There are a lot of rules for banquets in rural areas, what are the rules that must be known?

The elders should sit on the top seats. The elders must sit on the top position, and some children are not sensible and compete for seats with the elderly, and they are often reprimanded.

In order to effectively rectify the unhealthy trend of "setting up clever names, indiscriminately, and indiscriminately holding banquets" in rural areas, further standardize the behavior of village (resident) people in running banquets, and vigorously create a good social environment and a pure and simple social atmosphere.

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Six people do not sit on the turtle table, which means that no six people sit at the wine table. The turtle seat is a sitting position where the person who eats sits in the shape of a turtle, with two people on the top and bottom, one person on the left and one on the right, or two people on the left and right. "Turtle with a shrunken head" and "turtle son", whether it is an idiom or a daily colloquial expression, all reflect people's timid and fearful image of the turtle.

In addition, the turtle has a more popular name called "Wang Ba", and these titles are scolding and humiliating in daily life, so there is a saying that six people should not be turtle seats. It's a base.

In addition to these, there are actually some other rules for eating in the countryside, such as "the old man does not serve the bowl, and the junior does not use chopsticks", although these rules have been slowly forgotten over time. There are also banquets without 3 dishes, one is that the Chinese talk about the year and good things in pairs, and the dishes are even for general family banquets or red and white happy events in the village. For example, six cool and six hot or eight cool and eight hot.

Shandong is known as the hometown of Confucius and Mencius, and the state of etiquette, which can be said to be vividly reflected in the wine table culture. Many people are afraid to go to Shandong, especially to drink, because they don't understand Shandong's wine table culture. Shandong's wine culture is broad and profound, and when you go to Shandong to drink, especially when you come for the first time, there are some details that you should pay attention to.

1. Seating

When drinking in Shandong, everyone is still very particular about the seating at the wine table. The main escort should sit opposite the deputy escort, and the guests will sit on the left and right of the main escort, which can also better let everyone have fun. Of course, if it is the first time to go, you can follow the host's arrangement, and the host will try to respect the opinions of the guests and arrange the seats.

2. Bring wine

It is said that it is to bring wine, but in fact, there is a person who takes the lead in drinking first, which plays a role in warming up the field and adjusting the atmosphere. When the atmosphere is up, people will be more enthusiastic, and the atmosphere of drinking will become more and more high, so as to ensure that they feel at home and feel the enthusiasm of Shandong people.

3. Clink glasses

You know, there is something special about clinking glasses when drinking. When clinking glasses, the rim of the glass of the younger or younger generation should be below the age or the older person, and the seniority is better than the age. This is also a way to show respect for the elders.

4. Toast

Basically, the main escort drinks with the guests first, and after the end, other people will come to drink with the guests at one time, and then the guests will return the salute.

5. Persuade alcohol

Drinking persuasion was very practiced in the past, and now it may be much less due to the development of the times, but it is still often seen in some private gatherings. Of course, if you really can't drink, then people won't force you to drink. Moreover, Shandong people have a basic principle of persuasion:

You can persuade your guests to drink more, but only if you don't drink too little, so that you can show good hospitality.

Shandong people are very hospitable, which can be seen from their wine table culture. At first glance, these rules are limited and cumbersome, but they are all designed to make the guests come and return with fun.

Parents don't speak, the newcomer can't move the chopsticks first, attaches great importance to a place of parents, and pays special attention to the words of the matchmaker, so when marrying in Shandong, you must pay attention to the orders of the master's family, otherwise you will be scolded.

As for the banquet, there are local customs and customs. From that Shandong. In front of the banquet, the younger generation should respect the elders. The younger generation cannot make the same wine table as the elders, and the elders must not move the chopsticks to eat, and they must wait for them to finish speaking. . .

The rule at the Shandong banquet is that the old man is the son-in-law at the top and the son-in-law is the bottom, and the brother is the two gangs. Guests sit above.

The rule on the Shandong wine table is that the younger generation should respect the elders, and the younger generations should not sit at the same table with them, they should sit separately, and the elders must not eat first without moving their chopsticks, and they must wait until they finish speaking before they can start eating.

It's all. I think it's okay.

Just go and drink it a few times. Every place is different, and so is it for different occasions.

If you can't drink, everything is the rule. If you can drink, the rules are nothing.

Elders don't move the chopsticks, don't move the fish, eat the food next to the plate, don't move the tip of the plate.

The 14 rural banquets may be as follows:

1.When holding banquets in rural areas, there is a saying that "four dishes are for female guests, and thirteen dishes are for male guests", which is to distinguish the specifications of the banquet.

2.In the old days, the banquet of the mourner had the ritual of "weighing three catties" and "three not being reluctant to five".

3.After the funeral, the host must shout "Keqi" at the empty sacrifice before he can officially enter the table.

4.In the past, when happy events were held in rural Hunan, the banquet was not more than noon, and the funeral was held after lunch.

5.In the rural areas of the Pearl River Delta in Guangdong, the wedding banquet pays attention to "the first three tails and four tails, the beginning of the month and the end of the month", that is, the beginning of the first month.

III.X. The 23rd and the end of the month cannot be selected as the date for the wedding wine.

6.In the wedding feast in some rural areas in southwest China, two pairs of brand-new chopsticks should be prepared and tied with red paper or green leaves, which means "the chopsticks have been changed" to show good luck.

Different regions have different customs, which need to be decided according to local customs.

If you want to set up a banquet in the countryside, it is generally composed of: 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Five specifications.

The number of dishes in the banquet is normally an even number, but the way of setting the banquet in each place is different, so there is no fixed standard for the question of how many dishes there are in the banquet.