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The first is that both parties no longer take each other to heart, and there is no communication between the two of them at home, or even any communication. And they don't care about each other.

Two people don't care about each other, both parties are very indifferent, don't share their daily routines, look at each other unpleasantly, and often use cold violence, which shows that the fate of two people is going to end.

Sleeping in separate rooms, the heart is like stopping water, there is no rush in life, there is no expectation, the surface is meticulous, and the actual reluctance to coexist, these three are superficial couples, and they are also very easy to fall apart.

When people reach middle age, if these three situations occur, they are basically "superficial" couples, these three are: sleeping in separate rooms, the heart is like stopping water; Mobile phone passwords don't know each other; They don't understand each other's difficulties and problems.

As soon as I saw each other, I felt very irritable and didn't want to stay with him.

People at home are superficial husband and wife, and they often sleep in separate beds.

I don't know anything about each other, and I still need to ask about each other's things from others.

I have slept in separate rooms for many years, and I have no feelings, and the distance between the two is getting farther and farther away.

Life has no goals, and there are no expectations, and they live an ordinary life.

I only want to share the joys but I don't want to share the sorrows, I always deceive myself, I am always very selfish, and I only think about myself.

Some people will compare it to Kafka's castle, some people are impatient to solve it, some people run it very well, some people live in fear in this life, and some people still enjoy it very much, so there are actually some things that are caused by human factors, and if you want to change the situation, you have to put in your own efforts and actions, there are things to do, and there are things that should be prevented. It is really a very cherished thing for two people to come together and enter marriage, but some good friends don't seem to know how to cherish this kind of relationship, so they know how to regret and grieve when they lose. In order to prevent this misfortune from happening, everyone should actually have a sign of maturity when they are forty years old, and the three most "avoided" things between husband and wife, no matter how much emotion you do, don't do it!

1. I didn't put my braids on my hair.

Even if a person is excellent, it is impossible to avoid making mistakes, and if it is a middle-aged and elderly couple who catch a mistake of the other party is endless, it is definitely a very hurtful thing, after all, two people have been together for many years, for each other's personality, habits are very familiar, if you want to let others understand their own problems according to this one thing is actually often more than worth the loss, because people have reached middle and old age, everyone has their own understanding and perfect side, perhaps the other party has known their mistakes, But if you are still dwelling on the matter, it will only make the other party feel that you are clamoring, which will lead to renewed conflicts.

2. Domestic violence. Nowadays, everyone is under the pressure of their own work, some ** in life, some ** in work, and middle-aged couples seem to have forgotten each other's obligations to wait and help each other, but a large number of other parties as the origin of the problem, but the basic theory is not enough, and even fight, to remember that when the wound occurs in the case of someone else, it is engraved in the heart of the other party, domestic violence is a behavior that particularly damages the relationship between husband and wife, Two people will be estranged by this, and even their hearts will be like ashes.

3. Divorce becomes a verbal word.

We will see this situation in some life film and television dramas, in fact, it is also very commonly used in everyone's real life, some people will take divorce as a verbal language when they encounter hardships or problems in life, such a practice is very undesirable, two people together is a kind of fate, and the word divorce is like a metal catalyst for divorce, even if two people are just some small contradictions, and finally it will prompt two people to move towards the end of married life, no matter what problems are encountered between husband and wife, should find a way to deal with it, rather than using divorce as a threat or scare, because people themselves do not want to receive threats, because instinctive reactions can easily lead to undesirable conclusions under the effect of emotion, so the word divorce can definitely not be put on the lips.

The first thing is not to catch a mistake of the other party and it will be endless, because this is a very sad thing, and the second thing is domestic violence, domestic violence is a kind of behavior that hurts the feelings of husband and wife very much, and two people will be estranged and even disheartened because of it. The third thing is to often put divorce on the spot mantra, this practice is very undesirable, two people together is a kind of fate, and the word divorce is like a catalyst for divorce, even if two people are just some small contradictions, it will eventually lead two people to the end of marriage.

Don't be cold and violent to the other party, don't keep talking about the wrong things in the past, and don't keep telling the other party that you want a divorce.

Don't betray your marriage, don't quarrel, don't talk about the bad of each other's parents, middle-aged couples should be more harmonious.

It is a very happy process for lovers to enter the palace of marriage from acquaintance and love. With the passage of time, many couples have become indifferent after getting married, and the two people have changed from being enthusiastic when they first got married. At this time, the marriage of the two can be said to have lit up the "red light", no matter the length of time, there will always be some signals and signs before the marriage crisis.

Appropriate adjustments to these signs can often save a marriage.

Business Marriage 1Inexplicably dislike each other.

In life, all kinds of people look at each other unpleasantly, and they always point to their behavior and words, and the small shortcomings of sesame mung beans are lawless in the eyes of them. In an emotional marriage, if one partner rejects the other, it means that the 'trust' of the couple has broken down, which is a precursor to a crisis in the marriage.

From love to marriage, the habits and values of both parties are fully integrated, and it should be more about tolerance, or progress with each other.

Business Marriage 2Don't like to go home.

After a long day at work, it should be a time to go home quickly and relax, but many people are reluctant to go home after work, preferring to go out to eat with their colleagues or even sit in the car for a long time. After returning home, facing the need to rely on their own family, warm at the same time, but also very stressful, so I want to face these pressures later, and slowly get used to evading responsibility, if the lover does not know how to tolerate and understand, the marriage is destined to be full of resentment.

Business Marriage 3Lack of effective communication.

There is no longer a common topic between husband and wife, and communication is usually very difficult, and they start to quarrel after not saying three sentences. If you refuse to communicate, each solves their own things, and eventually the two will part ways, and they will not be able to reach a consensus on many things, and they will gradually become alienated because of differences, which can outweigh the losses. When you don't know if his work is going well, and he doesn't know the hardships of taking care of your children and doing housework, this marriage gradually comes to a fork in the road.

The signs of a broken marriage are a wake-up call that if we want to save our marriage, we must both parties reflect on it and face the problem positively.