What should I do if my child is late in speaking and has a strange temper?

Updated on parenting 2024-08-04
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Two reasons: 1 is to change the environment. Children are not accustomed to unfamiliar places, and often change environments, and children do not like to talk because they are not familiar with people and things.

    2. Because the old man has been with him for a while, the children you have brought don't know how to use what language, and the old people are more spoiled with children, which leads to changes in the child's personality. In fact, it is much better to take care of the children by yourself. You should be by his side, spend more time with him, spend more time with him, and talk to him more now, regardless of whether he can make sense or not.

    And he didn't have anything to tell him. Don't scold him often, go and praise him more when you find what he does well, and slowly he will not be so closed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    In the past, there was such a saying that the three-year-old is set for life, of course, this is unscientific, but it can be seen that the three-year-old child is the best to teach, you don't have to worry, every day after school home, you have to spend more time with the child, play games with her, tell him stories, and slowly she will change, in addition, the bad problem must be changed, can not spoil her, to educate her well, you and your lover will be good (this is very important), I believe that your baby will become lively and cute.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In fact, children do not like to talk and often lose their temper. It is possible to see the usual state of education.

    However, since parents ask such questions, it means that they have realized that there is something wrong with their education methods, which is a good thing. Next, it's time to figure out how to guide it.

    1. First of all, parents regulate their words and deeds.

    Children are the mirror of their parents, and the way children deal with emotions must be learned from adults. If we can't control our emotions well, yelling, stretching our faces, and losing our temper when we encounter unsatisfactory conditions, how can our children not lose their temper? On the contrary, if we can manage our emotions well, we will not be in a hurry and deal with them calmly.

    When the child sees it in his eyes, he will also keep it in mind, and when he encounters something, he will not only know how to lose his temper.

    2. Allow your child to lose her temper.

    This is the legendary "acceptance of children". If the child really doesn't know how to control his temper, he will have a seizure, and using "no" and "no" will definitely not work! As the closest person to our children, we must first accept our children's bad emotions.

    You are your own mother, if you don't support him, who will support him? )

    Therefore, when your child has a tantrum, you might as well hold him, say some words of understanding, and do some accepting actions to help him release his bad emotions. The child feels understood, and his temper will ease a lot. Don't fight violence with violence.

    3. Find out the bad mood.

    When the child's mood is stable, it is necessary to help the child find out the cause and solve it, not to say that it is over after being comforted. Why do children get angry? Is it because the requirements are not met? Or is it because of a setback?

    When we know why, we can work with our children to find ways to do it, so that the next time they encounter a similar situation, they will know what to do instead of just losing their temper.

    If you are frustrated, encourage your child and help him overcome the setback if necessary, so that he can taste success. In this way, the child knows that finding a way is more important and effective than having a tantrum. After that, it will be up to you to choose which method works best!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What parents should do is to actively communicate and communicate with their children, and in the process they must continue to encourage their children, so that children will gradually be willing to talk to other people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In daily life, parents should pay more attention to their children, give them more care, encourage their children more, often accompany their children, and play some small games with them to make them happier, so that children will not become particularly withdrawn.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Parents should adopt a gentle attitude in communicating with their children, and at the same time, they should also teach them according to their aptitude. You should also think from the child's point of view. And you also need to learn to listen to your child. Also comfort your child often.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If the child has such a situation, then the best way is to let the child go to the outside world to play, let him get in touch with nature more, and secondly, you can also take the child to go to the places he is interested in, such as the Children's Palace, you can also enroll the child in a broadcasting class, let the child exercise his eloquence, and secondly, you can also let him raise a small animal, cultivate his sense of responsibility, you can also let him walk the small animal, and then communicate with others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In this case, I think it is very necessary for parents to take the initiative to communicate with their children to understand their inner thoughts; To change this habit, we must gradually encourage him to talk more, and only by speaking up about problems can he solve them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Parents should guide him, for example, talk to him and ask him to explain the reason for his anger, and parents can talk to their child so that he can take the initiative to correct this bad behavior.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think parents tell their children that if you don't speak, then I will treat you as an admission of mistakes, so that your child will definitely contradict you, and he will change this habit.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents always don't talk well, but they always blame the reason for the child's bad temper: because when they find that their parents have been talking yin and yang, they can actually communicate and communicate with their parents, sometimes parents don't know that they are speaking harshly, she just stands in their own perspective to communicate with the child, but the child is a little ahead of the time to see such a communication, because the parents are always holding their own standards in their hands to ask the child, But the child's ability is not up to the end of the day, so it makes the child sound a little vitriol.

    As a child and mother to communicate and communicate, communication and communication with the father is an indispensable link, of course, whether your communication is effective, this depends on your own ability, but I expect every parent to change their way of speaking, you are also the child's parent, not the child's enemy, do not have to be like an enemy between the two people later.

    Parents don't have to force their child to do things she doesn't want to do. I hope that every parent will reflect on their own actions, reflect on the way they speak and do things, and whether it will bring uncomfortable feelings to their children, otherwise one day children will change because of your behavior, and they will become very bitter and mean, but parents think that you don't value me like this. If you are doing this, you are sorry that you don't want your child to behave in this kind of personal behavior, and parents have to teach by example.

    Children don't understand how mom and dad are feeling for a long time, and they can't hurt them with their behavior, and they don't want to send them sex. Suppress your mood. Parents should not lose their temper with their children all the time.

    They need to think about how to control their actions. Let children be sensitive from an early age. If the parents are always angry with their children, the children will hate the parents' behavior.

    Parents think that their words are effective interference, but children sound threatening, so no matter how good they are, children may not necessarily listen. It is not unclear in the parent-child relationship, and parents think that they are emphasizing one meaning, but in the child it sounds to another meaning.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the process of home education, if parents are often grumpy with their children, it will affect their children. Parents must control their temper so that their children can learn to manage their emotions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Parents are always not good at talking and passing on negative emotions to their children. Children will also be affected in this family atmosphere, which will have a negative impact on the formation of children's personality in the long run. Don't always blame your child for having a bad temper.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because today's parents are particularly strong, they will always impose their own thoughts on their children, without considering their children's emotions, nor their children's thoughts, nor whether they want their children or not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the child is short-tempered and irritable, parents must not reprimand or punish the child, but learn to communicate with the child calmly, reason with him, guide him to think about what to do first, and say something unhappy, instead of venting with irritability and anger; Walk into the child's inner world, and meet the child's requirements if it is reasonable. In addition, parents should spend more time with their children, accompany them to read some useful and educational books, and try to do more interactive games with their children.

    Clause. 1. Parents set an example for children: Parents should pay attention to cultivating a good family atmosphere, and do not quarrel in front of children when they encounter problems between husband and wife, but can let children communicate calmly when they are present, so that children can understand that communication between people can be done without losing their temper.

    This subtle influence can be very good for children.

    Clause. 2. Teach children how to communicate and express: Parents should communicate with children in a timely manner, telling them what methods they should use to communicate with others and how to show their dissatisfaction after encountering things.

    Although children do not fully understand the parent's language, regular communication with children can still produce good results.

    Clause. 3. Be sure to inform the child in time that he has a short temper and irritability, so that the child can realize that the performance at this time is wrong, stop it in time, and encourage the child to express his emotions calmly. But once there is a short temper and irritability, it must be punished appropriately.

    For example, shorten the time spent playing, or even reduce the child's pocket money, etc.

    Clause. Fourth, patiently and meticulously explain the harmfulness to the child, so that the child really understands what kind of adverse consequences will be brought about by being short-tempered and angry. In particular, it is necessary to tell the child what harm it will bring to his body for a long time, and how strange his personality will become.

    Of course, the education must be when the child is calm, and pay attention to appropriate language skills.

    Clause. 5. Scientific education and punishment: Parents should inform children from an early age that their tempered and irritable behavior is wrong, and once the child has relevant performances, they should stop it in time, and praise them in time when they express their emotions calmly, so that children can establish the concept of right and wrong from an early age.

    If the child behaves in a more extreme way, there are a number of ways to punish him.

    Clause. 6. Parents can take their children to outdoor sports every day, divert their energy and attention, cultivate their interests and hobbies, and develop their children's abilities, so that their concentration on doing things will gradually improve, and they will not be easy to get angry.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parents should not scold their children, they should be more tolerant, and they should also set an example by creating a good family atmosphere, and usually go out with their children to play.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Generally speaking, this kind of child is habitual, that is, what he wants to do, the parents will promise him to do it, at this time we have to change our thinking, that is, we can't try to follow his heart, we have to stop it and control it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Pay attention to your attitude; distraction; Proper cold treatment; Teach your child to vent her emotions reasonably.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    <> "Children always have tantrums, what should parents do?

    Analyze the causes. A child's temper tantrum often comes with the development of self-awareness. For those children whose language skills are still relatively limited, the temper is generally caused by having a need proposition but not knowing how to express it, and when the caregiver is unable to meet the need in time or even ignores the need, the temper is detonated; For children who already have some verbal skills, temper tantrums may arise from negative emotions of panic, loneliness, or unappreciation.

    Countermeasures and suggestions. Parents should first realize that tantrums are a common psychological phenomenon in the process of children's growth, and do not regard children's easy tantrums as a failure of family education, and according to the American parent-child communication expert Patti, tantrums are actually one of the child's psychological mechanisms.

    Countermeasures and suggestions. There is no such thing as a gantrum for no reason, and when a child has a tantrum, parents should also learn to find out the reasons behind the tantrum, for example, is there a need for the child to be neglected? Does the way you handle conflict create a sense of unfairness in your child?

    Does your child experience any learning disabilities? And so on, this kind of questioning is easier to help you prescribe the right medicine, and the child will learn to put himself in the shoes of his parents from the understanding way of dealing with them.

    Countermeasures and suggestions. Learning to accept your child's temper is important, but if you don't have enough patience to deal with your child's temper, don't hold it on, and ask other family members to help keep an eye on your child's safety and go to another room to calm down. But don't say things like "I don't like you anymore" or "I'll come back to me when I've cried enough."

    We can let the child see the limit of his patience, but we can't deny the child's emotions and make the child's pain worse.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This shows that parents are too accustomed to their children, and the best way is to beat him, and it will be much better if he is afraid.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I am now leading by example, teaching by example, giving children a good code of conduct, to let children know what is right and what is wrong, do not seep into some of the child's bad problems, and parents do not lose their temper at will during the education period of their children, and communicate calmly with their children.

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