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Benevolence, integrity, modesty, studious ,...
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Do you know these principles of life?
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During this semester, I read the first chapter of "Confucius Tells Us to Be Tolerant" edited by Gao Xin, "Confucius's Way of Life". It made me know that being a human being is a university question, and the book tells us the truth of how to be a human being in simple words.
Confucius taught him the founder of Confucianism in China. Students should be able to forgive, that is, to forgive others! If you don't want it, don't pass it on to others.
Among them, "forgiveness" means "to treat oneself and others, and to treat others with kindness". When you encounter problems in getting along with others, you should empathize. It is to push oneself and others, and compare one's heart with one's heart; How you want to live is how you want others to live. I don't want others to treat me like that, so I don't want to treat others like that; I hope that if I can stand up and be accessible in society, I will also help others to stand up and be accessible.
With this understanding, should we, as teachers, think like this in our daily teaching? As a teacher, whether with colleagues or with students, you should also have the idea of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you".
We used to be students, and we also know that when students are hard, in the past, we also had headaches for teachers, and we also shouted tired about homework, and there were times when we were lazy, and of course, there were ...... make mistakesNow that our role is different, we are teachers, and slowly these experiences are forgotten, and we may think more about how to teach our children well, and tell them from our standpoint that it is not right to do so, and that it should be so.
But students always like to escape from our sight and love to play hide and seek with us. Let us also squat down, think from the child's point of view, be more considerate of the students, put yourself in their shoes, and at this time we will find that some of the children's mistakes are normal and understandable. For example:
The design of classroom teaching should take into account the students' receptivity, the teaching progress should take into account the students' intellectual ability, and the assignment should take into account the students' ability to bear. In teaching, we should think more from the perspective of students.
Communicate with students more often to understand their needs and difficulties in learning. I think this should be the basis of individualized teaching. When we are more tolerant and patient with our children, we create a harmonious learning atmosphere, then our teachers will not be so tired of teaching, and we will be much happier at work.
In the same way, in our daily lives, if we all live up to this creed, we will be at peace and the world will be peaceful. When we are upset, when we are upset, when we are upset, please remind ourselves to say, "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
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1. Have a sense of awe
Confucius said: "A gentleman has three fears: fear of the mandate of heaven, fear of adults, and fear of the words of sages." The villain does not know the destiny of heaven and is not afraid, and the lord insults the words of the saint. ”
Meaning: There are three kinds of reverence for a gentleman: reverence for the destiny of heaven, reverence for virtuous people, and reverence for the language of saints; The villain does not understand the destiny of heaven and does not revere it, has a contemptuous attitude towards the virtuous, and has many contemptuous insults to the words of the saints.
2. Rich and poor:
Zigong said: "Poor but no flattery, rich but not arrogant, what is it? Zi said: "Yes." Those who are not poor are happy, and those who are rich and courteous. ”
Meaning: Zigong asked: "What is it like to be poor and not flattering others, rich and noble but not arrogant?" Confucius said, "Yes, but not as good as the poor and happy, rich and courteous." ”
3. Learn from each other's strengths
Zi said: "If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher." Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good. ”
Meaning: Confucius said: "When several people walk together, there must be someone among them who can be my teacher, and I should choose their strengths to learn, and if I see their shortcomings, I should reflect on whether I have the same shortcomings as them, and if so, I should correct them together." ”
4. Tenacity: Zi said: "The year is cold, and then the pine and cypress are withered." "Zihan").
Meaning: Confucius said, "It is not until the coldest season of the year that the pine and cypress are the last to lose their leaves." ”
5. Knowing mistakes can be corrected:
Zi said: "It's over! I have not seen anyone who can see his faults and sue himself. ”
Meaning: Confucius said, "Forget it! I've never met anyone who can blame themselves when they see their mistakes. ”
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1. Knowing it tacitly, learning without getting tired, teaching people tirelessly, what is there for me.
Translation: What is the difficulty for me to silently remember what I have learned, not to get bored of learning, and not to know tiredness?
2. Forget to eat with anger, forget your worries with happiness, and don't know that the old man is coming to Yun'er.
Translation: If you study hard, you forget to eat, and when you revel in your studies, you forget your sorrows, and you don't know that old age is coming.
3. If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good.
Translation: When several people walk together, there must be someone who can be my teacher. We should choose their strengths to learn from, and pay attention to correcting their shortcomings.
4. Look ahead, ignore behind. The master is kind and seductive, and he writes about me and asks me to be polite.
Translation: I look up at the teacher's knowledge and morality, and the more I look up, the higher I feel; I worked hard, and the more I studied, the more I felt that I couldn't do it all. It looks like it's in front, and suddenly it's like it's in the back.
The teacher was good at inducing me step by step, enriching my knowledge with various classics, and restraining my words and deeds with various etiquettes, so that it was impossible for me to stop studying until I had exhausted all my strength.
5. Sensitive and studious, not ashamed to ask, is called "text".
Translation: It means not to be ashamed to ask for advice from people of lower status and education than yourself. Therefore, the word "Wen" can be used as his nickname.
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1. Do not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself. 2. There must be my teacher in the threesome. 3. Learn and learn from time to time, don't you also talk about socks and digging?
Have friends come from afar, are you happy? People don't know and are not ashamed, and they are not gentlemen? 4. The gentleman has no food to eat, no shelter to seek safety, and is cautious in the big things of the shed.
5. I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what I want, do not exceed the rules.
Combined with the Confucius of the Analects, talk about your Confucius regeneration, the key is to turn off a lot, and feel that you have to support yourself well in life.
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