Why do some people slowly live into the people they hate?

Time has turned us into the kind of adults we used to look down on the mostWhen we look at the price at first sight when we buy something, and always pay attention to the eyes of the people around us, it may not be that we have become what we hate the most, but that the ones we hate are part of life.

The rules of the game, the logic of survival, and the secular order make us understand that dreams can't make money, and "chicken soup" can't be eaten, we learn to reconcile with life, just the right amount to bow our heads, although we still have poetry and distance in our hearts, but we also understand that life is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil and salt. Maybe we don't live the most hated life, but we have learned how to turn our dreams into reality.

Sometimes, inadvertently, you will find yourself living a life that others hate. Why is this so? Because there are complaints in the heart sail.

Why complain? Because there is desire, because there is a request, but there is no way. Of course, this complaint, desire, asking for nothing, can be both ourselves and others, that is, whether we want to or not, we will live as others hate.

Because of other people's complaints, we have become what others hate, which we can't change many times, just like Uncle Biao doing charity, although there are many people praising him, but there are also many people scolding him, as Uncle Biao, scolding or praising actually doesn't mean much to him, he just needs to do what he wants to do. More often, of course, we hope that we can become a useful person to others, but a person's ability is limited after all, even the richest man in the world can't help people all over the world, we can only help the people we care about the most, the closest to them.

Because we complain, because we can't ask for it, we live like others hate, and the initiative of this is in our own hands, and we can control it. Recently, I have seen a lot of news about revenge on society because of misanthropy, such as driving on a zebra crossing and hitting someone, which is to make yourself a person who others hate. Sometimes I think, does it have to be like this?

In this world, we will indeed encounter a lot of unfair treatment, in fact, in the adult world, there is never real fairness, shouldn't we use our own losses, in exchange for the happiness and recognition of others? As long as everyone is willing to suffer a little loss, won't this world hidden mountain realm become more beautiful?

Come to think of it, our people's needs for material things are actually very small, and many of our needs are actually not necessary, they are all manufactured, such as climbing Mount Everest, do you have to have them? Most people don't need to have it, they can't see the scenery of the highest peak, and what can they do when they see the branches? With so much money, we can do more meaningful things.

Low desire, isn't it fragrant to lie flat?

Sometimes, lying flat is more able to make others like you, why? Because people who lie flat, unlike those who work hard, will bring a lot of pressure to others, and will make others feel very relaxed and comfortable when getting along with others.

Summary. Why do people end up living like they hate, many times we may not realize it ourselves, after we have experienced some people and some things, it is like a different person, a different character.

When I was a child, I wanted to become a gentle, motivated, sensible, and happy person, but now I am short-tempered, not sensible, and not very hard, and always stay up late and suddenly very sad, I hate this kind of me, but I don't want to change her and I can't change her.

Why do I live the way I hate? It is self-release and self-avoidance. I hate the appearance of being a negative and unmotivated self, I want to become a positive and gentle self, but when I go through some of it, I feel that the positive life is too tiring, and I slowly start to let myself become a little more depressed, trying to escape this unfriendly world.

People will always change, the original intention is easy to obtain, always difficult to keep, most people in life in the continuous growth of the continuous experience to change their original intention, this is understandable and human nature.

Why do people end up living like they hate?

Why do people end up living like they hate, many times we may not realize it ourselves, after we have experienced some people and some things, it is like a different person, a different character. When I was a child, I wanted to become a gentle, motivated, sensible, and happy person, but now I am short-tempered, not sensible, and not very hard, and always stay up late and suddenly very sad, I hate this kind of me, but I don't want to change her and I can't change her. Why do I live the way I hate?

It is self-release and self-avoidance. I hate the appearance of being a negative and unmotivated self, I want to become a positive and gentle self, but when I go through some of it, I feel that the positive life is too tiring, and I slowly start to let myself become a little more depressed, trying to escape this unfriendly world. People will always change, the original intention is easy to obtain, always difficult to keep, most people in life in the continuous growth of the continuous experience to change their original intention, this is understandable and human nature.

Because I have never really made a plan for a good life, let alone taken action for a good life. If there is no plan to achieve the steps, there will be no action behavior, and you will encounter a little blow and retreat, and you will feel tired when you encounter a little effort and disobedience. As he continued to retreat, fear and lack of progress, his life became worse and worse, and finally he formed a habit and became a person who made him hate and did not fight.