Tell us about your views on society right now

This society is not as good as we think, and it is not as bad as we think. The most important thing is to learn to look at this society objectively and dialectically.

My deepest realization is that first, you can't be too kind. You are kind, others think you are a fool and a bully. Second, you can't just listen to what others say about this person, you have to deal with it yourself to know the truth, because the way to treat everyone is different, so the comments are different.

Third, it is absolutely impossible to mix in society without a few close friends. Without strong social connections, you will suffer a lot.

When I was a child, the pork was really fragrant, the atmosphere of the New Year was really strong, the sound of all kinds of firecrackers, the sound of the wind blowing the leaves and the window was so good, the blue sky, the shadow of the clouds floating on the ground and the rainbow flowers and butterflies flying after the rain!

It's important to make friends. The quality and quantity of friends determine your career development. Therefore, learn to make friends.

For the outstanding talents in life, you should take the initiative to make friends and copy his advantages to yourself. For those garbage people, you must learn to break off friendship, but don't tear your face when you break off friendship, it doesn't matter if you suffer a loss, be generous, that is, "a gentleman breaks off friendship, don't speak ill"!

Society is cruel after all, when a society measures the quality of a man by the amount of material wealth, and evaluates the beauty and ugliness of a woman by the level of appearance, some superficial things blind everyone's eyes and become the so-called "universal values". In such a society, under the surface of harmony, there is hidden the decay of human nature and the squalor of the world. But most people still don't think so, and they are assimilated just because they are afraid of becoming an "outlier" in the eyes of most "normal people"!

It is precisely because of this that those who are truly kind and selfless are slowly squeezed out to the margins of society. Those who are mercenary and unscrupulous have become idols and role models that people are feared for. This is the truth of society.

Never underestimate the evil of human nature, so you can't have the heart of harming others, and you can't have the heart of guarding against others! At the moment when people's hearts are impetuous, there are more and more villains, and there are more and more people who don't think it's a big deal to watch the excitement, indifference and ruthlessness have become a social norm, and there are only a handful of people who are selfless and pursue the truth. In short, to survive here, please be careful.

I don't have a deep opinion, I just think that the current consumption level is really very high, and the current prices are really very expensive, but the wages people earn are still very low, or very bad. And at this time, there will be a lot of economic pressure on many people, and there will be a lot of pressure on the family, so at this time, there will be a lot of divorce, and there will be a lot of bad phenomena. Nowadays, science and technology are also constantly improving, and a lot of ** has been developed, as well as space satellites.

I think the modern society is really very good, the economic development is very good, the transportation is also very convenient, there are many tourist attractions, the people's living standards are also constantly improving, and the problems in poor areas are constantly being solved, and the development of the education industry is also very good, so that people can achieve food and clothing without worry, so I think it is very happy to be born in this society.

This era is very free, in this society the status of women is very high, there is also a lot of high technology, but also greatly increased our knowledge, people are very happy, and very thriving.

Nowadays, the society is developing faster and faster, but people's morality is not particularly high, and people's quality education is also very low.

Society is complex first of all, so don't be too naïve, don't treat others as yourself, so be vigilant in dealing with people and learn to protect yourself. Secondly, society is colorful and has a lot of fun, so we should learn to enjoy life, actively integrate into society, and form our own social circle.

How to look at the current society.

The title is ambiguous, but I don't think there is any other topic that would be more appropriate to convey what I mean.

It's an interesting society right now. The pervasiveness of information technology has transformed every tiniest change in its moments into a huge impact beyond imagination. the fierce collision of various currents of thought; Every day there are new changes, new things appear; People are overwhelmed.

So, how should people view the world in front of them? If we follow the theory of historical selection that "the future has history", we will know how to face today's colorful and complex society.

Many of us are shouting all day long about the loss of traditional culture, the impact of copycat culture, and how the emerging Internet language is unreasonable, and we have been preparing to hit sad literature, joke literature, and Internet literature, and have been lamenting that the world is declining, people's hearts are not ancient, and they are a mess - but are these "messy" things really unreasonable? I don't think so. There are also some of us who have been clamoring to fight traditional culture and follow the trend of the West - but is that traditional culture really lifeless?

I don't think so. "What exists is reasonable" is a bit extreme, but it is not unreasonable. New things can be produced, traditional things can be circulated, and their existence itself proves that they are viable, marketable, and reasonable.

As a result, most of us have problematic perceptions of the current society.

Analyzing it from another angle can show the shallowness of our qualifications to arbitrarily criticize society. Although historical choices are being made all the time, the process is slow, and it often takes decades, even hundreds or thousands of years, to choose what kind of culture and what kind of system. So, standing in the present, you definitely can't see it.

the fate of things in the future; These things have not yet passed the selection of history. You never know if what is in front of you will adapt to the development of society; You never know exactly what future history will choose. Society is a society of people, and the choice of society is the choice of millions of individuals.

The answer is obvious.

So, you can't easily tell what is reasonable and what is gold and what is sand. What you need is not to intervene arbitrarily, but to think calmly, to wait for the choice of society, to wait for such a natural process. Do not use your personal power to rudely interfere with the selection process of society; The ideological rigidity brought about by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty's exclusive respect for Confucianism, and the ignorance and backwardness brought about by Emperor Kangxi's seclusion and seclusion are the most obvious counterexamples.

What is the difference between your opposition to the nascent sentimental literature and your attempt to prove that the traditional is better and the Kangxi Emperor's opposition to Western technology? We should not interfere, but we should put all the things of different natures and genres together and let time wash them. I believe that those who are clear will be self-purifying, and those who are turbid will be turbid, and time will eventually verify everything.

One; Perhaps unlike most people, when I came out of campus, my biggest feeling was not the reality of society, but the absurdity of society. Cities are like prisons, companies are like prison cells, and countless prisoners are willingly trapped in prisons and cells, surviving humbly for a hopeless and meaningless goal.

Two; Countless people have sold their bodies and souls for a little so-called profit. They don't know that what they pay for value is the most valuable part of themselves. As I walked down the street and saw the tall buildings that covered the sky and the sun, I couldn't understand why anyone would be willing to give their life to buy a house in such a place.

Three; When I saw the shopping mall full of goods that didn't really mean anything, and groups of people pushing shopping carts and carrying shopping bags, I felt that it was not only the waste pickers who picked up the garbage, but also more people who were willing to pay their money for the garbage, as if then the garbage they bought would become unique and noble.

I sat on the subway and saw a car of people's heads, staring at the screen of their mobile phones, scrolling through WeChat and Weibo, their expressions scattered and frivolous, their eyes empty and dull, as if they were a car of zombies, not living creatures with souls.

Four; All the people are busy, running, but they don't know why they are busy, why they are running.

It's just that they follow the rules, go forward and follow each other, and perish in the surging torrent of the times.

No one realizes that they can jump out, but pulls others into it. For society, the economy has become the only indicator. For individuals, making money has become the only business.

Since I was a child, I feel that I am extremely lucky, and it seems that my friends and teachers have always helped me a lot along the way when I grew up, and it is rare to meet such an excellent, kind, and fearless person. However, when the veil of hypocrisy of human nature is revealed, human nature often cannot withstand consideration and cannot withstand **, and what is exposed is the dark side of human nature after all. And when you pierce this layer of window paper, those who can't accept it will be like a "stupid pig", and those who have long been crawling around in society and seem to have long been accustomed to it will sneer and laugh at your innocence mercilessly.

The answer you get when you keep stumbling and getting up in society is that society itself is like this, and if you don't, then you will be "bullied". I believe that human nature is inherently good, but this society will always constantly refresh the lower limit, even if people are good, they can't bear the society's continuous "slap in the face" to us.

Gradually, I began to believe that human nature is inherently evil, and that the only way to restrain my behavior through the later laws is to integrate into the world and understand this society. The law is to protect the weak to enjoy and protect their own legitimate rights and interests, and it is also the last bottom line, but there are still many people who are constantly trying to step into the bottom line, or even touch the bottom line. And sometimes those at the top of the pyramid can use their power to avoid punishment even if they "accidentally" touch the law.

We have created a happy society that seems to be peaceful and quiet on the surface, but in fact people are panicking and surviving in a society that seeks self-preservation. Even if you can't see any clues from the outside, you can confuse others with the illusion of "I'm doing well" every day, and even believe this illusion as true. But what is the use of this gold and jade?

People's hearts are constantly rising and sinking in this big dye vat, and they have long been mixed up, who can be alone....

1. Natural selection, survival of the fittest, 2. Only by constantly adapting to this society can we adapt to this society, 3. Learn to be flexible, learn to be tactful, and learn to make yourself more compliant with this society.

4. I really want to change myself, I really have to conform to this society, and I really have to bow to real life.

5. Your arrogance, your self-esteem, and your face will become worthless in the face of real life.

6. Conform to the law, follow the law, although it violates your original intention, 7. But these are all in line with your life, and the road ahead of you is much easier than before.

8. Your efforts have also been realized.

9. You hide your light and lower yourself, others are relieved of you, and all those who are directed at you have also been relieved.

10. It's much easier for you to get what you want, 11. Moving forward with a heavy load, you may not reach the end, polishing and raising a comet may not be a good thing, 12. You don't have to bend your waist for five buckets of rice, but your family should eat, and your life should go on, 13. Don't be proud of your heart and let your family suffer the pain or suffering caused by it.

14. If you can't get out of society, then go along with it, be born as a human being, at least be responsible for your family.

It's very realistic, often people who follow the rules don't get anything cheap, so this society always forces us to grow up and force us to become smooth, so people will have a lot of anxiety, and people who see through society also have to change themselves for life.