How to refuse others euphemistically if the blind date is not suitable?

1. Think before and afterI feel that we are more suitable to be friends than a couple, not because of you, you are very good, gentle and generous, but I think with you just feel that there is no feeling of love, but a feeling of good friends, I speak more straight, don't mind!

I think you can find someone who is a better fit for you! Thanks for this time together, I'm quite happy, if you don't mind, we can become good friends, and if there is anything you can help in the future, you can also tell me.

2. I've been thinking about it alone for a long time, I'll just say it, I think maybe we are not suitable, it's not your reason, it's my problem, because I really don't want to fall in love now, and I'm not a person who likes to chat very much, sometimes you send me a message, I will have a feeling that I don't want to reply, but if I don't reply, it feels not very polite, so sometimes I feel pressured.

I don't really like this feeling, I still don't delay your time, your conditions are very good, and you will definitely be able to find a suitable partner. I'm a more direct person who always follows my heart, I hope you don't mind.

3. You're a good girl.

It's just that I don't think we have that fate, adult time is precious, don't waste each other, let's stop here. The road ahead is long, I wish you to meet better people in the future, smooth sailing on the road to the pursuit of happiness, and say goodbye.

After a brief chat after the first meeting, I found that my personality is very different from yours, which makes me feel that the two of us are a little inappropriate, so I think we should get along as ordinary friends! All you have to do is say that, and the other person will understand that you are rejecting her.

When you find that a blind date is not appropriate, be sure to show the other person your attitude. While expressing gratitude, please be sure to firmly decline. Avoid procrastination, ambiguity, which will cause more harm to yourself and each other.

First of all, you should first express your own criteria for choosing a mate, and then secondly, praise the other person, praise his merits, and at the same time express your euphemistic request, and then put forward your own, and make a tactful refusal.

Tactfully reject others, you can say, I feel that the two of us are not suitable, let's do this first, I wish you to find a better person.

You can say that you don't think about love right now and feel like you're still young. In other words, the ambitions are not the same.

Now many people are busy with work, and when they reach the age of blind mountains when they should talk about marriage, they have no object, so they can only go on a blind date through the introduction of relatives and friends, but the empty hand is a blind date, and sometimes the blind date object is not necessarily suitable for themselves, and they may not like each other. Blind date is also an art, if you don't like it, you have to reject the other party tactfully, so how to refuse tactfully?

1. When you feel that the other party is not bad in the process of blind date, but it is just not the type you like, or you don't feel it, then you can euphemistically express the intention of being friends, such as telling the other party that I think you are very good and excellent in what way, but there is no feeling of calling, I think we can be friends, and the other party will know what you mean.

2. If you are afraid that it will be embarrassing to refuse the other party politely in person, then you can first go on a blind date politely, and then end the blind date as soon as possible. After returning home, if the other party asks, it can be said that we feel that our personality is not suitable, and the future plan is different, etc., to politely reject the other party, and then say something embarrassed and other words to express apologies.

3. In addition to directly expressing dislike feelings with the blind date, you can also express your dislike for the other party through the intermediary introducer, and you can let the intermediary introducer tell the other party that you have no feelings for him or her, so that the fight can avoid possible embarrassing situations when meeting.

When I find myself being "chosen" during the blind date process, I will first stay calm and sane. Everyone has the right to choose when it comes to finding the right partner.

1. Recognize yourself.

2. Maintain self-esteem.

Don't feel like you're not good enough because you're being "either-or". Remember that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and the key is to find someone who cherishes and appreciates you.

3. Communicate with each other.

Be honest with the other person about your feelings. Let the other person know that you are aware of the fact that you are being "chosen one or the other" and express your opinion about it. Communicate to understand each other's thoughts so that both parties can make a better decision about whether to continue the relationship.

3. Refusal of the request.

If the other party's request is too harsh or unfair, you can explicitly refuse the other party's request. You can tell the other person what you think and need, and ask them to reconsider their requirements.

Fourth, look for other options.

If you feel that this requirement is impossible to be met, or you do not want to continue the relationship, you can look for other options, such as postponing the blind date or finding another blind date.

5. Keep an open mind.

If the other person has expressed a willingness to continue developing a relationship with you, then keep an open mind and give each other a chance. But don't be discouraged if the other person chooses another person, as it means you may not be the best match. Keep looking for someone who is a better fit for you.

In short, this situation is not the worst. If you are trampled on two boats, it is really the worst-case scenario. Therefore, it is necessary to recognize the situation and resolutely refuse.