Chinese Parents wants to make their children the richest man, what are the requirements?

If you want your child to grow up to be the richest man, you need the support of your family's background and some financial strength, which are the most basic conditions. If the child is particularly hard-working and financially minded, then this kind of imagination is likely to be realized, but if you are not a hard-working family and are not wealthy, you should give up this idea sooner.

When you are born, you have to buy a piggy bank, you have to learn this skill, you need to become the richest man with 6000 points of understanding, you only need to learn 6 major courses, and you don't need to study any other professional courses, because it is useless to learn, you can concentrate on doing a good job in these six courses. And when you order the brain hole, you must light all the small light bulbs, so that after every 3 rounds, you can order a first-level course. Then do more Huanggang dense rolls, and it's basically the same.

The attribute requirements must reach about 6000, and the charm value needs to be 5000.

Charisma and IQ as well as emotional intelligence. If you want to make your child the richest man in "Chinese Parents", these three requirements are relatively high.

First of all, children's EQ and IQ must be higher than ordinary people, so that they can think of things that others can't think of, and parents should give enough conditions for their children to develop and grow.

Not really. There are the following cases.

1. What is "Chinese-style parenting"?

1 Unrealistic expectations.

The birth of a child, for a family, is the hope and future of the whole family, parents put their unfulfilled wishes on the young children, they do not want the child to go their own way, always hope that the child can walk out of a glorious road with their own ability, can soar to the sky.

2.Parental vanity.

Many times, children's slow pace is used to satisfy the vanity of their parents, children have good grades, can go to prestigious schools, parents feel special face, they enjoy being envious in the crowd, and have the capital to brag among relatives, this vanity is the driving force for parents to urge their children to grow up.

3.Don't know how to respect children.

Chinese parents always feel that they should be respected by their children in front of their children, and children should be unconditionally obedient, otherwise it is offensive, they can reprimand their children at will, regardless of the occasion, only look at their own mood, and they will not think twice about their children's language, and step on the ground with their children's self-esteem, which is the way to educate children, and they do not know how to respect children at all.

Although Chinese parents "do not consider their children's hearts at all when dealing with their children's mistakes, and their lessons are to directly destroy their children's hearts, they are very willing to use their own way to give unconditionally for their children."

A "school bully mother", her daughter suffered from mild depression because of her unsatisfactory grades in junior high school, but her mother thought that the child was "doing", hypocritical, and worried about giving new words, and quietly replaced the child's antidepressants with vitamins, which almost led to tragic consequences.

The mother's actions fully exposed the arrogance, ignorance and arrogance of the "Chinese-style parents".

Depression is a very dangerous disease that must be taken seriously, not something "pretentious".

In the eyes of many Chinese parents, children are not flesh and blood people, but "tools" that need to be disciplined, guided, warned, and repaired. Socrates said, "Education is not to fill with water, but to light a fire." ”

This sentence tells us that education should be an inspiration, not reinforcement, and that Chinese-style parents may focus too much on their children's grades and performance, while ignoring their children's interests and psychological construction, in contrast, a better way should be to respect children's choices and ideas, and stimulate their inner enthusiasm and motivation, rather than copying "good students" from a mold in the same way.

Chinese parents "place too much emphasis on their children's grades, competition, and utilitarianism, and often neglect their children's mental health and personality development." They may put too much pressure on your child, causing her to mature prematurely, and they can also cause damage to your child's self-confidence and self-esteem. In addition, excessive intervention and control of children may hinder children's ability to think and act independently, which is one of the reasons for the frequent occurrence of depression.

So, in our daily relationship with our children, how can we avoid becoming a "Chinese-style family chiqiaochang"?

First of all, parents should take a correct view of their children's problems. In the process of growing up, it is inevitable that there will be setbacks and difficulties. If parents simply think that their children are "doing" or "making a big fuss", then they will ignore the actual needs and psychological state of their children, and even exacerbate their children's negative emotions.

In the case of Hangzhou Xueba's mother, she may just feel that her daughter did not work hard enough in the junior high school exam, but she did not expect that her daughter is actually facing psychological distress.

Therefore, parents should look at their children's problems correctly, think from their children's perspective as much as possible, and understand their children's thoughts and needs.

Secondly, parents should respect their children's choices and wishes. When dealing with the relationship with the child, parents sometimes unconsciously impose their own wishes and expectations on the child. However, this practice not only damages the child's self-esteem, but also tends to cause the child's resentment and rebellion.

Therefore, parents should respect their children's choices and wishes, help them find the right direction, but do not forcibly interfere with their children's decision-making.

Finally, and most importantly, parents should pay attention to their children's mental health. Mental health has an important impact on children's growth and development, not only affecting their emotional, cognitive and social development, but also their physical health and academic performance.

Forcing children to achieve their dreams.

Chinese parents love their children, so they nurture their children to give their children the best, hoping that their children will live better than their own generation in the future.

It is that some children spend time in the game to achieve achievements, such as a foreign parent, the child spent a year in the game to build the castle archive deleted, caused a lot of harm to the child, in comparison, Chinese parents are more terrifying, children in the face of Chinese parents, the sense of oppression is better than being **** with a gun, many children have a pessimistic mood, strongly resist Chinese education.

Parents in China are like emperors. Parents can't say they're wrong, and children can be beaten and scolded when they're wrong.

1.Acting for the child to do what he should do;

2.Good teacher, self-righteous;

3.Always like to guide, teach, intervene, interrupt, stop, criticize, and reprimand children;

4.It's not about dealing with things, it's about venting emotions;

5.Completely child-centered.

In educating children, too much attention is paid to children's academic performance, ignoring children's personality development, and there is the idea of hoping that a son will become a dragon and a daughter will become a phoenix.

The small one crying is the fault of the big one, and the small one wants the big one must be given.

In fact, in our lives, we will also see some Chinese parental education methods. Then for such a way of education, we ourselves will understand that it is not feasible. Because such a Chinese way of education will indeed have a very big impact on the baby.

And for the psychology of these people, it will also leave some corresponding shadows. When we were young, we must have been exposed to the education of some Chinese parents. However, for such education, instead of playing a positive role in promoting ourselves, it will cause some damage to our own psychology.

Blindly pursue children's cultural achievements.

We can also see that there are many young people who are not willing to pass on such injuries to their next generation because they themselves have suffered such injuries. As far as I am concerned, the Chinese way of parenting is to blindly pursue children's grades and ignore children's childhood, which is not conducive to children's development。Because blindly pursuing children's grades will ignore children's quality education.

Don't give your child the opportunity to learn hobbies.

And for some other aspects of the child's development, it is very unreasonable. Just like some children, they themselves are born with great achievements and attainments in the field of art, and for such a field, it can help them develop better in the future. However, some parents will think that learning some artistic things will not allow their children to embark on a better path in the future, but should pursue some achievements in cultural courses, so as to help children get more praise in the future.

But such a practice has, to a certain extent, curbed the child's nature. And for some children like this, they themselves will feel that they have no way to express what they like.

It should be the kind of person who can be friends with children, and can understand and tolerate children. Then parents can put themselves in the child's shoes and think about the problem.

In my eyes, Chinese parents love their children very much, and they will do a lot of things for their children, especially for them.

is very old-fashioned, has a bad temper, is very backward in thinking, prefers sons over daughters, and always wants her daughter to help her son, buy a car and a house.