Should we choose to forgive when our partner is unfaithful to us?

I don't think you can choose to forgive at this time, because there will be a second time if there is a first time, and you will be hurt by yourself if you are soft-hearted.

When the other half is unfaithful to us, we should choose to take the initiative to communicate and communicate with him, ask him what he thinks, and if he already dislikes you, you don't need to forgive him, and you have to break up with him.

Won't forgive, but don't hate either.

The reason why I say that I will not forgive is because the hurt has become an established fact, and the subsequent reparation may make a slight change in my impression of the other party, but this change is limited to. She is not a person who knows her mistakes and does not change', for the harm itself that has been caused, when she made this decisive pill and put it into action, the impact on me was already irreversible, after all, there is no regret medicine in the world and you can't turn back time, so I will not pay for her injury, hurt is hurt, easy forgiveness is not responsible for her and herself.

We say that people make mistakes, knowing that mistakes can improve a lot, this sentence is good, a person has done something wrong, and later recognizes his mistakes, and the next time he encounters the same similar problems can be avoided, then this person is very good in itself, but the problem is that the previous mistakes caused harm to others, others choose not to forgive, this is not a mistake, but a respect for the fact of model rent.

I love you, so I don't forgive you, I hope you can understand what is the bottom line for me, what you can do, and what you can't do, in love, I hope that no one will become a bottomless person.

The reason why we say not to hate is because we love each other.

There is no one in this world who does not make mistakes, and such mistakes may have all kinds of negative consequences, but as the most important people to each other, we should be considerate and tolerant.

If you really do something that hurts me, I won't hate you, I will only seriously think about whether you will continue to make the same mistakes in the future, and ask myself if there is a need for this relationship to continue on the premise of whether I can bear it.

Whether you continue or not, I will not hate you, because it is not wise to punish yourself for the fault of the other person who suffers first for this kind of behavior, and then the other person.

If you can't continue, then you can let go, and if you can't let go, then let go, don't forgive, don't hold grudges, it's a respect for the relationship itself.