What are some weird table rules in your house?

The most basic rules are, you can't smack your mouth when eating, you can't suck soup, you have to hold the bowl with your hand when eating, and you are not allowed to put one hand under the table. When eating, the chopsticks should not be flipped on the plate, otherwise they will be knocked on the hands of adults, and they will have to eat the top in a regular manner, as if they are eating in layers. Do not use chopsticks to knock on plates and bowls, because it looks like a beggar.

Chopsticks are not allowed to be inserted into the rice, and it is said that chopsticks are only inserted in this way for the remarks of condemned prisoners.

At no time should chopsticks be inserted into the bowl. This rule is mainly aimed at children, children know less things, they like to save trouble, so when they eat, eat and go to the toilet or have other things, they will directly insert chopsticks in the bowl containing rice. Usually this is reprimanded by the elders, because at first glance it looks like two sticks of incense in a bowl, which is very unlucky.

In some places, sticking chopsticks on top of rice is called "inverted rice", which means rice for the deceased.

Elders are given priority and respect is respected. Nowadays, this custom is not as common as it used to be, but it is still valued in some places. Before eating, only the elders or the head of the family can sit down, and the others can be seated, and only the elders can move the chopsticks first, and the others can follow suit, no matter how hungry they are, they must wait for the elders.

There is also the fact that after eating, the juniors cannot put the chopsticks horizontally, and they must wait for the elders to eat and put the chopsticks horizontally, and the others can put the chopsticks horizontally. From the perspective of modern people, this is a bit of feudal superstition, but this is also a manifestation of the respect for elders in the countryside, and it can also be seen that the countryside attaches great importance to seniority.

Sin your hands before eating; When eating with elders, the elders should not eat first without moving chopsticks; Do not stick chopsticks on the rice when eating; Do not knock on the bowl when eating; When eating, put the other hand on the table to show respect for the other person; Elders should be seated at the table; If you eat well, you should say hello to your elders and say that you should eat slowly.

When you go out to eat, you can't order an order. In some rural areas in Northeast China, there are generally 16 dishes for a large banquet at home, but when someone dies in the family, it is 17 dishes for white affairs. So there is a saying that ordering a la carte is unlucky, not that there is a saying called "good things come in pairs", when you invite guests to eat, the dishes are ordered to even number, the most common is eight, ten or twelve dishes.

Moreover, when inviting guests to eat, the content of the dish should also take into account the meat and vegetable matching, taste matching, and it is best to have soup and vegetarian dishes, etc., so as to take into account all aspects as much as possible, and also let the guests feel your sincerity.

In some rural areas in the north, when setting up a banquet, men and women are not allowed to share the table, generally men drink at a round table underground, women sit on the kang and eat at a square table, and children are also carried by women, which is a relatively large banquet. If it is a private family to dinner, the woman is not allowed to eat at the table after cooking, and only when the man finishes eating, the woman can bring the child to the table to eat.

Seat ordering. In the countryside, when serving wine and eating, the seating order can be said to be the most exquisite. In some places, there are hosts and vice-guests, hosts and vice-guests, and side escorts, and the seating of these types of people is very particular.

There are also elders, children, parents, women, how to sit, there is a set of sayings, and it is easy to make jokes if you sit in the wrong position.

Do not knock empty bowls with chopsticks. This rule is mainly aimed at children, adults will greet each other when eating, only children are idle and bored will knock on the bowl to play, on the one hand, there will be a loud sound when knocking on the empty bowl with chopsticks, affecting others to eat, if it is to go to someone else's house as a guest, this behavior is also disrespectful to the host. On the other hand, using chopsticks to knock on empty bowls used to be a behavior that only beggars would have, which means that the life of the family is getting worse and worse, which is very unlucky, so parents will not let their children do this.

These old rules on the table should be as wild as they should be, and they are rarely praised and all people know. You can't say that you want to eat fish, you can't say you want rice when you come to the house, you can't use chopsticks to knock pots and bowls, you can't say that it's unlucky to break the dumpling skin when it's broken during the New Year, chopsticks are not allowed to stand and insert rock sails in the rice, you can't chirp when you eat, you can't suck soup and so on.

The most important thing is to respect the elders.

How much do you know about the "rules" at the dinner table?

How much do you know about the "rules and regulations" on the hungry and rotten table?

As the saying goes, the people take food as the sky, China's 5,000-year history has given birth to a glorious food culture, and it is also accompanied by China's unique dinner table culture.

The table is seating.

Generally speaking, the person who is entertaining has to sit closest to the door, why? Whoever comes in you have to lead the way, "come, come, come here, please", the host and guest, the most distinguished guest, should be in the position facing the door, down the row, the left side is more noble than the right, the second point is to sit on the left hand side, and the second point is a little more, sit on the right side of the host and guest, so that the left and right sides are lined up in turn.

Why do you sit like this? The host and guest, facing the door, grasp the overall situation, who enters and who goes out can be seen, by the door is not good, who comes in can not be seen, the food has to be sideways to let go, generally speaking, they are all paying.

If you have something to do at the dinner table, you have to go first, say hello to the people on the left and right, and then say hello to the host of the treat, don't make the whole table know, let alone this: "Where am I going, whoever stops by will let you ...... for a while.""People have a very good situation for you to stir up, and the master doesn't hate you to death.

There are many dining etiquettes.

When eating, first invite guests and elders to move chopsticks, less each time when picking up vegetables, eat less dishes far away from themselves, or simply do not eat, do not make a sound when eating, do not make a sound when drinking soup, drink soup with a spoon and take a small sip, it is not appropriate to bring the bowl to the mouth to drink, drink after the soup is too hot and cold, do not ......drink while blowing and drinking

We Chinese eat with chopsticks, and there are many rules here:

For example, when the chopsticks are placed, they should be placed neatly, not one long and one short, which is disrespectful to who is this, why? This is called three long and two short, three long and two short is not to point out things, it is more serious than this, that is, it refers to death. The coffin used by the ancients, six boards, when the dead are opened, three boards around, two boards at both ends, plus three long and two short, so this is particularly unlucky.

Pulling and stirring on the plate when picking up vegetables is called a yaksha patrol, and it is also very impolite.

After finishing the dish, I took it back, and the soup was sparse and dripping on the table, which is called tearful beads, which is not good-looking, and even more impolite, so I have to use a bowl to pick up the dishes.

You can't put chopsticks in the rice bowl, which is called incense on the face and curses people.

Now, many families no longer pay attention to the details of etiquette at the dinner table, and feel that it is essential to educate children about the rules of the dinner table in the family.

Manners at the table, upbringing in life!

The rules for children at the dinner table mainly include the following:1Sit tight:

Children should learn to sit on a chair and lean their body against the back of the chair and avoid moving around or standing to eat. 2.Use of utensils:

Children should learn to use utensils such as forks, spoons, knives, etc., and avoid grabbing food with their hands or throwing utensils. 3.No swearing:

Children should refrain from swearing or being rude at the dinner table. 4.Don't make a fuss:

Children should avoid playing or playing at the dinner table to avoid spilling over utensils or food. 5.Not picky eater:

Children should try a variety of foods as much as possible, rather than being picky or picky. 6.Don't lie on the table:

Children should avoid lying on the table or sticking their head on the table to avoid soiling the tablecloth or tipping over food. 7.Know how to share:

Children should learn to share food with their families and respect other people's tastes and preferences. In short, the main rules of a child at the dinner table are to learn to be civilized, polite, respectful and enviable, and to be as tidy and quiet as possible.