I want to get a divorce, it s my problem or hers

Did you and your wife know each other or were you introduced? This kind of person is your inner choice (although there are definitely communication problems between college and elementary school), is your mother also this kind of person? (Not trying to speak ill of your mother), although you are a college student, you don't have much self-confidence and low self-worth.

Your childhood grew up under the influence of this kind of person and woman, and when you grow up, there is a good chance that you will find this kind of person as a wife. She says how bad you are, but you can't do without her because you've been used to it since you were a child. If you get divorced and find another type of person as your wife, you will still miss her.

What husband and wife want is communication, and if you tell her what you are beating here, it may be much better than if you complain here. Divorce is the worst option. Older men should be more responsible. For yourself, for the sake of the children. Don't leave.

Alas, you are in good condition, and you have to let yourself suffer from dry hemp.

Not to mention the age difference, the important thing is the level of education, which is the most important, which is the embodiment of a person's connotation and quality.

Leave, your conditions are better than her.

After the conditions are agreed, never contact, otherwise she will pester you for money or something.

If you don't want a woman with such poor quality, you don't know how much sin she will suffer in the future. You are a college student, considerate and kind, and you don't have to worry about marrying a good woman after divorce. Bless you.

Everyone has different values, and when they treat and deal with things, they may have different ways and results. Differences in values exist in many marriages, what should you do when you meet your partner whose values are very different from your own, and can you join hands with each other?

This is the dictation of a lady who is in the midst of this trouble:

My husband and I have very different values, he grew up in the countryside, while I am in the city. He was very burdened and stressed, because we owed money for our previous investment and business. But I think that even if we owe money, we can live a relatively comfortable life, and even if the money is for others, the debt can be repaid sooner or later, and we can't treat ourselves badly.

Although my husband is good to me, his temper is not very good, and he is a little anxious. I feel that the quality of marriage is too poor, and I don't feel happy at all. Try to mess with him as little as possible and talk to him less.

If I were to change myself to live a ragged life, it would be impossible. I can't change myself. Because I'm selfish, I've always thought about how to enjoy life, but I've changed a lot since I was married, but I'm still far from him, he lives almost an ascetic life, and he rarely asks me much.

But although he didn't say it, he got angry more and more often, and when he got angry, he would count me down, saying that I had messed up my life. It's really noisy, I have no more to communicate with him, probably because of my problem, I can't share the hardships with him, I only let him suffer alone, and I am secretly happy in heaven. But I won't change, his love and tolerance for me have been wiped out by me, and he can't continue to be happy with our future.

Me too. Let's go find a virtuous woman who can live as frugally as he does and get rich together! Tired.

It's been a year of marriage, and we know each other, but we haven't changed ourselves and each other. Now it just makes this contradiction clearer.

I'm so tired and want to get a divorce, even though I have two children. However, an unhappy marriage will not be happy for the children! I hope you can help me with ideas. To leave or not to leave? Is there any way to ease the relationship between husband and wife, it's too tiring.

In fact, this lady's situation is just one of the many couples with great differences in values, and the difference in values is a problem in many marriages, which will destroy the harmony and peace of the family, and cause conflicts and quarrels.

The so-called values refer to a person's outlook on life, world view, marriage outlook, moral outlook, etc., which are slowly formed from childhood to adulthood, and some events in our lives, even if some family trivial matters are mostly related to a person's values.

Many people tend to look for someone who matches their values and social status, but no matter how you look for it, differences are inevitable. Because of the close connection, the husband and wife have no distance from each other, and they both carry spears and thorns, and the two are-for-tat, which will cause many contradictions in the marriage and family.

For the same trivial matter, couples with similar values can convey each other's thoughts and look at things with a look, an action, and a word.

If you have children, you may have children.

As long as you are prepared, all the issues of divorce have been thought out clearly, and you are ready for divorce. Just tell the other party about the matter, lay out the carriage and horses, explain the reasons directly, and then the result is a divorce, I can't go on, for the good of everyone, don't try to save the marriage, just divorce.

When you have the urge to divorce in your heart, it means that you have lost hope in this marriage, and both parties are just doing the final stalemate. For the relationship has broken down, the marriage relationship that exists in name only, it is meaningless to keep entangled, only by making a decisive choice can we quickly get rid of the status quo and let our life state be restored.

In fact, divorce can also have a positive effect: a sense of relief. For most people, divorce is the origin of an unhappy marriage. Ending this marriage can give a person a relief from a difficult relationship and a sense of relief.

Ability to have a new sense of self. After a divorce, both parties have to face a new social environment and a new role of self, and they will also start to meet new people, although many people call this behavior an escape, but it can indeed open up our potential to a certain extent and help us achieve a new self-reconstruction.

Divorce is a normal phenomenon, everyone has the right to choose freely, but everyone should be aware of what this choice will mean before making a choice, whether you have the courage to accept it and face it, rather than relying on impulse to leave regrets and remorse in life.

Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished. Everyone yearns to have a good love and then a perfect marriage. When we have been stumbling in marriage for many years, we find that this marriage is 108,000 miles away from the life we want.

Some people choose to continue to suffer in marriage, and some people choose to divorce. After the divorce, some people are still unhappy, and some people will take a new look at their lives and strive to make the second half of their lives more exciting!

Just say that you want to get a divorce. If the other party does not agree and you have already made up your mind to leave, consult a lawyer and then sue for divorce.

I think you should think about it carefully, don't talk about divorce casually when you get married, if you have any problems, you can sit down with the other party and communicate and discuss.

It is best to mention this kind of thing directly to the other party, and when the decision is constantly interrupted, it will be chaotic. So the two of you sit down and talk about it, decisively.

Tell him directly, and if you want to divorce, you naturally have to express it, let him know that you are determined to divorce, and you don't want to live with him.

You just tell him that you can't live with him anymore, so it's better for you to divorce quickly so that you can get a relief from each other.

If you can't go on, just explain it directly, and the other party won't be difficult for you, if there is a conflict that can't be resolved, then divorce as soon as possible.

If you want to get a divorce, sit down with your significant other and talk about why you want a divorce. If he thinks it's his fault and he can change it, then you can think about it again, after all, divorce is not a good thing.

Proposing a divorce should be carefully considered, after all, it is not a trivial matter, try to agree on a divorce, so that you can get together and disperse. If one party wants to divorce and the other party doesn't want to divorce, they can sue for divorce if they can't.

Since you want to get a divorce, no matter how much you drag it out, you will leave, so cut through the mess quickly, go and explain it clearly to the other party, don't delay each other.

If you want to divorce, think about the reasons, your future and the other person's future, and tell the other person your thoughts directly and clearly.