When a marriage is betrayed, do those who choose to forgive live well?

It's not very good, they have to be careful everywhere, which will make them physically and mentally exhausted, so that some bad emotions will be accumulated, and I personally feel that they should know how to let go and let themselves live a happy life.

I think some are doing well, some are not good, and some men may turn back and then return to the family, then the woman will live happily.

In fact, they didn't have a particularly good time later, because the two of them couldn't return to their original ways at all.

I think there are two reasons for this problem, one is the relationship between the two, and the other is that it takes time to prove. If the betrayed party sincerely repents and never makes similar mistakes, and the other party sincerely accepts it, then the marriage can be completely happy. If the betraying party still does not respect himself in the future, then the marriage can only end there, and the party at fault wants to face the problem carefully.

The most unbearable thing in a marriage is the betrayal of the partner, and the pain caused by this betrayal will follow the innocent party for a lifetime, leaving a strong shadow on the psyche. If your partner betrays you, the other party can forgive you, then I think the first reason is that he loves you very much, even if there is no bottom line, he can tolerate and regress, it can be seen that your status in his heart is so high. The second reason lies in the family with children, in order not to break up the family and prevent the children from losing their father's and mother's love, he chose to back down.

If you want this marriage to continue, then the party at fault should not touch the other party's bottom line again, since you can forgive you and prove that you still have a place in his heart. You might as well care and understand each other more, create some little romance and surprises, be more gentle and considerate, and after a long time, the relationship between the husband and wife will naturally release their previous suspicions and get along with each other. As the party at fault, don't blame and slander the other party or take a lukewarm attitude, if so, the final result can only be a parting of ways.

Although the other party has forgiven you, this shadow will still linger in his heart, and even become a soldier, and the individual is very sensitive to your affairs, and the trust will naturally decline. For example: you go out to socialize normally, sing and party with friends, etc., these will inevitably be thought about by the other party, you may wish to go anywhere to inform each other in advance, and you can use **** to eliminate each other's doubts, in short, whether this marriage can continue depends entirely on each other's efforts, trust and care.

No, even if two people are reconciled and two people live again, there will be some estrangement, and this is also an emotional rift in life.

Personally, I think it's not good, two people have a psychological existence, and a person who feels guilty has become particularly sensitive, and will no longer trust each other, and there will be a lot of problems in the future.

No, because there will be a certain knot between two people, and there will be a certain estrangement, and they can't be reconciled at all.

Most people are unable to forgive the person who betrayed their marriage because the person who betrayed the marriage had a problem with their character and feared that they would be hurt more in the future.

Because marriage is a new beginning, it has a traditional meaning, and the person who betrays the marriage will hurt the other party, so there is no way to forgive.

Because people think more traditionally, everyone can't accept such a thing, so many people are unwilling to forgive, and it is normal not to forgive.

Such a person is very irresponsible, and he has suffered a serious blow, and the consequences are very serious, so there is no way to forgive such a person.

Would you forgive someone who betrayed you? Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because if he does this kind of thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is a crack, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

Unforgivable. If you do this kind of thing, then it is basically a thing that cannot be forgiven, because many times although we will encounter some forced things, but this does not mean that we can forgive the other party, because we have done this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then we cannot be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we do is to do something, and things have happened, so it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

Understandable. Of course, there are many times when betrayal is due to some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of thing to betray things, but it can't be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

From the words of a person who betrayed me, then his behavior has made me very cold, so let this kind of behavior be understood, but it can never be forgiven, betrayal can never be seen.

In any relationship, if the bottom line of loyalty is broken, this is not true love, but a game in the relationship. Especially in marriage, if men and women cannot be loyal and single-minded, it will inevitably cause the marriage to fall apart and cannot last long. No matter how much they loved each other at the beginning, as long as they violated the principles of marriage and had love outside of marriage, they could not let the relationship continue.

In reality, many people have a fluke mentality, always thinking that after betrayal, as long as they bow their heads and apologize, the other half will forgive. In fact, the probability of forgiveness is quite small, no one can really forgive a person who betrays feelings from the bottom of their hearts, no matter how deep the love is, the shadow after being hurt cannot be removed. There are also some people who will use the child as a bargaining chip for forgiveness, and feel that the other half will definitely not be able to clear the child, so they will choose to forgive.

In fact, this is just wishful thinking, and it is impossible to continue to consume it after the real heart is like water, even if you are reluctant to have children, you will not accept the betrayal. In the final analysis, any form of betrayal is not worthy of forgiveness, and the following two reasons are very realistic: 1. Betrayal, only zero and countless times someone has ever asked:

The reality is that after a person betrays his marriage, can he really return to the family? In fact, there is not much chance, if he can really return, he will not betray. As long as the act of betrayal occurs, it will basically continue, which is human nature.

No matter what kind of person you are, once you are caught in the whirlpool of feelings, it is difficult to turn back, and even if you realize that this abnormal relationship will bring trouble, it is difficult to get out of it. Therefore, anyone who has experienced betrayal cannot truly return, which also makes the relationship lose its foundation. From this point of view, no one can really forgive the betrayal, because no one can afford to gamble on the future, once they choose to forgive, and the other party is still entangled in the leakage, it is too late.

Therefore, there are not many people who can really forgive, and no matter how sincere the betraying party is, or how pitiful he seems when apologizing, it is difficult to get sympathy. Feelings, there is no room for a single flaw, once it is stained, it can never be wiped off. In reality, there are too many examples of those who have betrayed their marriages and have not really returned to the family.

On the contrary, they betrayed once, and there were countless times later, which will continue as long as they are not discovered. Even if the relationship is revealed, they will not be able to return sincerely, and they will usually be deeply involved in extramarital affairs, and it will be difficult to wake up again. Moreover, those who betrayed always thought that they had found true love, felt that the "lover" outside was better than the original match, and even praised the lover to the sky.

But is that really the case? No, it's just the self-consolation of the betrayer, who is obsessed with the feelings outside of marriage. In the end, when the relationship between the lovers broke down, they realized that the original match was good, and only then did they think of saving the marriage.

It's not worth it. Because marriage itself should be very sincere to the husband and wife working together to create a good life, not betrayal.

Those who betray their marriage must not be forgiven! If there is a first time, there will be a second time. Even if you forgive him, there are scars in your heart, and Zheng Zuo can't be reunited, even if he barely puts it together. It's not going back to the way it was.

In marriage, I will not choose to forgive a person who has betrayed me, because I feel that since he has chosen to betray, he will definitely be in the future again.

No. Because in marriage, if there is one betrayal, there will be a second betrayal, so I will not choose to forgive.

In marriage, I will not forgive a person who betrays him, because since he has betrayed me, the first time will have a second time.

Seriously, would you forgive someone who betrayed you? It won't be because of betraying you, there has been a major crisis in the marriage, and it is impossible to make up for it, so it is enough to divorce as soon as possible.

A person who betrays himself will not be forgiven in marriage, and once betrayed, he will never be forgiven.

I will not choose someone who betrays me, because sometimes there will be a second betrayal.

No, since he has done such an unreasonable thing, he should not be forgiven, and he should always remember his mistakes.

will not choose, and if this person betrays himself, then he should stay away from this person in time, and such behavior is a harm to ourselves, so we must stay away.

In marriage, I will not choose to forgive a person who betrays him, because in his opinion, I am not very important, and if he has a first betrayal, it means that there is a second such behavior is absolutely intolerable.

In marriage, I will not forgive a person who betrays me, because the person who betrays me is like paper in a pit, although it is a little pity, but it is really disgusting to pick up.

In a marriage, would you choose to forgive someone who betrayed you? In marriage, no one will choose to forgive a person who betrays him, because he can betray once and betray twice.

The other party admits his mistake very well, and says that he will not make mistakes, betray me, and all the property is in my name, then I will forgive the other party.

In a marriage, would you choose to forgive someone who betrayed you? This will not be forgiven.

Betrayal in marriage is not worthy of forgiveness, in fact it is easy to forgive a person, but it is not easy to trust again, because trust is like a piece of paper, there will still be wrinkles after smoothing, which cannot be removed, it will be deeply engraved in the heart like a brand, it will hurt every moment when you think about it, the biggest trouble in life is not to make decisions, but not to know what you want.

Love, what a beautiful thing in the eyes of young people, many people crave love from the day they are sensible, but love is very tortuous, many people are tormented by love for a lifetime, people always have to go through the magical process from love to marriage, it is not easy. After marriage, there are many unknown problems, and I have to say that for a complete love, both men and women need to have enough courage to face the wind and rain in love.

Love is beautiful, but marriage is very trivial, after some people enter marriage, they can quickly change roles and manage their lives, while others are unable to adapt to the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in marriage, and manage their lives like chicken feathers. The originally beautiful love was instantly split in two, replaced by endless quarrels, throwing things, and wiping away all the past love.

Marriage is like drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing, whether you live happily or not, only you can experience, others see only the appearance, you are already very uncomfortable wearing shoes, but you are reluctant to replace it, the result is more and more painful, until grinding out a big blood blister, you regret it, make up your mind to replace it, but it is too late. Now that you're halfway there, it's good to want to start over. Therefore, when you get married, you must clearly know what you want, what kind of life you want to live, and what people who don't like it, and let him out immediately.

Because once a betrayal, a person loses the minimum principle, and once this bottom line is crossed, no one can guarantee a second or third time. Love is like this, in a person's life, you will fall in love with many people, but a moral person, once you choose to marry someone, will stick to your principles in marriage and love her for a lifetime.

It is not worth forgiving, because the other party knows what kind of harm this will bring to the family, and still chooses to do so, so it is not worth forgiving.

Not worthy of forgiveness, the betrayal in the marriage has caused a rift in the relationship between the two people, and it will be painful for the two people when they are together.