How can I make myself eloquent and humorous?

In general, I think of books as a source of knowledge. Add the application and you're good to go! The so-called application is to use the methods in the book, the sentences accumulated in life, and some classic language.

Don't be ignorant, savor it! For example, who you talk to depends on what he is taboo about. Like someone you know, someone you know, you can't talk about what he avoids, or what he taboos.

Also, don't mention unlucky words, or always scold others in a roundabout way. Bear more, be able to endure, and be tolerable. If it's a customer, it's best to be sincere, not with flattery, and don't be a fool of others.

You have to show your sincere, kind side. The so-called true temperament. It's humorous, funny, like you said.

In fact, it is some practical imagination that can make others happy and say it to reconcile the atmosphere. But before you speak, you must think about whether you should say it or not, and if you say something that hurts others, otherwise it will make the atmosphere even more embarrassing. The so-called say should be thought as soon as possible, but it should be said slowly.

I hope that what I say slowly will make you think of a good answer as soon as possible. Let you solve your current problems!

If you want to do it quickly, you can read some jokes, don't read bad jokes, memorize jokes, or write down interesting language, memorize more, use more when chatting with others, read some analytical questions, and exercise your ability to react quickly, then it will be a bit of a look, but of course, it is not as good as those that accumulate over time, if you cultivate it slowly, you can talk to people more, look at jokes from time to time, test reaction ability, etc., and after a long time, you will be able to speak witty and humorous.

1 Look at jokes.

2. Have an optimistic outlook on life.

3 Be open-minded.

4. Socialize and communicate with others.

5 It is better to have more knowledge.

6 Read more books about eloquence.

7. Be as outgoing as possible.

Summary. Everyone's definition of humor is different, the most important thing is to improve their emotional intelligence, followed by reading more books or some funny variety shows, so that you can speak more calmly, and then you can practice chatting with friends more, so that you can be better at chatting and expressing, and if you improve your emotional intelligence, you can know what others don't like to listen to and what they like to hear, so it is easy to create a humorous and interesting atmosphere.

1 person can only be humorous when he is relaxed. You can't be humorous when you're nervous, so, relax yourself first. 2. Humor and sexuality have a common structure.

It's all about creating tension first, and then releasing it. 3 There is a slight difference in the sense of humor between men and women. Some jokes are funny for men, but not necessarily for women.

Everyone's definition of humor is different, the most important thing is to improve their emotional intelligence, followed by reading more books or some funny variety shows, so that you can speak more calmly, and then you can practice chatting with friends more, so that you can be better at chatting and expressing, and if you improve your emotional intelligence, you can know what others don't like to listen to and what they like to hear, so it is easy to create a humorous and interesting atmosphere.

1. Speaking with a sense of humor requires us to have a certain degree of emotional intelligence, that is, to be able to be humorous without losing etiquette in the process of speaking, the scale of humor is just right, and the cultivation of emotional intelligence requires us to have a high degree of cognitive ability, that is, we must learn to look at things in two.

2. If we want to speak with a sense of humor, we need to have a certain cultural literacy, that is, we must develop the habit of learning and thinking by ourselves. Have your own unique views on some issues, so that you can be humorous and not embarrassed in the process of communicating with people.

3. Speak with a sense of humor and understand the current hot topics, so that you can optimize the topic in your own language and express it in the form of humor when appropriate.

4. If you want to make your speech more humorous, you can also learn other people's humorous thinking by watching some entertainment programs and some interesting jokes, so that you can also edify your own way of thinking, so as to change your way of speaking.

5. Make your speech more humorous, you can also practice at home, you can express a very ordinary thing in the form of humor, so that you can practice what often happens in life, then you will naturally form a sense of humor when you speak with a sense of humor.

6. It should be noted that speaking has a sense of humor In addition to the above common methods, you can also adjust it according to your own situation, in fact, the sense of humor is not born to everyone, it is just an acquired way of thinking, if my experience is helpful to you, don't forget to praise me.

Learn to praise others. A man of humor, he will not skimp on his praise. And this kind of praise will definitely not be just a simple compliment, because it has nothing to do with humor.

You have to learn to "elevate" yourself a little bit when you praise someone, like I compliment you on being beautiful and smart.

His own humorous character. If you are a serious person yourself, or you have never liked to communicate with others in a humorous way, then I advise you not to learn humorous chatting.

Because you're too deliberate and contrived. Humorous chatting, that's a natural thing, if your humor is something you deliberate, then not only you are awkward, but even others will be awkward. So if you want to learn humor, then you need to exercise your own humorous character.

Make yourself cheerful and sunny. Well-timed jokes. The author has an iron buddy, when everyone chats together on the Internet, no matter what problems arise, or which two people in the group have some contradictions, as long as he appears, he will definitely say some jokes, usually his jokes look the same as the contradictions between the two people.

But after speaking, you will find that the donkey's lips are not the horse's mouth. But it was these well-timed jokes that made the whole person feel relaxed.