Li Bihua said that people who are too smart are not suitable for falling in love. Is this true?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-06
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Dealing with someone who is too smart can lead to a sense of insecurity and the possibility of being calculated from time to time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I think it depends on how the person in love feels, some people are very smart and more flavorful when they talk about love, more interesting...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Love is not a game for smart people in the first place, so if something pure is touched by a game, it is not special.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everyone has a different opinion, it depends on what you think, do I think there is a suitable and unsuitable relationship? So, people who are in a relationship nowadays are not very smart?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    For people who are "too smart", "falling in love" is not a question of whether it is suitable or not, but whether it can or not.

    Because he is too smart, he can see through the deception and jealousy in love at a glance, how can he enjoy love in peace? Therefore, it cannot be.

    Because he is too smart, he can see through the world at a glance, what about love and love? That's the story in the playbook. So don't.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, everyone's emotional views are different, and some people love to be too smart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is said that people who are too smart can't fall in love, probably because they are too smart. If you are too calculating and calculating when you fall in love, you will lose the feeling of falling in love itself, and it will not be easy to fall in love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People who are too smart can see through everything, and wisdom will hurt. Because I see it too clearly, it's easy to get hurt in my feelings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because they have high emotional intelligence, they feel that they are very smart and look down on others, so they have no way to fall in love, because some people don't want to fall in love with such people because they are too tired.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because people who are too smart always love to guess other people's behaviors, so others will be very annoying, so there is no way for such people to fall in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because people who are too smart, they will always see any of your careful thoughts and tempers, and then they will point it out to you, so it feels like there is no privacy in dating them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he is too smart, he will see through a lot of each other's thoughts when he falls in love, so that two people will be very tired of getting along, and it is not conducive to the development of the relationship between two people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People who are too smart are generally good at calculation, and they must learn to share when they fall in love, and they can't be too calculating.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is a bad statement, smart people know how to fall in love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Smart people actually have a very good set of chasing lovers, but it may also make lovers feel that you are not sincere, so be smart and careful, so you must understand each other's hearts, chase step by step, but use true feelings (don't like to spray in a hurry)!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I feel that I am not suitable for love, or because I have been single for a long time, I seem to have lost interest in falling in love, and I no longer want to fall in love, but I feel that it is good for a person like myself to be single, and I am not good at love.

    Or because of the love and talking, I am afraid, afraid of the feeling of falling in love with the person I like, afraid that I will hurt the other party or be hurt by the other party, thinking that I am already very inappropriate for falling in love, and I deserve to be single.

    Some people think that they are no longer suitable for falling in love, probably because they no longer want to be constrained, and they feel that falling in love is a particularly tiring thing.

    Some people compare love to a gift from God to mankind, in fact, don't worry that you are not good enough or the other party is not good enough, but to talk about this love very carefully, because falling in love itself is to make two people happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is related to personal thoughts and personality You find someone who understands you to talk to, see the kind of girls who dare not look at each other, but contact more cheerful people, go for a walk, contact with different things and people Your personality will change, there is a good saying, there is no product that can't be sold, only people who can't sell products, and the character is not born.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on how you understand the word simplicity, if simplicity is used to think about life, it is a kind of state of mind pursuit, it is not naïve, not ignorance, but a state of life after getting rid of the hustle and bustle, washing away the lead, this is a compliment. Many people are chasing simplicity, but it is not so simple to realize the realm, if you understand the simplicity is just ignorance or naivety, then of course it is not suitable for falling in love, because it is easy to let the feelings blind, simply put, it is easy to be deceived, but if our understanding of simplicity is the same, it proves that you are a relatively mature person, it is a relatively mature person, so why not fall in love? I wonder if you are satisfied with this answer?

    Finally, I wish you a smooth relationship and a happy life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are no absolutes, there will always be something suitable for you. It's just that before meeting the right person, it is better to lack than abuse, and simple is also simple and good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, see if you haven't been in love and don't know anything about simplicity.

    Or has a simple personality but understands feelings. The first one is not suitable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're still your girlfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A man's character is not spoken, but evaluated by others, judging a man's character, can know whether he is suitable for getting along with, whether it is love or friendship, you can directly see it. No one wants to treat a man with a bad character around him, which will not only affect him, but also make others think that he is also that kind of person. If a person speaks very directly, does not care about other people's feelings at all, and sometimes is particularly pompous, and even says things that are very incompatible with his life, you know that he is very inferior and does not care about the feelings of others.

    Emotional intelligence is also low, women are not suitable for dating and falling in love with him, and it is not appropriate to be friends, often the way he speaks can show the person's character, and can also see his character and behavior. When encountering difficulties, you can see how a person's character is, the so-called sharing weal and woe you are not there, you are not worthy of glory and wealth, many women leave him when a man is hard, then when he has a successful career, he will not think of you. In turn, it can also be for men, when you are sad, not by your side, when you are safe, you want to fall in love with you, they are not very characterful, and the same is true for being friends, those who leave you at a critical moment are hypocrites, this situation is the most unsuitable for a love story, let alone marriage.

    If I'm with you, I know that I'm greedy for your little cheapness, I don't care about your feelings at all, and if I take something from him, he will count it several times and take it out to talk about things, but I don't know that I have taken a lot of things from you, but you are more tolerant and don't speak. This kind of person also doesn't know how to deal with others, and he only knows that he wants you to invite him to dinner, but he doesn't know that he has to fulfill his promises. It is not necessary to fall in love with such a person.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Represents personal views only.

    Maybe in this world, there is no (cultivation) to become a (good person) and then fall in love and live.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Unreliable, people will change, and love is often the easiest to change a person.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The most obvious feeling is that the communication is not smooth, I can't even quarrel, I don't admit my mistakes, and I feel that I am making trouble unreasonably. Every time I lose my temper with him, he first looks aggrieved, obviously it's not his fault, he has to apologize first and say sorry, and then coax me, think about me I'm really a demon. I had a quarrel with my boyfriend and broke up, I said you can not have a backbone, just leave like this, he is so aggrieved and coquettish with me, never angry with me.

    People with a hot temper are the most unsuitable to fall in love with people who are too good-tempered, they will always be punched on the cotton, hating themselves, their emotions have nowhere to vent, and finally they have to self-reflect. One time I dreamed that I had a quarrel with him during a nap, and when I woke up, I felt very angry when I saw him, so I scolded him. He was at a loss for what to do, pinching a popsicle and not knowing whether to hand it to me, as if he had really done something wrong.

    Later, after a few days, I felt that day was a bit too much, and told him that I was angry with him because I dreamed of arguing with him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that people who are too good-tempered give people the impression that they are too matureBoys like to be childish, cute girls.

    It can also be said that you have a good temper, your personality is very mature, for boys, it may make them very uncomfortable, so that they have no way to start, making people feel that their minds are relatively mature, boys generally like to be a little smaller than their own minds, and good tempers are suitable for people who need to look higher in mind to cherish. Girls with bad tempers seem to need more pain, good-tempered girls may appear more independent, and boys feel less sure when they chase them.

    I think that if you meet a person with a good temper, I hope you love her, not too strong, too mild temper person, behind often stands a strong father or mother The child is born weak, the mind is still mature, in the face of strong parents, the weak child often has only two choices, either do not forgive and stubbornly resist to the end, or swallow the anger and only promise.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think it's that I'm not unsuitable but I haven't met the right person, after all, everyone's personality is different, some people like complementary lovers, some people like similar lovers, and a good-tempered lover is not without a temper, but he never bears to send it to you!

    In modern society, will that young man have a little temper and personality? When some people are in love, they feel that their partner has a good temper and can't even quarrel, thinking that they have no personalityIn fact, this kind of object is really because he loves you too much and can't bear to hurt you, if he doesn't love you, how can he tolerate your unreasonableness and willfulness?

    I think that people who think that they are too good-tempered are not suitable for a relationship is mostly because they are too tolerant of the people they love, and sometimes even wronged themselvesTheir other half will rely on each other's liking, have no fear, and will not feel the other party's good temper, because they are afraid of losing, and will not cherish it because of this. Therefore, no one is born with a good temper, and there is nothing that should be, every effort is because of love, don't wait until you regret it, you will be sad that you didn't cherish the person who had a good temper with you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it's because people who have a good temper will tolerate each other's mistakes again and again.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A person with a good temper is not suitable for falling in love, and he is a person who cannot control a bad temper.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because a good-natured person will not get angry no matter what the other party says, and the other party will get used to it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The feeling of being in love is very subtle, and men and women officially choose to be together because of the feeling of being in love. During the honeymoon period of a relationship, a grumpy person will generally put away his temper and not show it. If you can't control your temper even in love, of course, you don't like each other very much, and naturally you are not suitable for falling in love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    People with too good tempers are suitable for being friends, not lovers, and falling in love with people with too good tempers lacks the interest of lovers.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you have a good temper, you will feel cowardly, insecure, and unmanly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because you will be wronged by loving each other, it will make you very painful.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's really not suitable, the two are individuals with personality collisions, and it will be easy to have contradictions if they have bad personalities.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because such people are easy to be bullied and easily used as spare tires.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is not necessarily. There are a lot of good-natured people who are all in love.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because I'll see you start tonight.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Too weak and indecisive.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, it's a relative problem, no matter how smart a person is, he will meet someone who will make him stupid, complementary, it's good.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Women are too smart in the face of men, it will put pressure on men, and men will feel that you see through him without any privacy, but when you are in love, women will be carried away by love, so be sensible and smart when you are in love.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    First, you are too smart, you know all the tricks he has to chase you, and he won't be able to catch up with you, so he will be sad.

    Second, you're too smart and you know all the tricks he can lie about, and you'll quarrel and he'll have no fun.

    Third, you are too smart, you know his romance, without freshness, you will not last long.

    Hehe, but that person also wants women to be smart, but to what extent is it smart, that is, when you should be smart, you are smart, when you are confused, when he lies, I hope you are smart and understand, but in front of outsiders to give him face, pretend to be confused, he likes you to be very smart when he is sad, you can find his sadness, but don't see through it, give them space to solve it by themselves, and retain dignity.

    So remember, men like smart women who pretend to be confused.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's not that you can't be too smart, it's to disguise it properly, because love is about the happiness of a woman's life, how to find your own happiness if you are not smart, smart women will dig out potential men, just like a friend of mine When his wife looked for him, he was a person who had just gotten out of school and had a poor meal without a meal, but she insisted on starting a family with him, and now he has three suites in the provincial capital, and now he has an annual income of five to eight hundred thousand, she was also stupid at the beginning, and he was not too hot for her, she could have chosen me, But she insisted on choosing my friend, and conceived a child for him before she got married, do you say she was stupid, but from the environment of their home today, she pretended to be stupid at that time and changed everything today,

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