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Personally, I think it's understandable, if two people can't be friends because of confession, then it's better not to confess, otherwise you will lose a good friendship.
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It should not be accepted. Since you feel that it is very difficult to be friends and it is very difficult to say, then you have to think about it and then refuse the other party's request, so that you can stop the loss in time.
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If a girl offers to be friends with you, if she really makes friends with you, not to contact you less, or even to communicate more and contact more, instead of trying to avoid contact with you and avoid that kind of involvement, you still have a chance.
Sometimes a girl will reject you because she wants to test you more, doesn't know you well enough, is too reserved to agree, or suddenly isn't ready to be your girlfriend. All these reasons are opportunistic, that is, if she doesn't have a crush on someone who might succeed and doesn't dislike you, then you can keep trying.
<> you think, unless the two hit it off at first sight and really fell in love, or the two have been together for a long time and know each other well, she can decide whether to be your girlfriend or not right away, otherwise most of the other situations will be rejection.
A boy likes a girl, a girl loves her if you love her, a girl doesn't like you to deny your career, a girl saves you face, you can make friends, don't have lovers, men go from joy to depression, boys are a little lost in their hearts, and some are unwilling to say to themselves that they like the girl, so they have to prepare carefully, accept it, don't accept it?
A man and a woman are together, one party has the intention and the other has no intention, what you do, you can't touch her heart, wishful thinking is fruitless, the girl offers to make friends, you and her friends, put away your love and replace her with a normal heart.
Marriage pays attention to fate, if the two of you have fate, how rough you will be together, without fate, you don't want to be together'You have to adjust your mentality and face the reality with a normal heart, people can't be hanged on a tree, how can there be grass in the world, this is something that no one can take away.
To be friends is to give you a chance, see if you can grasp the opportunity, how many lovers start from being friends, if you don't even know how to be friends, then you don't have a chance at all, it's normal to be rejected, feel uncomfortable, time is medicine, after a long time, you will choose your happiness again.
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I think if you are very uncomfortable to be friends, then you should not accept it, and if the confession is rejected, you can choose to be a stranger.
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Hello friends, I think you can still be friends after the confession fails, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later. Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest. So how do you deal with this relationship?
1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship. In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship. After being rejected, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection....Whether it's because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other person, or because your relationship hasn't reached the point of formal love, you can decide what to do next.
However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is only because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship......Then you might as well give each other more time to spend with each other, maybe next time you can watch the clouds open and see the sunrise.
2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure. Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if their confession is rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if they fail, it can be said that they are just joking with each other. But....You never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you.
So....When boys confess, it's better to be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.
3. Calmly and maturely face failure. After being rejected, you seriously reflect, bend and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, then you should not be sad or sad...There is no need to "self-deprecat", because love can never be obtained by force. At this point....What you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and be able to grasp the opportunity more confidently and find your own unique love when you make a move next time.
can still be friends, it's just that they like it, the matter is not very serious, and it is good to recognize that the other party is not suitable for them and is not their lover as soon as possible.
There's a saying that you read 1,000 correct answers, but in the end you have to wait slowly. Time is the medicine that heals the wound and will make you forget that one. What you can do now is to try to divert your attention, enrich your life every day, let yourself have no time to think about it, put more time and energy into work, and transform this sense of loss into a sense of accomplishment through the achievement of work, and with the transfer of time, you can slowly get out of the predicament.
Love is not in friendship, and being rejected means that you are not very suitable, or the time is not right, or the way is wrong, etc., which is a very common situation. So, don't close yourself too closely, and continue to live happily when you confess that you are just a brave teenager who has been frustrated in her pursuit of true love. Some people may have too many suitors, and they will not accept anyone's initial confession, although the other party yearns for love in their hearts, but they are afraid of being hurt by meeting bad people, so they refuse to anyone. >>>More
Generally, such friends are a little embarrassing to do, and they can't be as chic as in the movie.
It's true that it's only suitable to be ordinary friends, because they know each other too well, so they don't have the ability to attract each other, so I think it's only suitable to be ordinary friends.