Marriage makes me see no hope, I want to divorce for fear that my children will be hurt, should I ju

Shouldn't. When there is no hope for a marriage, the marriage is crumbling, and any imminent conflict event can become the last straw that breaks the camel's back. And even one straw after another did not crush this emaciated camel to the impact of each straw.

For a child, it is also possible to reach the level of an aircraft carrier. Therefore, there is no hope of such a marriage at all, because your persistence will not necessarily protect the child, and may even cause him more harm.

1. Marriage must have a foundation.

The basis of marriage can be trust, it can be affection, it can be communication, but no matter which of the above, it must be there. You said that marriage has made you hopeless, that is, in the current marriage, the relationship between the two of you has been exhausted, and there is no solid mutual trust and tolerance and communication that can solve all problems, then this marriage can only bring you pain, and what is the need to continue?

2. Divorce is not necessarily harmful to children.

Modern society, divorce rate.

There has been a surge, and many couples of the younger generation are no longer like the older generation, holding the so-called "for the sake of children" concept, and hurting each other for a lifetime. And the reason for this result is that many young people have experienced the pain of not divorcing "for the sake of their children" between their parents when they were still children, but they couldn't get through together. Therefore, as long as we communicate clearly with our children, even if our parents are separated, we are the most loved, and children can understand it.

3. A good growth environment can ensure the healthy growth of a child.

In a marriage like this, either the two of you quarrel every day over trivial matters, and don't give in to each other because of lack of tolerance. Either they live with indifference, because they have no feelings, and they can't let their children know what true love is. No matter what the situation is, it is not conducive to the healthy growth of children.

No, if you don't choose to divorce because of your children, it will be a harm to your children, leaving a burden on your children, which is not conducive to your child's growth, and your child is not so fragile.

Personally, I don't think I should settle, I have passed the era of marrying a chicken and a dog and marrying a dog, I shouldn't think about this and that, I want to live for myself, people's lives are very short, to live a wonderful life, since there is no hope for marriage, then divorce.

Honestly, it shouldn't. Marriage will have a bottleneck period, you still have feelings for this family, you can try to save your husband's sincerity, do a good job as a wife, clean the house, take care of the elderly, etc., if the other party does not change his mind, then it is recommended to choose according to his own mind.

After 7 years of marriage, I was very unhappy, and if I had a child, even if I had a child, I should divorce decisively. Because I don't think an unhappy marriage will bring any good to a child's childhood; Secondly, an unhappy marriage can bring harm to both families and hurt to parents! <>

Many people are very miserable in their marriage, but they don't know whether to divorce because of their children, in fact, if marriage really makes you so miserable, it is better to choose to leave.

First of all, I don't think an unhappy marriage can bring happy memories of a child's childhood. The reason why I chose to support divorce is because many people with personality problems are caused by the unhappiness of their original family. In their childhood, the atmosphere of the original family was very depressing, the relationship between the parents was not good, and they were reluctant to be together for the sake of the child, and they did not want the child to lose their father or mother, but they always quarreled and even fought.

This casts a deep shadow over the child's childhood. Instead of painfully maintaining the relationship, it is better to choose to leave in a chic way and create a harmonious and happy environment for the child. Even though you are divorced, you are still the parents of the child, and he has not lost any of you.

Secondly, I support divorce because I feel that in addition to the pain caused to the children, it is more harmful to the families of both parties. An unhappy marriage is physically and mentally exhausting for each other, and living in pain will also leave both parents and families in pain. If two people are unhappy in their marriage, it is no longer just a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.

I believe that as parents of both parties, we all want our children to have a happy family. If two people can't get along, as parents, they also hope that they will be more suitable for their other half again. While no parent wants their children to divorce, they are even more reluctant to see their children unhappy.

At this time, divorce is actually the best relief. <>

If you are really not happy, you should choose to divorce, because if you continue like this, it will only drag down the lives of two people more, and if you divorce, you can also take care of your children, and then start your own life again, which will be happier.

I think we should end this marriage, because this marriage has brought great difficulties to both of us, although the lives of both people are very difficult, so we should be completely separated.

I think we should divorce because such a marriage will not make you happier, it will only make yourself and the other party more miserable, so you should separate as soon as possible in the face of such a marriage.

If it is a husband's domestic violence, you can choose a hidden divorce, you can tell him without telling the children, you live separately from his Zhen Zhen's father, Yu Xichong Lu Ling, you both raise the children for a week, or you leave the city and tell your children that you work in another city, and then you and his father will see how to divide the support.

When encountering such a situation, you must adjust your mentality, and then you should also have a good chat with the child, you should tell your child your sincere words, and let the child understand yourself.

You can take the initiative to discuss with your husband, and I also hope that the other party will not do some things in life to make you sad, and if the other party continues to do this, then I suggest that you should divorce.

I am desperate for marriage, but I promised my children not to divorce, what are the solutions? Qingqing is difficult to break the family affairs, Qingtian generation, but besides, I, like other civilians, can't decide that marriage itself is an all-encompassing group, this is not a place for reasoning, it is very clear, there is no love, if the family wants peace, there is always a lot of freedom, a lot of understanding, more standing in the corner on the other side, you are already a close person, I already have two children, I often think like this, but there are many friends who persuade me to get married, to try to solve this problem, not only to consider divorce, but also to think about family, but also irresponsible to the child, how parents think comprehensively, not just for themselves. It was my advice, and frankly, I wanted to defend myself, but I didn't do it at the time.

Then think about it and don't make excuses.

<> then divorce would be better than it is now. It can be seen from the large number of divorces around friends that their children are living well, and although the parents do not live together, it does not affect the children's affinity with their parents at all. Naughty children continue to walk and live on both sides of their parents.

Previously, parents could only give money to one person. Now they are both miserable, they give money, they think life is good.

Then first of all, we must calm down the cold and hunger, and the most important thing is to stop the destruction in time! You have to understand that whether you can accept that reality has happened or not, if he can continue to return to the family, you can slowly let go, and his world is the same as before, and of course better. If you can't accept the betrayal of the other party in the marriage, then collect evidence in time to transfer the property, even if you and the children leave, you are not afraid of future difficulties!

In short, the worst-case scenario is avoidable, but when you hit it, you have to understand that it doesn't set goals for itself correctly. If you can't stand it, then the pain itself! Will the other side of your pain change?

It's impossible! If he really wants to change for you, in the first quarrel you need to have an answer, think and make a mistake because of what to do next so that the wife does not fall into pain.

Then don't divorce, because since the answer is clear that the child should accompany Yuanli, you should give the child a complete family, and you should make the child lack a sense of security, and you should communicate and discuss with your husband.

People live not only for love, you can transform all your coarse love into children, and use your emotionless spouse as a nanny and a tool to earn money

If you are desperate for marriage, but you have promised your children not to divorce, I think it is okay, and the husband and wife can live separately, so that they can also achieve the goal of not getting divorced, and then not living together, reducing the burden and pressure in your heart

If you are desperate for marriage, you should be divorced, but you have to take the test and promise the child not to divorce because you are afraid of the impact on the child.

If you are desperate for marriage, but you promised not to divorce the child, then you should give the other party a chance to change the mess, if the other party can change, then you can try to save your marriage and try not to break a family.

Hello, if you have been in a marriage for a long time, you may slowly become dull, if there is no principle to be cautious and serious, this situation is not recommended to go to filial piety and divorce, so that the child has a complete home, good training and communication.

At this time, you should take the child away, and you should also get the custody of the child, in this case, you can ensure that you will not be separated from the child.

Since you promised the child not to divorce, then endure the pain and continue to live a hungry letter. Think about it again, if the child lives in such a loveless family, will he be happy, and will the model be happy?

It depends on what you think when you deal with this problem? If your idea is to be blind for the sake of the child, then you have to be wronged, if you want to be for yourself, then you can just wronged the child, so this is really a difficult thing to choose.

You're going to get a divorce. You don't have to settle for the sake of your children, you have to live your own life, you have to run away from this life.

Probably not. Because I don't think a painful marriage can bring a happy family to my children, and my own happiness is also important.

I will not divorce for the sake of my children, because the growth of children is very important, and I hope to give children full love.

I won't not divorce for the sake of my children, because if I don't divorce, it will not be good for my children, and I can't create a good environment for my children to grow up.

If the marriage is painful, then you live with your children, but if your finances are okay, there is no problem, don't suffer this kind of sin because of the children.

In marriage, if there are already children, if the other party has no principled problems or substantive problems, as long as he still takes care of his family and children, he will not divorce for the sake of the children, but if he does not care about the family and the children, he can consider leaving, because such a reluctant marriage cannot force himself to live anymore.

Life in marriage is very painful, but there are many people who choose not to divorce for the sake of their children, and if it were my turn in this matter, I would do the same, because children need a complete home.

For the sake of the child, I will stick to it, make adjustments during this time, be a little bit of a heart, and wait for the child to become an adult, and then sweep him away.

If marriage makes me desperate, if this man behaves okay, he is still a good father, if his material ability cannot provide a good environment for his children to grow up, then I will put my mind on the children and psychologically divorce the man.

If I have the ability to raise my children well, and this man not only does not love me, but also has no responsibility for the children and the family, then I must divorce. After divorce, I will let myself be happy with my children, a happy mother and a desperate mother, the children brought out are definitely different. And it is also possible to meet a man who loves me and I love children, and I can justifiably fall in love and remarry.

An indifferent family and a happy single mother, the latter of which is obviously more beneficial for the child's upbringing.

First, the husband and wife first leave for a period of time (temporarily) to go out for a break. Second, go find a job you like, and ask your parents to take you with you, and leave the environment you are familiar with. Third, no matter what happens (whether it's a man or a woman), try to keep the other half.

Fourth, use your love charm to attract the other person's attention.