When I met my first love after marriage, I found out that I didn t love my husband, do I want to div

Since you are married, you have to think about it seriously, be responsible for the family, be responsible for your husband, if you still don't love him after thinking twice, please divorce, this is also a way to be responsible for him.

Of course you want to divorce, you think so is disrespectful and irresponsible to your husband, I think this husband has a wife like you is his sadness.

I don't think you should get divorced, because now you don't know what you think at all, and you haven't communicated with the other person, so you shouldn't be presumptuous and put yourself in a more awkward situation.

I don't think it's okay to get divorced, sometimes two people you like may not be suitable for a relationship, and even if you are in love, it may not be suitable for marriage. Now that you have chosen your current husband, you have the obligation and responsibility to manage your current marriage well.

Don't divorce, I don't think it's fair to your husband, after all, when two people come together, they should forget the past and devote themselves to their husbands and cultivate feelings for them.

If you are married and have children, your life is quite happy, but you can't forget it. Then hide this beauty in the bottom of your heart! Grasping the happiness of the present is the most important thing, maybe what we will never forget is only our original heart, that ignorant feelings, and we treasure it is also a kind of happiness!

It doesn't affect anyone's life, and if you still love each other, take this bold step and tell her that you miss her, maybe the girl will wait for you again, don't leave regrets in the future, first love is different.

If the other person already has a family, it is the right way not to disturb them. is accompanying the so-called, you can't give others the life they want, why bother holding on? If you can't hold the sand, it's better to raise it.

I am haunted by what happened in the past, but in fact, the most important thing is always the present. Human life is a process of continuous gain and loss. We will be satisfied when we get and suffer when we lose.

No matter how you feel, life goes on.

Now after the baptism of society, everyone has their own lives and circles, plus being in a different place, even the young boys and girls in the enthusiasm are difficult to achieve, so it is better to let each other find a more suitable one, leaving a beautiful memory of first love. But once these factors disappear, you will face quarrels and contradictions, and you will think that you are not like this at the beginning, why have you become like this now, breaking the original image of the other party in each other's minds, and even regretting why you got back together in the first place.

Please improve your ability, IQ, EQ, love quotient, and then take the initiative, learn to fall in love in love, don't be afraid of failure, persevere, next time you may be holding the beauty, if she is married, the liquid is messy or, you are too far from her requirements, then wash and sleep! Things are different from people, they have changed each other, and they can no longer find the past. Then let it go, so you won't be afraid to miss it and regret it for the rest of your life!

The questioner is this persistent, emotionally minded person, and I believe that God will not treat such a person badly! The crowd looked for her thousands, and suddenly looked back, but the person was in the dim light.

The divorce. The person who really loves you doesn't care about your past, your husband has committed a problem of principle, and being reluctant to be together will only be more painful, and it will cause more contradictions in the future, and divorce is a relief for both parties.

Then you are divorced from Brother Xin and married, you can't forget your first love, and your husband has a new love outside, what are you doing? Does Slippery Aloe cooperate with interests? Why are you waiting for a divorce? Hurry up and get a divorce, and don't miss anything.

You should get divorced because there is already a mistrust in the relationship between the two of you, and you won't be happy if you continue.

You should get divorced, because such a husband has nothing to be nostalgic for.

Cover your heart! If you don't get a response for your feelings, can you blame others? I don't know why it's necessary to continue!

Should be divorced. A person like him is not a little sensible, and he doesn't have a lot of respect for you, and he doesn't want to be with you.

If it's because you can't forget your first love, he went to find a new love, then I can only say that you failed your husband, and you're sorry for him!

You must be an "only child" who thinks only of yourself and does not think about others. What's wrong with this generation?

You can't forget your first love, it's been more than ten years, will your first love remember you? It's that you're too careful, since you're married to your husband, let's go on well, and you know what you're doing today?

Having a positive mentality and not forgetting is a normal .........What you have to do is not to dwell on what you have to forget, but to live your life well.

Everyone will, after all, first love is always the time to put the most feelings on your own.

But it's just nostalgia, not missing.

He may not like you, hello, I suggest you and your husband have a calm talk, after all, marriage and divorce are major life events, and you can't be hasty. Since you are married, you should live a good life, why didn't you find out about this problem before marriage? In fact, this shows that your husband is not only selfish, but also very stupid, eating the bowl and looking at the pot, and letting you know.

The result is not divorce or noisy every day, and life is not peaceful for a moment, so why bother? If he can finally recognize his heart in a short time, you will be fine, otherwise, you will either endure it or sue for divorce. Hope it helps.

The first love is unforgettable. It's good to keep good memories in my heart

Don't get too entangled, be happy, just work hard to be yourself and maintain what you have.

Not all romances can be as they please. No matter what, be confident and don't get tangled

The scenery passing by, the people who missed it, just let it go. Believe that there will be more beautiful scenery ahead, more worthy people, waiting for yourself to discover.

Get out of the shadow of your feelings and devote yourself to work! Or find a good girl to marry, forget that the best way is to start a new one, as the saying goes, the old doesn't go, the new doesn't come!

I was making a friend and slowly forgot about it.

But if the feelings for you are okay.

Families have responsibilities and obligations.

So what does he have to keep some good thoughts?

At this time, you should be patient, you can be more kind to your husband, let him feel guilty, it will be fine, if it doesn't work, there is really no way, I suggest you boldly talk to the woman, persuade her to quit, don't be a junior!

Your husband is a complete scumbag at all, and he still wants to occupy the pot while eating the bowl, so I suggest that you divorce him quickly and stay away from him. There are good men outside, why hang themselves on a tree! Leave him and go and find your own happiness!

If you can break it, you will live well; If you can't break it, you can leave!

Clear attitude and decisiveness!

It mainly depends on what you think in your heart, talk to your husband well, tell him that he can live a good life without being distracted, and he can't divorce his first love, because it is not a matter for a long time, and it will bring many contradictions to the family.

This is excessive. are already married, and they can go back to find their first love, I guess they don't want to live. This kind of thing can't be endured, if you endure it the first time, then what about the second time?So I made it clear directly, either you leave her, or you leave me.

The decision is up to you. Because your husband is now in two boats, if there is a slight separation, maybe he will split. At this time, you should make a decisive choice, and be responsible for yourself and your children.

This kind of man is a scumbag, don't be such a man, he still has a very good life.

It can be seen from your introduction that your husband is a not very authentic man, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, remembering that he doesn't want to divorce you and doesn't want to break off with Xiao San, it's all his.

To put it bluntly, you are too soft-hearted, he knows you very well, he has grasped the weakness of your weak heart, and he is consumed with you like this, he knows that you can't do anything to him, so he has been consumed like this, you have to do something now to make him understand that you are not a weak and easy to bully person, you have to let him know that you are powerful, you have to pick up the law ** , Let him know that you are serious this time, if you really want to continue with him, let him show his attitude, if he doesn't want to show his attitude with Xiao San, and then you according to the situation, let the court solve this kind of thing, get all you have won back, slowly come out of this haze, and start a new relationship again!Make him regret losing you!!

You still have to talk to your husband. This kind of man still wants to pedal two boats. You are asked to take care of your parents and children. I also want to be with my first love. If he doesn't break off with his first love. You have to think about it. Don't get used to his stinky faults.

I think you should divorce such a man, he is stepping on two boats, eating the bowl and looking at the pot, how can such a man be single-minded in his feelings, and expect him to be responsible for you. Just leave him and find someone who likes you, so you don't get tired.

In this case, it is better to tell his parents-in-law, his parents, everyone knows, forced him to make a choice. Like you said, you can't keep the red flag from falling at home and the colorful flags fluttering outside.

What should I do if I find out that my husband has rekindled his old relationship with his first love, and he doesn't want to divorce or follow his first love?I think you have to talk to your husband well, tell your husband to draw a line with his first love, and don't have anything to do with him.

Hello, then care more about your husband, let him feel the warmth of the family will return to the family, after all, there are children, run the family together, and the husband and wife will be a hundred days a day.

Divorce after the cooling-off period is over, what is there to consider about such a simple matter. Since he thinks his first love is good, let him go with his first love.

In fact, such a situation should be broken, not broken. Such a man is actually irresponsible. Don't be with him anymore.

Then be resolute, never allow both, how can you still raise this first love outside? He keeps breaking and breaking outside.

The sooner the man who stepped on two boats, the better. Collect evidence and submit it to the court to sue for divorce.

What should I do if I find out that my husband has rekindled his old relationship with his first love, and he doesn't want to divorce or break off with his first love? Talk to his first love, your husband's state, his first love will also break off with him.

What should I do if I find out that my husband is in an old relationship with my first love**, and I don't want to divorce or break off with my first love? It's easy to talk to him. You want to divorce him if you marry him.

This depends on what kind of mentality you have, and if you can't accept it, you can unilaterally sue for divorce. It's not fun to have different dreams in the same bed.

It's impossible, can you tolerate it? If you can't tolerate it, cut through the mess quickly.

Since this is the case, I suggest that you first take evidence of the two of them and then explain the matter to your in-laws, so that the elders can put pressure on him and make a choice.

You shouldn't get divorced, in fact, you have formed a sense of dependence on your husband, and you feel that you like your first love because you can't get it

In fact, most girls will have this kind of thought, but you should consider all the pros and cons, did you choose to divorce because of your first love? And whether that first love has the same feelings for you, so there is no need to choose to give up your happiness for an ethereal thing.

Then you have to know whether your first love likes you or not, and whether you love you or not. I think that women divorce in order to live a happier life, not from one man to another man.

If you want to divorce, after all, you should make yourself happy in terms of feelings, not to settle down, otherwise, the marriage will not be happy.

Don't divorce, because you just yearn for your first love, and you don't really love him, and you will definitely regret it if you divorce at this time.