As a parent, what kind of person do you want your child to be?

Preface: There are many parents who want their children to become a person with very good grades, but they hope that their children can become a happy person. Now the involution is very serious, and we can find that many children have signed up for various tutoring classes when they are in primary school, which will increase the pressure on children's learning.

I hope that my children can be happy and happy forever, so that they can grow up healthy and happy. At the same time, we must be an upright person, so that we can contribute to the development of society.

I think that the happiness of children is very simple, but when we grow up, we find that happiness is really difficult, and we are always facing all kinds of pressures in our lives. I hope that my child can become a happy person who can experience the good things in this world. When the child is resting, you can take the child out to travel and see a different life, and don't let the child spend all his time on studying.

There are many parents who are overly anxious and will always pass on their anxiety to their children. This is not conducive to the healthy growth of children, I hope parents can correct it as soon as possible, we can let children have a happy childhood.

I feel that we need to educate our children to be good people, whether it is a boy or a girl, we must be kind to this society, we are in the society, enjoy all kinds of welfare treatments, we must learn to reciprocate, so that we can be grateful.

I hope that parents can set a good example for their children when educating their children, and we can make ourselves excellent first, so that it will be easier to educate our children. I also hope that parents will not force their children, do not let their children accept views that they do not want to accept at all, parents must learn to empathize and consider for their children from their children's point of view.

I want my child to be a happy and healthy person, to be a useful person to society, so that's fine. I will respect my child's ideas and will not deliberately impose my own thoughts on them.

I want my child to be a happy person, and at the same time, I want my child to be able to do what he is interested in, and I hope that my child can have better development and become more self-disciplined.

I hope that my child can become a person with his own thoughts, who can take practical actions for them, who is healthy and happy, who grows up safely and with a good heart. You.

I want my child to become a useful person in society, so that my child can have a particularly good development in society, and I can also let my child gain a foothold.

Many parents hope that their children will be able to become excellent and confident people when they grow up, and they hope that their children can live happier and happier than ourselves in the future, so how to make their children become excellent people?

Excellent"The definition of blindness refers to the synonyms of a person who has a certain characteristic that is prominent and good. The writer Zhou Guoqi Chunkong Ping once said:"When it comes to defining the overall goal for your life path, the first goal should be excellent, and the second overall goal is considered to be success, and success is a by-product of excellence. "

Excellence can be on many levels, and when we judge a child to be excellent, that child is usually excellent in many ways. Because a really good person will dare to continue to break through himself, so that his work ability is close to the comprehensive development step by step. How to make children become excellent people?

1. Create a good learning environment for children.

The direct impact of the natural environment on children is particularly large, only to build a brisk family environment and a good learning environment for children, children will be imperceptible over time, and learning and training will gradually develop.

2. Find excellent friends for your child.

As the saying goes"Parents look for excellent friends for their children, and children learn from them to train excellent quality, and children are more likely to become more and more excellent.

3. Shape children's good habits from an early age.

Everyone has different habits in life, and generally excellent children will develop good behavior habits and reading habits since childhood, which is particularly helpful for children's growth.

4. Exercise children's independent concept and shape their expertise.

Children will eventually have to be separated from themselves, since childhood, they should shape their own independent concepts, do their own things, and also shape children's hobbies and specialties, so that children can understand the joy of life.

5. Parents teach by word and deed to become an excellent person.

Parents are the best role models for their children, and every word and deed of parents is harmful to children, and only when parents are getting better and better, children will appear more outstanding.

6. Let children know filial piety and obligation.

An excellent person must be a person who understands obligation and filial piety, so that children can be careful and grateful, know how to honor their parents and the elderly, and understand their own sense of family responsibility and social responsibility, so that they can become a valuable person.

The natural environment of family relationships has a particularly strong impact on children, and if children develop in a family environment with a good environment for striving for progress, it will be more conducive to the development of excellent character in children.

I think I have to set a correct example for my children, and I also want to provide a better family environment for my children.

Let children form a correct worldview; Create a good learning environment for good branches, look for excellent partners, cultivate good learning habits and living habits, exercise children's sense of independence, cultivate children's high strengths, and explore children's nature.

In the process of family education, if you want your child to become a better person than Beipei, as a parent, you must appreciate your child and constantly encourage your child to become better.

I often wonder what kind of person I want my children to become. A person's perception of the world or of others is entirely a reflection of one's own state of mind. If you are a cheerful, open-minded, generous person, you will subconsciously think that other people are like this.

Often, such people can communicate with others easily, and they will be humorous, bold, and even thick-skinned. Especially for boys, I think it's a good character. If you are sensitive, suspicious, and think too much before doing things, and people with this personality are also very empathetic, they will naturally subconsciously think that other people are like this.

Therefore, you will seem to be very introverted, not good at talking, not easy to express emotions, timid in doing things, and easy to make others feel distant. But such a person will be more delicate and thoughtful, but it is easy to miss some fleeting opportunities.

Today, I will share my feelings about the two personalities, which is also my own personal feeling. The first type of extroverted and cheerful personality is exactly what the child's mother has, and the second type is what the child's father and I have. But I really hope that my baby will be a lively and cheerful child like his mother in the future, or even heartless, at least I think that life should be happier.

And the most important thing is that I like the child's mother, it is the child's mother's cheerful and open-minded personality that makes me feel very relaxed and happy.

Child, so dad still wants you to be a happy person who can make others happy.

Although many parents will put forward higher requirements for their children and want their children to become excellent people, this is because parents have experienced the pressure of life, and they want their children to obtain better academic qualifications, so that after graduation, the job search will be relatively smooth. And you can get a salary that satisfies you, and I think most parents want their children to be ordinary people, because for us, it is already a very difficult thing to be an ordinary person.

1. Be an ordinary person.

For us, the purpose of spending our lives is to find our true selves. But many people will become an ordinary person, although when they are young, they will fantasize about their future. You will become very good and have a lot of money, but when you graduate, you will find it very difficult to find a job.

Many parents want their children to have excellent academic performance, mainly because they want their children to get a good academic degree, so that their children can also find a stable job after graduation, and the pressure on life is not so great.

Second, most people are ordinary people.

Many people are ordinary people, in fact, this is a very normal thing. Because in this world, geniuses are not common, more ordinary people. I feel that being an ordinary person is not a shameful thing, and my parents can also think back on their lives, although they work very hard, but in the end they are still an ordinary person.

And it is a very common thing that most people will follow the ordinary path of life.

3. I want my child to become better.

Many parents have put forward higher requirements for their children, because they want their children to become better, in fact, parents know very well that children can only be an ordinary person, and it is not easy to be an ordinary person. Genius is not common, if the parents' qualifications are mediocre, then the children born will not be particularly good, so parents must lower their requirements for their children, and we can let their children grow up healthy and happy.

What you want your child to become, you have to become.

1. Be a parent that your child is proud of.

One child wrote in his essay: My mother was a housewife, she didn't do anything, and she was a very useless person. Every time I pick me up from school, she doesn't dress up, she wears clothes from decades ago, she is very rustic, and I really don't want to see her at the school gate.

I don't want my housewife mom, I want Chen Zixing's mom to be my mom. She looks so young, wearing a long skirt and high heels, and she is dressed beautifully. I wish she were my mom.

The mother who secretly saw her ten-year-old son's essay was very sad, she was a high-achieving student, she originally had a good job, for the sake of the family, for the sake of the child, sacrificed her career, but she didn't expect to be useless in the eyes of the child, and she became a useless housewife. Standing in front of the mirror, looking at the unkempt woman in the mirror, her face covered with yellow-faced women's marks. She was stunned.

Is the woman in the mirror who has no energy, is tired, and looks like she is worthless? No wonder the mother in the eyes of the son is so unbearable, this is a fact. You have to do something about it, change your image.

After thinking about it again, she picked up her literary interest and wrote articles at home, not only to delay picking up and dropping off her children to do housework, but also to do some of the things she loved. After writing for a while, some works were published, and his own book was published. When I picked up my son again, my son arrogantly introduced his mother to his classmates:

This is my mom, she's a writer.

Putting all your energy into your child's growth and forgetting to promote your parents will not get the respect of your child. To win a child's heart, you must first live out your self-worth.

2. Don't impose your hopes on your children.

You are you, I am me, why impose your desires on me. I'm not your appendage, so why don't you ever ask me what my wish is? After a roar, the son slammed the door and left, leaving the parents to look at each other.

My father's wish when he was a child was to be a doctor and be an angel in white to save lives and protect the wounded. My mother's wish is to be a teacher. However, the reality is too skinny, and neither of them has become the person they want to be the most, so they chose other professions by mistake.

After having children, the two pinned all their wishes on the next generation, let him choose one of the two, and must fulfill his wishes for them. Children are obsessed with drawing. In the eyes of parents, there is no way out.

I got angry when I saw the child smearing, so there was a quarrel in the opening paragraph.

Why is it that your wish is a wish, and my wish is not a proper job, and it is whimsical? In the face of the child's doubts, the parents fell into deep thought: yes, just because the child was born to us, we impose our own wishes on him, what responsibility does he have to help the parents realize the unfulfilled ideals.

Isn't that what a strong man is for?

3. Parents must lead by example what their children are required to do.

Meet a family. Father and son are simply a flipboard, seeing the father is like seeing the son, and seeing the son is like seeing the father.

When I was young, my son was also with my mother.