My husband is backsliding, who should the doll have the last name? 20

Hehe, it's not worth divorcing for this little thing, are you getting married just to keep a family name alive? Even if you change your surname, it's not your own blood After saying that your child must have a son in the future? Going to the grave to worship the ancestors is also a generation's business, like the previous generations, who swept their graves, if the children are not filial, the name is useless.

I think, no matter whose surname the child has is the crystallization of your love, it doesn't matter whose surname you have, the important thing is that you should talk about how to be good to your child, how to give your child a good future in the future, so that the child can grow up happily, I think there is no divorce, if you really think about the child, don't care who the child's surname is, let alone divorce, divorce is the biggest damage to the child, the child's surname is not important to me, the important thing is really family affection!

Hehe. Then you have to get along with your husband. However, ordinary people follow their father's surname in their families, which is more acceptable.

Besides, don't you think it's honorable for the child to follow the surname of the person you love the most, and you brought a baby to their family?

It's not worth the divorce for this reason, talk to your husband about it, but the baby has the same surname as anyone, if you want to give birth to a second one, you will follow your husband's surname!!

Go with the flow. Whoever your child's surname is the result of your love. Do surnames from ancient times still exist today?

I think you often do untrustworthy things so that children can see, want to educate children, let children listen to you, believe you, you must first manage yourself, and then you speak children will really listen, otherwise it is difficult to change, it is a habit to go back on your word, it is a problem of consciousness, honesty and trustworthiness is the foundation of life, or let him really understand the seriousness of backtracking, children can restrain themselves from this behavior.

You also deliberately went back on your word once, and said to him afterwards, "What's the matter?"

How does it feel to go back on your word? If you don't let him feel it, it's really unpleasant, so you don't treat him as a child.

We live with his parents, but I want to have my own home, but my husband is a very filial and obedient son, he is mainly based on his parents, let's take this time as an example! I discussed with my husband about buying a house, he also agreed, just to buy a house has a good policy, his parents also said to buy a house, we also went to the sales to inquire about the house price, a few days later his father said not to buy, my husband also said not to buy, but also found a lot of excuses not to buy a house, you said that my husband went back on me, what should I do, please help me, thank you for the question addition: but my husband also wants to belong to our home, but he is too obedient, to you say that like our 80s can buy a house, Should parents buy it for me?

Question added: You said that we want to belong to our own home is wrong, but let my parents help me pay the down payment, and besides, we move out to live in it is good for us, I don't know how my husband listens to him so much, oops, the key word, buy a house, house price policy, obedient father, filial piety from: webpage2012-10-24Questioner:

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This problem is relatively solved. If your husband decides to socialize a lot due to the nature of his work, and he is not good at refusing, it is recommended that you communicate more with the people in his unit, especially his colleagues, to explain that you are ready to have children, I think most people will still understand and will not persuade him to drink. Of course, if your husband is a good drinker, there is no way.

Let's sit down with him and talk calmly, after all, drinking alcohol is not good for your health, and how do you know if it will affect your children in the future? Will it make him think that since his father can do it, he can also think about it? The other is communication, although the husband and wife should be tolerant, but when there is a problem, it is still necessary to communicate, so as not to expand the rift, but when communicating, we should pay attention to emotions.

Alcohol is the most direct harm to people, and it is even worse for having children, from the text I feel that your husband also wants to change, but alcohol addiction is also very difficult to quit, it is really not possible to move out of the elders in the family to persuade him, let him make a note, make up his mind, first deal with this formation, as for the future, it depends on him, alas.

Your husband has very poor self-control. There are drugs for alcohol withdrawal, you can try it. Or help him find a better drink than wine to replace it, as long as it's not harmful.

This is a disease, and there is also such propaganda on the Internet, it takes ** to quit alcohol addiction.

If mine is helpful to you, please choose the answer.

How did you two break up? It's okay if you break up peacefully, otherwise don't go on a final trip with him, so as not to be fooled!

There are too many cases of this.

If I were a woman, I would definitely not choose him, because I don't have a sense of steadiness at all, for example, if you want to protect you for a lifetime, but you run away when you are in danger, then you are not asking for your own destruction!

You're not the first to run into such a problem, but you won't be the last either.

There are many reasons why a man forgets to commit You carefully analyze and analyze what kind of person your husband belongs to, and then analyze why this is the case. Finally, let's see what the solution is. If it's not too much of a problem, it's better not to get a divorce.

After all, divorce and not going to child's play is complicated.

People always have advantages and disadvantages, he loves to promise you, which means that he will please you, and know to say sweet words to coax you, as for whether it can be realized, it depends on the individual's ability.

You can learn from him.

But it's also a reversal on him alone.

See how he reacts, see if he's annoyed.

Then he will understand how annoying his actions are.

It is recommended to communicate more··· Talk about the heart... If this continues, the contradiction will deepen... It is advisable for both parties to take a step back.

In this way, a man is immature, 2 not responsible enough, 3 not honest enough.

I don't want it anyway.

My boyfriend is the same, he said it's his anomaly, who knows, he's still on the move.

You're done with this life, so let's leave.

It's not that the man is backtracking. The key lies in people's own quality and cultivation.

You have to pay attention to this, how the child's shortcomings arise, for a new life, his whole cognition is to learn and imitate, he can't create a set of lifestyles, is it that you or other family members are also used to treating him or others (for example, the reward for saying good to him is not realized, the punishment of saying good is not implemented, and treating others in front of him is also backsliding, etc.).

The influence of parents on their children is unimaginable, and it is not possible to solve the problem directly. Especially the exemplary role, we must pay attention to it, dear!

First of all, adults should lead by example and be strict with themselves, and the two people should first reach a consensus on the issue of educating children, and then they can be taught from the little things in life, and be patient.