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Anonymous users2024-02-16After two people get married, they should start a happy life, planning how the two will develop in the future and how to bring more joy to the family. If there are some problems as soon as we get married, we must stand up as soon as possible and solve this matter, otherwise how should we face it for such a long time in the future? How can we enlighten the daughter-in-law who pays off her debts as soon as she gets married?
Debt repayment is inevitable, and it is impossible for no one in life not to owe debts. Because when many families get married, due to lack of funds, they will choose to borrow money to buy a wedding or raise a bride price.
This is something that happens a lot in most families. Because after getting married, you will receive a lot of money.
At this time, it is most capable to repay the debt, rather than waiting until the money has been squandered to think about paying the debt, which will be very uncomfortable. It is relatively easy to repay the debt under such circumstances. If the daughter-in-law complains, we have to explain to him why we want to pay the debt.
I'm sure you two can communicate well, and he can understand.
The most important thing in a marriage is communication and trust, if there is no effective communication, the two of you will be very tired living together, and you will never be right.
Mouth, he says his you say yours, chicken speaks to duck. As long as the communication is done well, I believe that all problems can be easily solved. If the amount of debt repayment is very large, it is understandable that the daughter-in-law is full of complaints.
No one wants to live under a huge debt, suppress their hearts all day long, and they will be suffocated after a long time. <>
In general, if the reason for our repayment of the debt is because of borrowing money for the wedding, then the daughter-in-law should be acceptable and should bear part of the debt. But if this debt repayment is premised on you borrowing a lot of loan sharks before you got married.
Then I believe that this daughter-in-law is already the greatest tolerance for you if she does not divorce you.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15You should be kind to your wife, and the two of you have been paying off your debts, which means that your wife is very kind and should work hard to earn money to repay the debts as soon as possible.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Adjust your wife's mentality, tell her that as long as she works hard, her life will definitely change, and if it's good, don't complain and don't be impulsive.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13I think I should communicate with the other party at this time, tell him that I will work hard, and hope that he will not be like this all the time, which will be bad for his health.
If your daughter-in-law goes on a date, you should first find out if she is going on a date or if there is really something going on, and then get this matter out to the parents, and your daughter-in-law's heart will definitely be uncomfortable, and your parents' heart will definitely be uncomfortable.
Do your duty and smile well, for the mother-in-law's pickiness, those who want to speak have no intention of hearing the full ring, and if there is no change, they will be encouraged!! Don't fight !!
Your wife is the person who has lived with you all her life, your mother is the one who gave birth to you, as the old saying goes: whose daughter-in-law is raised by her mother-in-law, since she is not raised by her mother-in-law, you can only play a role in reconciliation in the middle, this is not, you say that your mother usually does things a little deliberately, this is not right, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is not to let young people have high quality, mother-in-law should play the role of mother-in-law, what is family style, the elders do good character quality, in order to pave the way for the next generation, your tell your mother, be generous in case of trouble, Your mother has changed her opinion of her daughter-in-law, and you'll be fine in the middle! People's hearts for hearts, two for half a catty, haha!
The days are for you and your lover. If you have questions and ideas, you must communicate with two people. I don't know if your husband listens to your mother-in-law very much, but if you do, you're really tired. >>>More
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