How do you see yourself right now?

My perception of myself now is that I am a very generous, kind, generous person, I feel that I am a model for everyone, I think of myself as a person who loves flowers and flowers, there is no better person in this world than me, but I feel that I can be better, these are my own opinions, I am so different.

My current view of myself is that I am a big personality, but sometimes I don't like to talk, I hate to socialize a person, the biggest view of myself is that I can recognize the advantages and disadvantages of my car, I always want to correct the shortcomings, but I feel difficult, I encourage myself to correct every day, I believe that I will correct it in the future life, so that I will become better.

In my opinion, my current view of myself is that I am a person with a very high enthusiasm for work, but I often can't make the most of my work efficiency when I work, which makes me feel that my enthusiasm is a bit wasted. So I hope that in the future I can find a better way to work, so that I can improve my efficiency while working, this is how I think I am now, I think it is still very necessary for me to make myself stronger.

Now my view of myself now is that I am a student, what I have to do now is to study hard, only by getting my studies to school first, my life can have greater development significance, and I can do more things in my future life to follow my own dreams. That's how I feel about myself now. Then I think I still need to work hard in my future life.

My current view of myself, I think I am relatively good, because whether it is in the college entrance examination or the university entrance examination, I am smooth, I can continue to improve my ability to learn new skills, I think my evaluation of myself is also more pertinent.

I feel that my daily life is relatively decadent now, because every day is nothing meaningful except for eating and sleeping, so I chose to make changes, starting with daily planning, I think as long as I work hard in the future, my current situation will be very different.

Towards the end of May, my scientific research journey can be said to have achieved nothing, I still stay in the data collection stage, this Wednesday, the same master's sister graduation defense was completed, in the process of defense I felt a deep pressure, this pressure comes from the small research group of the teacher with each student has an article, while our teacher with the student has no article. I want to go out to study for a PhD, so the article is very important to me, and the current situation of the teacher is that it is difficult to publish articles for masters. That night, I had a chat with my sister and found that it was difficult for my teacher to characterize the data through experiments, so I was very uncomfortable and unclear about the way forward.

If the goal is to get a PhD, then why should I do a PhD? If the immediate goal is to publish articles, is my research just for publishing articles?

I don't agree, I think I don't need to worry about the pressure of survival, then my path is broader, then I can or should think about how to make myself happier (respect and trust), or realize the value of my own life, this should be the meaning of my existence. So why do I have to do a PhD? Studying for a PhD is a learning stage, I can learn more knowledge, meet more people, and make myself more valuable, so it is a good choice within the scope of my current knowledge.

After completing my Ph.D., I can teach and educate people, maybe it is also a good choice to pass on my ideas to more children, it depends on whether I am suitable for scientific research, in addition to learning knowledge in my academic career, another important task is to explore my field, constantly enrich my knowledge base, to judge whether I can create value in my field, if not, I don't love it, then I can choose to transfer to another field.

Since I have determined a goal that is not big or small, then I need to publish articles, I need to come up with a plan, and do experiments, since this is an established fact, I must do it, and treat it as a valuable, at least something that I think is valuable, and I love to do, so that maybe some suggestions from teachers or senior brothers and sisters can help me move forward, instead of crushing me, and every failed experiment is also a brick on the road to success.

Many people's so-called maturity is nothing more than being worn away by customs and becoming sophisticated and practical. It is not maturity, but the premature aging of the spirit and the demise of individuality. True maturity should be the formation of a unique personality, the discovery of the true self, the spiritual result and the harvest.

"The Soul Can Only Walk Alone".

There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, when a bunch of grapes arrives, one person picks the best one to eat first, and the other person saves the best for last.

As usual, the first type of person should be optimistic, because every grape he eats is the best of the leftover grapes; The second type of person should be pessimistic, because every grape he eats is the worst of the leftover grapes. But the truth is the opposite, because the second type of people still have hope, and the first type of people only have memories.

"The Siege".

I've never wanted to live as a human being, and I know that I hate myself.

Doing things for others, maybe I hope to be a person in the impression of others, there is nothing in my own memory, no happiness, only sadness and anger, I find it difficult to accept, it is better to forget about it, beautiful things, things that prove that I am a person, things that prove that I am valuable, are all thrown away by me. I don't know why, but it seems like I've been like this since I was born.

I haven't been able to get things done, I'm a failure, and I want to die.

There was no one who could understand my grief. Never, I felt too hopeless, it was definitely not a good thing if the people around me could understand, but I really felt lonely. I want to die.

I don't remember anything, maybe it was because I didn't feel like I was qualified to have those. But why is it that I don't deserve happiness? I want to die.

I don't know what I want others to do. I really want to die, the things that have been in the past, the things I want to forget, but they have always haunted my heart, I really want to die.

They have two meanings, one is with oneself.

Let's take a look at what it means to give.

Self-esteem means respecting oneself, not bowing to others, and not allowing others to discriminate or insult. Describe the appearance of being low-voiced and flattering. If others discriminate and insult you, you may think that you have no self-esteem, which indirectly leads to poor relationship handling.

Self-esteem is how you see yourself, do you like yourself as a person?

The kind of self-esteem mentioned above is actually a kind of self-esteem, which can only be said to be a relatively low level of self-esteem, but the real self-esteem is that we must learn to look at ourselves correctly to know what kind of person we are, know what we like and dislike, what is important to ourselves, what is not important, what we are willing to work hard for, and then we must have a correct view of our own choices, rather than because what others say, our own hearts are uncomfortable, etc. Therefore, look at what kind of person you are correctly, do what you like, and don't cause your emotional disorder because of what people around you say. At the same time, we also have to like ourselves, not label ourselves, and not blame ourselves for not doing something well, blaming ourselves and criticizing ourselves, it's really wrong for me to do this, so we have to learn to accept ourselves, which can be seen by that**.

Self-respect means paying attention to one's words and actions.

For example, what kind of words are said on what occasions, but I don't understand the meaning of this sentence like this, I think self-respect is to realize that you are important and valuable.

The words of self-love are to learn to cherish yourself.

For example, you can't eat because you're not hungry, and then you don't eat this meal, you still have to eat a little bit; We can't hurt ourselves because of what others have said, causing us to feel uncomfortable; So learn to love yourself.

So these are a series of things, we must first learn to look at ourselves correctly, when we do something and criticize ourselves in our hearts, in fact, we just want to protect ourselves, so don't label ourselves, and secondly, we must like ourselves, and the premise of liking ourselves is to learn to accept ourselves. Knowing that you are important and valuable. Learn to love yourself, be kind to yourself, don't criticize so much, and encourage and tolerate yourself.

At the same time, it would be great if we could bring some help to others and be a person of value to others.

I feel that I don't live like myself, I always imitate others, I feel that others are the best, I habitually imitate others, how to do it according to other people's practices, I can't think of my own way, I can't do it my own way, I always feel that my method is not right, not comprehensive, no one else thinks well, no other people's method works, in fact, my own method is okay, not bad to that point.

I always lack confidence, whether I am not confident enough, or I am afraid of making mistakes, in fact, there are all of them.

I have always done things in other people's ways, and I have never done things in my own way, in fact, I am not bad, I want to do well, do beautifully, and do not let people say.

Lack of self-confidence, taking care of this, taking care of that, pursuing perfection, caring about people's opinions, etc., are all their shortcomings.

I don't want others to say it, others say a word, I can't stand it, my heart is more sensitive, more detailed, and more honest, I don't want to hurt others, I hurt others a little, and my heart is a little uneasy.

I don't want to rush for quick success, I don't want to be graceful and flattering, I don't want to climb relationships, I always want to rely on individuals, I am a stupid person, I live stupidly, is this a good thing? It seems that this high-level person is out of place in life, and I am also out of place, I always can't get along with others, I always don't want to be like them, I always want to be alone, and I'm a weirdo.