others will do to you, I think the important thing is to do it in your own heart.

Now honest people in this society always suffer!

But there are still many benefits to real people, such as being able to make a lot of good friends, being able to find a girl who loves you honestly and down-to-earth, being able to get the favor of the boss for you, etc., so sometimes you have to be real!

A real person can make good brothers, and a real person is sold by his own good brothers.

No, people have a real way of living, and stupid people have stupid blessings

1. Use your brain to speak, be sensitive to things, be cautious in what you say, and talk too much is useless. Many things are also mouths, and failures are also mouths. You must usually keep the door well, otherwise you will bring yourself a lot of trouble.

Don't just talk about the momentary pleasure and open your mouth, thinking that people are appreciating your smile, and endlessly tell all the words that dig out your heart, and as a result, people have completely figured out the bottom of the family. I have to laugh at you.

2. Don't rush to conclusions. Even if you have an answer, you have to wait, maybe there is a better way to solve it, you have different answers from different angles, you have to learn to empathize, especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait, take a look, and wait and see what happens. In many cases, not only the trouble is resolved, but also good luck comes.

3. We must learn to turn big things into small things and small things. Try to make complex things as simple as possible, and never overcomplicate simple things. Mastering work efficiency is a science, and it is important to control the pace.

4. Don't be too greedy in life and work. If you save a lot of small favors, it will be a big hole. As long as you accept it, you must find an opportunity to reciprocate, look at the summer rain in the spring breeze, and pay for the harvest.

In fact, it is a simple relationship between seed and fruit. Don't let naivety hurt you, remember: life is like a play, we are looking for a balance of interests, and only a balanced game can be played.

5. Abide by the rules of the game in everything you do, and thieves also know that there are some things that must not be stolen. Therefore, you must not do things absolutely, never do things that fall into the ground, and giving others a way out of the way is equivalent to clearing the obstacles for yourself.

People who are too naïve may be easily deceived, but they may also be happy for a lifetime. Because they don't pay attention to those complicated people and things, they don't hold so many people who are right and who is wrong, and they don't have so many troubles. So, that's probably how fools are blessed with fools, right?

Yes, to see people and talk to hell.

Maybe it's the nature of each of you.

People live for decades, and go from me.