What should I do if I find out that my husband owes a lot of debts after I get married?

After getting married, I want to live a good life, knowing that my husband has foreign debts, then the two of them will twist into a rope, work hard, pay off foreign debts, and the husband and wife will work together to break off their profits, and life will get better and better.

If you love your husband very much, then I think you should go with him to pay off the debt, but if this matter hits you hard and you can't accept it, you should also choose to separate as soon as possible.

Only by paying off the debts with her husband and paying off all the debts owed to welcome the beautiful and happy days of the two of them.

How much is the so-called not less? What do you think of your husband's character, if it is very bad, divorce, if the character is okay, there are not many debts, and there are difficulties that can be solved, take your time, and you will definitely be able to live a good life.

I'm a man, and I'm going through this, and my girlfriend also inadvertently knew that I was in debt and had broken up with me, but I was only in a relationship with her, no matter what the outcome was, let's talk about my personal thoughts. If you're in a relationship, I don't think you're going to disclose your finances, so I think it's okay. After all, no one knows if they will be able to make it to the end.

But if you are like the landlord, who is married and still doesn't know the financial situation of the other party, the individual can't accept it.

You can first understand the composition of debt, if the debt component is legitimate expenses, such as medical expenses, or some normal expenses such as marriage support. I think that's acceptable. After all, most people in China are in debt, and as long as their husbands are diligent and willing to work, the debts will be paid off in a few years.

If the gambling debt after marriage is unilaterally caused by your husband, and it is not for the husband and wife to live together, and there is actually no property for the family to live together, so the 450,000 yuan debt does not belong to the joint debt of your husband and wife, it should belong to your husband's personal debt, and you do not need to bear it. Everyone is selfish, indeed some people will think, after marriage, all kinds of expenses, all kinds of expenses, the woman will inevitably get involved, the property after marriage belongs to the common property, so you will suffer a lot, you yourself must be able to accept such suffering, if you can't accept it, separate as soon as possible!

Summary: The current society is too realistic, when you encounter a problem, you will not think about analyzing and solving the problem, you are thinking about what impact this problem has on yourself, I can only say that the eyes are not limited to the present, marriage is a long-term investment, if you are a good person, why not be in debt? There is more than one way to solve the problem, working hard to earn money is the most basic, since I have borrowed money from relatives before, it is unlikely to borrow money again, unless someone else is willing.

Paying back that much money is not something that can be solved in one moment, so take your time. Life is not easy, do it and cherish it.

The two of them went to repay the money together, but they had to tell their husbands what they had to tell themselves in time in the future, and don't hide anything from themselves anymore.

It's very simple, either pay it back with him or let him pay it back himself.

Questions. The problem is that I paid him 7,800,000 last year.

You have to think clearly that husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they can't fly separately when they meet.

Questions. Now I find him to be too unrealistic, always investing**,**.

Since they are husband and wife, they must share weal and sorrow.

You have to tell him about this and remind him to be cautious in investing.

Questions. Now he wants me to invest 100,000 yuan in him and his colleagues.

Now it should also be that I owe too much money and am in a hurry, and when people are in a hurry, they will think of some ideas that are too unrealistic.

Questions. I felt hopeless.

That's when you have to stand up and stop him from doing these unrealistic things.

Otherwise, you will sink deeper and deeper.

Questions. This money is paid by the insurance company when I am sick.

Crying [crying].

Then you can't give it to him.

If you give him an investment, if you are lucky, you can earn it back, so what if you are unlucky?

In this case, we should accept this reality, and we must have a good talk with our husbands to promote the relationship between you, so that you can work together and get through the difficulties together.

You should divorce your husband because your husband cheated on you before marriage and there is a lack of basic trust between you.

I think you can file a lawsuit in court because your husband has a concealment, and you can ask your husband to compensate you.

You should discuss this issue with your husband, show that you will not be responsible for this debt, and you should dissociate yourself from the relationship.

You must divorce your husband, because your husband is obviously cheating on you by doing this.

If your husband loves you very much, you can choose to never leave him and pay off the debt with him.

First of all, you have to figure out how he owes these debts and let him make it clear. If it's a long-term failure in business, even if he doesn't tell you before marriage, it's forgivable. If it involves gambling and drugs, it's more troublesome.

Gambling can be quit, and if there is no money, he will not be gambled. He's already borrowed a lot of money, and I'm afraid no one will lend him any more.

<> if he is addicted to drugs, then his life will be ruined. It would be nice if one of the ten drug addicts could actually quit. Some people take drugs again soon after compulsory drug rehabilitation, because they have like-minded people who will seduce them, and the chances of taking drugs again are greater.

In fact, drug rehabilitation is a battle of willpower. Zhang Xueliang used to take drugs, but he said he wanted to quit because he had extraordinary willpower.

If the husband and wife have a good relationship and care for each other, you take the child over, don't be noisy, talk to him calmly, touch him with your tenderness, and let him tell the truth about the debt. Then think about a long-term plan and think of a plan and method for repayment. Your husband was in so much debt before marriage.

You don't know until your child is 8 months old after marriage. I don't think your husband is a magnanimous person, which is tantamount to pulling you into the pit! "I said:

Are you telling the truth? But that's already the case, and with a child, the most important thing now is to figure out what he owes so much money for?

If it's a loss of business, I don't think it's an essential issue. There are profits and losses in business, and there will be a chance to make a comeback in the future! "。

When you first found out that he owed a foreign debt, he lied to you about the amount of money. After everyone helped him pay back 110,000 yuan, his foreign debt became 400,000 yuan. How much does he really owe?

Double-check is required. Also, even if you find out that he owes a foreign debt, he doesn't take the initiative to explain the reason to you and how much money he owes. He has been reluctant to tell you the truth, maybe he really lied, maybe there are many things he lied to you.

Also, I don't seem to see you as a wife. What should I do if you still have to pay back? I can't jump out of the fire pit.

Stop the vandalism as soon as possible. You should get out in time.

It depends on the relationship between you and your ability to repay. After all, it is owed before marriage, so you are not obliged to help him pay it back, but if your relationship is really good, he is also a serious person, if those debts are not forced debts, you can repay them together if you have the ability, and the husband and wife share joys and sorrows, and the love is stronger than gold. However, if there is a real problem with the other person's character, then you have no obligation to help him repay.

I think at this time you can push him more, let him work hard to make money, and let him pay off his debts.

Personally, I think that if you encounter such a situation, then you should try to pay off the money you owe slowly with your husband.

I will divorce him, because if I don't divorce, I will definitely have a hard time in the future, he owes a huge amount of foreign debts like a mountain, which will overwhelm me, and I am divorced and debtless.

What should I do if I find out that my husband owes money after marriage?

If you find out that your husband owes a lot of money after getting married, then this kind of marriage is equivalent to a fraudulent marriage. From a woman's point of view, I think you can choose to divorce him. However, the man will definitely not agree to the divorce easily, so everyone must understand the other party's financial situation before getting a marriage certificate.

Knowing each other's financial situation can avoid some unnecessary troubles and will not affect the relationship between husband and wife.

On the other hand, according to the provisions of the Marriage Law, premarital debts are personal debts, and the other spouse is not liable for the debts. But having said that, after all, the husband and wife still have to live together and live together after marriage. Then unless two people get married and implement the economic AA system, they will definitely be affected by these debts.

It will even affect the relationship between the husband and wife because of the debt, so some women will choose to repay the debt with their husband in order to reduce the trouble.

If you personally love your husband very much, then I think you should be willing to pay off your debts with your husband, but legally, it's okay if you don't want to pay your debts with him. Because this is the money he owed before marriage, you don't need to pay off the debt with him, but as a husband and wife, if you don't want to help him pay it back, then he will definitely be unhappy in his heart. If he has to ask you to repay the loan with him, then I think you can file for divorce with him in this case.

Living with such a person does not have a good chance of getting happy.

According to my understanding, a wise woman will find a way to make up for this debt, because the man borrowed a large amount of money to get married, which is enough to show that the man values the family. And it is enough to show that the other party is eager to marry a wife. So if a woman is smart enough, she will follow her husband to pay off her debts slowly.

But if the debt owed is spent by the husband, then the family is unwilling to pay back the debt, you can choose to divorce. Generally, prenuptial debts are borne by the debtor. As a wife, there is no need to pay for her husband's faults.

In such a situation, you should divorce the other party, because the other party treats the marriage very insincere and did not tell you such a thing before getting married, so you should choose to divorce decisively.

You should have a good talk with your husband, ask what your husband means, and you should also write a certificate that the money was borrowed before marriage, so that it has nothing to do with you.

In the face of such a situation, you should communicate well with your husband, and you can also communicate correctly with your husband, and you can also help your husband repay the money, and you should also advise your husband to repay the money as soon as possible.

Then you should ask the other party to give you an explanation, and then let him pay back the money himself.

1. If it is used for the common life of husband and wife or family, it is considered a joint debt of husband and wife, and there is an obligation to repay.

2. If you can prove that the debt is a debt for the husband alone, you can refuse to repay the creditor.

3. If money is borrowed for gambling, the national law does not protect such claims and debts.

If it is the first type, because it is a debt during the marriage, it does not make a difference how the divorce property is divided or whether the pre-marital property is just or not, and it must be used to repay the debt. If there is no divorce, the wife's salary will be used to pay off the debt, because the wife's income is also part of the joint property of the husband and wife, but a certain amount of living expenses should be retained.

As for the house, whether it is pre-marital personal property or post-marital joint property, once the debt is recognized as a joint debt, the court may also enforce the pre-marital personal property. Of course, if there is only one house, the general court will not force the auction. How it is implemented depends on the specific situation.

In the case of the second option, it is up to you to provide evidence that the debts borrowed by your husband were not used for the joint life of the husband or family.

If it's the third one, don't bother at all, the law doesn't support it.

In short, if you don't want to pay off your husband's debts, the most important thing is not divorce and property division, but to find a way to prove that the debts borrowed by your husband are not used for the couple's life together or the family. In particular, it is important to note that one party incurs debts for investment and business, i.e., the husband borrows money to engage in business activities.

We often hear many people regret getting married, and marriage is a carrier to create happiness, but it has also become a painful ** for many people. Boyfriends and girlfriends have a lot of good expectations for the future, and they enter marriage with happiness, but in the end they are tormented by marriage and are physically and mentally exhausted, and some people know little about the future before marriage, and regret it after marriage, so what should I do if I find out that my husband owes more than 200,000 yuan after marriage, and what should I do if I regret marriage?

After getting married, I found out that my husband owed more than 200,000 yuan in debt, which often made the woman feel panicked and uneasy, these negative emotions could not solve any problems, and she needed to face the reality rationally, and the most correct choice was to actively find a way to solve it. If the other party is very good to you and wants to continue to live with the other party, you can talk to your husband about the debt, and the person who really loves you will not let you suffer, and will try to pay off the debt. If the other party is not self-motivated, and he is completely disappointed in his marriage and husband, he can consider divorce, otherwise it will be difficult to be happy if the marriage continues.

In fact, there are many cases of regretting marriage in reality, some people did not think clearly before getting married, or found that two people have a lot of problems living together after marriage, so they regret getting married. Regretting getting married is recommended to think calmly for a while, and you must know that divorce is not an easy thing now.

If you decide to divorce after thinking about it calmly, you can sit down and talk, and both parties feel that divorce is the best option, then you can divorce by agreement. However, if you like each other very much, you must think about your life after divorce, and marriage needs to be managed, not just one party can pay.