Is it true that people who are not suitable can t fall in love?

In fact, I used to think like this all the time, and even naively thought that I must marry my first love in this life, and my first love is a lifetime, and I only fall in love once in my life, that is my first love, what a beautiful vision, but then because I experienced an incident, I thought it was a ridiculous thing, and my whole thinking changed a lot, because I really can't live so naively anymore, because no one's life is so perfect, Even if there are, there are very few, so try not to fantasize about life so beautifully, because even if you may be lucky, you still have to live in reality, not in imagination.

A long time ago, I always thought that I must find someone who not only wants to say that I like, but also a person who is very similar to myself, but An Yu has so many coincidences, how can there be so many good things, so that you not only meet the person you like very much, she also happens to be the right person, don't dream, really, it's too unrealistic, you've seen a few of the first person you met is the person you are destined to be with him for the rest of your life, get married and have children together, although there is, There are really very few, if not very few, people who are so lucky.

So I think I was really naïve at that time, and now I think about it at that time, I was unacceptable, how could I be so naïve, so girly, it's really cute, and Tamsui hasn't had that kind of process.

But in fact, we should really have a correct view of love, of course, this is not to say that my own view of love must be the standard of love that everyone should abide by, but I think we should recognize the reality, there are not many things that are so lucky, don't always live in the imagination, because you can imagine that the age is really not much.

If you don't cherish your youthful age, you can talk about a youthful love on the campus of the university, then slowly you will regret it, and if you continue to wait, it is really not an easy thing, believe me, although everyone's fate is different, or luck is different, but please don't spend your youth blindly waiting for the person who has not appeared.

You should cherish the person in front of you, even if you just like it, but you don't feel how suitable you are, how suitable you are for marriage, but if you really think like this, I think your psychological age is really mature, you really wasted your good youth, don't try to accept the person you like very much, but are willing to wait for a person you always thought existed in your heart, I really feel sorry for you, and even I think the most terrible thing is, The person who likes you and the person you like is the person you should be with for the rest of your life, because whether you are suitable or not is a process that needs to be run in later.

So, cherish your good youth and follow your heart, even if you just like it, it won't be so suitable.

I think yes, it's not suitable, I think it's that they have different views on each other, they can't understand each other's thoughts, and they only have quarrels after being together, no matter how good the relationship is, it will disappear little by little in the quarrel.

I'm an art student, and I usually come out to see art exhibitions when I have free time, but my ex-boyfriend prefers to go on a date like watching a movie, giving way to each other, I try to go to the museum as little as possible, and he occasionally accompanies me to go shopping, but every time I always feel like I'm wasting time, and I waste a lot of time on things that don't mean anything to him.

I think that even if I can't understand these paintings, I can at least understand my behavior, but I can't understand it. I can see exhibitions by my favorite masters, so if I have time, I can buy a ticket to see it. At this time, he couldn't understand my behavior, and only felt that it was a waste of money and time, because this matter was often quarreled, and each other did not compromise, and the three views were different, so they had to break up.

I think that two people can compromise on many things together, the three views are inconsistent, absolutely unbearable, they can't understand each other's speech, the mental torture and blows are unimaginable, and if they are together, they are very tired.

People who are not suitable can only refuse from the beginning, otherwise getting along will be torture for both parties. The three views are cultivated from a young age, and it is difficult to correct them when they grow up, not to mention that as long as the three views are not so extreme, the three views are extremely common, everyone grows up in a different environment, and there is no right or wrong. So you can't get the other person to change the worldview he understands for you.

Therefore, I think that knowing that it is not suitable, no matter what factor it is, ideologically, materially, or otherwise unsuitable, it is the embodiment of the three different views, so we should not be together.

No. Since it is not suitable, there is no need to fall in love, what will be the result of talking? In this way, things that waste time and emotions are not needed.

If two people want to be together, I think the first thing to do is to see if the other party is suitable for them, whether they are the person they want in their hearts, and whether they are the person who is willing to accompany them all the way. If I feel that each other is suitable for the reason to continue talking, if I feel that he is not suitable for me and is not the person I want in my heart, then I don't feel anything if I continue to talk, I can't find a suitable reason, and I can't feel the joy and happiness of being together, I think such two people should not be able to continue.

If they have to talk, they must go to the wedding hall and the end of their lives. I think the lives of these two people are the most tragic lives, I have not enjoyed the most romantic love process in my life, and I have not enjoyed the tenderness and sweetness of the wind and snow. Therefore, there is no need to talk about people who feel that they are not suitable for each other.

I myself think it shouldn't be, if it's not appropriate, then why should I be in love, so isn't there a problem?

This is very common in our daily lives. As a classmate born in the 90s, I have also seen a lot of this, young and young, when they were just together, the two of them were hot, and after slowly getting in touch with each other, they felt that it was inappropriate and began to make noise, since it was not suitable, then why are they still together.

I have a pair of obvious outsiders around me, it is really two people, are not suitable friends, and they are still together, I really don't understand them, the party is my colleague's sister, my colleague's family conditions are very good, there are two daughters at home, parents have prepared for two children, house, parents are thinking, there is a daughter who can recruit a son-in-law who comes to the door when the time comes, and also contribute to their own family. My sister has already started a family, and this sister has broken her parents' hearts.

My colleague said that my sister found a former high school classmate who was 2 years younger than herself, and after graduating from college, her work has not been very stable, and this little boy is relatively addicted to online games.

If two people quarrel, most of them are for the boy to go online and make a mistake, and they have been in love together for more than a year, and they haven't done a reliable thing, anyway, in the eyes of my colleague, as a sister, whether it is from my sister's temper, or my own education, family, this boy is not a suitable place for his sister. And every time I quarrel, my sister compromises, and I slowly feel like I'm used to it.

Sometimes I think about this question myself, men and women fall in love together, in fact, I know best in my heart, I know that it is not suitable, so is it necessary to be together? Since it is not suitable, there is no need to be together, rather than two people not being happy, it is better to separate, which can be regarded as a relief.

We only love one person in our life, but when we get married, that person is not necessarily the one we love the most. Every girl wants to be with a vigorous guy. But some boys are more machismo, and this kind of boy does not have a sense of humor.

But they will have their own way of life and their own concept of family. These people probably don't talk about love. Because of machismo, they don't try to make girls happy.

I think it might be shameful to do that. That's why we say that there are people in life who are just married, but they are not suitable for falling in love.

Therefore, some boys are indeed more suitable for marriage, but they are not suitable for falling in love with him. Because some boys really haven't been in love, they don't know how to get along with girls. This is more suitable for marriage.

There are such people, they are often very unsuitable for love, the main reason is that such people are often too selfish, they are obsessed with their own world, and will not care about the feelings of others, they will not pay more when they are in love, they just want to get more love from each other, such people are often destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

A man must have a sense of responsibility and be very dedicated to a relationship. We can often see that when boys are pursuing girls, all kinds of rhetoric coax girls not to want, but when they are together, the boy's nature begins to be exposed, and the good vows have been forgotten, they will not care about the feelings of girls, and they do not understand what a man's responsibilities are. There are even some scumbags who will step on two boats when they are in love with their girlfriends, and people who are not dedicated to their feelings are definitely not suitable for falling in love.

Love is selfless, and if you want all kinds of rewards without giving in a relationship, you are simply a fool's dream. Love is managed by two people, and when you start to be with her, you should have this kind of awareness, and your own things already belong to each other. There are some boys who are stingy and are reluctant to spend money on her when they get along with girls, which girl will fall in love with such a calculating man, generosity is the basic quality of a boy.

Trust in each other is also very important, if two people are suspicious of each other when they are together, and always suspect that the other party has a lover outside, then such a relationship often cannot last long. If there is no even the most basic trust between two people, then they have no meaning to be together.

There is a kind of person who is born with no feelings for love, and this kind of person is not suitable for falling in love. They value their family, friendship and even career more than love.

At first, I didn't believe that anyone would have no feelings for love, but then I thought about it, some people are loyal to platonic spiritual love, and some people have a sense of their own gender, so why don't there be people who don't have feelings for love. We fall in love just to satisfy our own emotions, and for them other things can satisfy this feeling, then of course they don't need to be in love.

So this kind of person who doesn't need love is not suitable for falling in love.

There are also people whose love has been greatly traumatized, causing fear of love. It's also an emotional problem, and because you're hurt, you're scared of love.

In fact, it is very easy to understand, for example, if someone almost lost his life because of a car accident, then he will be very afraid of riding in the car in the future.

There are many people who have lost the love of their lives and will not love anyone else in this life, because his heart has been completely given to the person who has disappeared, and this kind of person is no longer suitable for love.

There is also a kind of person who is too suspicious, and the state of people in the early, middle and late stages of falling in love is different. Sometimes after a long relationship, the old husband and wife will be more bland. But some people are very suspicious, you don't spoil me like you did at the beginning, you don't love me anymore.

Maybe even the other half is just tired today and forgets to say goodnight, and he will ask if he doesn't love him anymore. Because of suspicion, I will cut off this feeling.

But there are very few love that can maintain the same heat from the beginning to the end, so I don't think this kind of person who is too suspicious is suitable for falling in love.

Some people are not suitable for a relationship, and it may vary from person to person. Maybe some people have a dull personality and are not suitable for getting along with others, so they will be considered unsuitable for relationships, but we can't deny that we are not suitable for dating based on this.

In fact, I think there are a lot to consider when falling in love, such as whether the three views are the same, whether the interests and hobbies are the same, whether there are common topics to talk about, there may be many girls wondering, what do these aspects to consider have to do with falling in love?

It just has a lot to do with it, you and your partner are talking about a topic, he doesn't know anything, you don't have any interest in talking about it, the topic stops, and both of you are embarrassed. If he knows and can talk to you, the topic will go on.

A friend of mine once also bothered with this problem, thinking that she was not suitable for a relationship, and then I comforted her and said that it was not that you were not suitable for a relationship, but that I didn't find the right person. If that one is the right person, then every day is like spending Valentine's Day every day, with a sweet smile on his face.

On the contrary, if you find a partner who is not suitable for you, then there will be quarrels every day, so that both parties will get bored and finally break up unhappily.

Don't be afraid to fall in love, in fact, in the process of falling in love, you will slowly find out what you want, or what kind of partner you are suitable for, love is a very beautiful process, but also a process of exploration, will take the initiative to find your own shortcomings in love.

Find a partner who suits you, go to a quiet relationship, and live the life you want to live in peace.