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Of course, I have filial parents, but I still feel indebted to them.
Parents are always very selfless in their love for their children and give them too much help in the process of growing up. As a child, it is normal to honor your parents with a grateful heart, and I am now filial to my parents in my own way.
I can't help my parents much materially, so I can only work my time with me. After entering married life, my living situation is not stable, and my economic income is not too high, and after satisfying the quality of life of a family of three, I can't give my parents too much material support. So I can only work hard to accompany my parents, hoping that they will have more smiles on their faces.
I now go home every week to eat with my parents, listen to them talk about their hometown, and I also talk about my own life. I usually go back to my hometown in the morning and go back to my home at four or five o'clock in the afternoon, although the time is not too long, but I think my parents are very happy to be able to maintain this frequency.
As a child, of course, I have filial piety to my parents. I never felt that I was very moral, but I didn't think I needed to compare myself to others when it came to honoring my parents. Giving parents a better life as much as possible within their ability, and having time to go home to spend with their parents, I think this is the best filial piety that children can do to their parents, and I have been doing this all the time.
I'm doing my best to honor my parents, and I think that's human nature, and that's what every child should do. But I still feel a little guilty because my parents helped me too much when I was growing up, and I gave too little feedback to my parents, and I always wanted to do more, but I didn't know what I could do.
Perhaps parents have never looked forward to getting feedback from their children, but as children, we should always honor our parents, so that they can be happy and happy in their old age, so that they will not feel that their children have been raised in vain when they are old.
I often go home to see my parents, even if they don't bring any gifts, they will be happy.
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As a child, I have a filial mother, although I am not very rich, but I honor my parents in my way, and my parents will not care about us, as long as we live better than anything else.
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Yes, for example, try not to make your parents angry, spend more time with them when you have time, cook for them, and buy them some gifts when you work.
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I feel that what I have done for my parents is far from enough, although in the eyes of outsiders, my sister and I are filial daughters, but in our hearts, we think that we are not capable of making our parents live a good life.
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A person is not filial to even his parents! At first glance, it was quite angry at first, but how can such a person live together as a partner? It is said that "filial piety comes first", how can such a loveless person and such an unkind person love a little girl?
No way! No choice!
But if you think about it, why not be filial? We all know that "at the beginning of a person, nature is good", a person from childhood to adulthood, ta is not born unfilial, which must be somewhat related to family education and social environment. "There are parents in the world!
If it is not too excessive and too serious a problem, if he is not filial to his parents, it means that he does not know how to be grateful, and the little girl will not dare to choose such a person! But if the parents have seriously hurt him since he was a child, and all the kindness and family affection are gone, and it is not his fault that he is ruined, then the little girl will not dare to choose such a person! Because he grew up in such an environment, his heart was more or less disturbed, and his heart had become very sensitive, and it was difficult to warm to the end, and there would be constant disputes in the future, so the little girl would not choose!
In fact, it is difficult to make a judgment and decision on this issue, and it depends on the actual details! Sometimes, what you see and hear is not necessarily true!
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I think parents still have to live for themselves, although parents bring their children into this world, for children need to have a sense of responsibility, but I think whether it is parents or children, first of all, they are an independent individual, everyone must have an independent personality, the most important thing is to live for themselves, I have seen too many parents in order to give their children a good life, lost themselves, I think that is really unnecessary, but will give children a lot of pressure.
I think parents and children should support each other and help each other, because both of them are living in this world for the first time in such an identity, everyone is inexperienced, and there is no way to learn from others with this experience, everyone has their own way of living, how to live is not strange, but I think no matter what, don't lose yourself, even if your child is very good, you can't ignore your body, regardless of your preferences, give everything to your child, then he will feel very stressed.
I have seen many parents feel that they should give everything to their children when they give birth to their children, they don't go out to socialize and don't spend money, and all the money they save is given to their children, but the children they teach are the kind of people who spend money lavishly and don't feel sorry for their parents, in fact, I think there are some problems in the family and talk to the children about nothing, the children will also have some ideas, and he also hopes that you will tell him about the situation at home, maybe he can help, so sometimes parents don't carry everything themselves, I have a problem in my heart.
And I think parents should also have their own circle of friends, should also have their own entertainment activities, don't accompany their children for everything, spend any money on their children to be honest, so that the psychological pressure on children is very great, from the child's point of view, this is like moral kidnapping, so that both sides are unhappy, children also want to be free children, and also hope that parents can go out to play, so don't do everything for children, sometimes give yourself some space to live.
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Of course, we have to live for ourselves, children are the hope of parents, and parents' love for their children is selfless, but children also have their own thoughts, no matter how old they are, they have to have their own lives, parents can't interfere too much, more about themselves.
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I think parents still have to live for themselves. If you keep an eye on your child, it will make him have a rebellious mentality, it will put a lot of pressure on them, and he will not understand you very well. But if you live for yourself, they will be infected by this optimism in you, and their personality will become very lively and cheerful.
Therefore, parents should not blindly live for their children, but be themselves appropriately.
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Live for your children, most parents will have this idea after having children, and they all hope that their children can become dragons and phoenixes, and many parents have greater expectations for their children than everything else.
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Live for yourself, because everyone will only come to this world once, so living in this world must please yourself.
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Parents should live for themselves, children have children's lives, as the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, everyone only has this short life, and they should live for themselves, not for others.
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Of course, you should live for yourself, in fact, for children, as long as they fulfill their responsibilities, there is no need to pay too much.
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I think parents should live for themselves, because people live for themselves, and they can't sacrifice themselves because of their children.
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Parents should live for themselves before they live for their children, because a person must first love himself before he can love others.
Of course, it is natural to continue to make money to repay debts, and it is natural to repay debts, and you can't escape the condemnation of conscience when you go to Tiannanhaibei, as long as you work hard to repay it, you will have no regrets.
Zodiac signs who don't like to give, including Capricorn, Taurus, and Aquarius. Although the boys of these three zodiac signs will be very willing to pursue love, in the relationship, the boys of these three zodiac signs are not willing to give too much.
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