Why is life a never ending expectation and waiting?

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Because life is meaningful because there are waits and expectations, otherwise, even if you are given life, you have no value.

Expectation is the longest despair, despair is the most perfect expectation ...

Maybe ......We're all looking forward to....Perfect life, right?

You don't have to invite too many people into your life, if they can't get into your heart, they will only disturb your life and crowd it. Loneliness is not that there are no friends around, but there is no one to be companion in my heart.

The city is full of lively and lonely souls, pedestrians coming and going, but they are just destined tourists, and the more lively it is, the more deserted it is. Don't arrange life too much, don't design life too crowded. Whatever you do, give yourself some space so you can turn around.

For a lifetime, it is enough to have a scenery that you will never forget. Every heart has an irreplaceable emotion that is forever associated with a certain landscape.

Life is a process of cultivation, and half of the happiness of life must be fought for, and half must be followed.

Fight, not with others, but with hardship. There is no happiness at your fingertips, and only by being angry and striving for it can you get closer to happiness step by step.

Sui, not with the flow, but after knowing and then peace. With the limitations of ability and conditions, many people can only be at peace with what they encounter and stop with fate.

Fight, life has fewer regrets; Follow, contented people are always happy. I am most afraid that I will not fight when I should fight, and I will not stop when I should stop, and I am always suffering in the entanglement.

After the passing years, there is always a scenery that will be beautiful because of us; There is always a smiling face that blooms for us; There is always an encounter, which beautifies the whole past; There will always be someone who knows your warmth and coldness, and understands your joys and sorrows. All the encounters are turned back and forth in order to come to the world and meet the person who understands you; All the past is worth cherishing; All experiences are a kind of understanding, understanding, and the most beautiful fate in life.

I chose, worked hard, persevered, walked through, and had a clear conscience, but it doesn't matter what the result is.

In this life, it is nothing more than a process, the dew between the flowers of glory, the frost on the rich grass, the birth does not bring, the death does not take away, what is the pride? What's frustrating?

Go with the flow, be at ease with what you encounter, be as comfortable as the clouds, and be as free and easy as flowing water, which is the attitude that life should have.

Sometimes, people will have misunderstandings and even conflicts because of experience, background, experience, different cultures, etc., with good intentions, try to resolve it, but if it can't be resolved, just avoid it. The world is sometimes big, and it is better to be broad-minded. Focus on those who are good, uplifting, positive, and genuinely care for themselves, rather than the opposite; For the latter, ignore, forget, and laugh at it.

In fact, I have always believed in a relatively old saying, you can't stop what you should come, and you can't keep what you should go.

We just have to go with the flow, and there will always be a few people who will always be in your life, even integrated into the bone marrow.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, a person's life is not long, but it is not short, no one knows what will happen in the next second, don't waste your limited time on the meaningless things that happen to us to meaningless people.

So, you don't have to bring too many people into your life.

Yes, life is a long and endless wait, we are all passers-by in this endless waiting, we don't see the end, we don't see the beginning, we don't know what the meaning is, we don't know what the final result is, but we just keep waiting.

I don't think so. Life is the process of a person's pursuit, and a person's life is to find the meaning of life, otherwise a person's life has no value.

I think so, and I always feel lonely in the process, and if I change my mentality, I still feel that life is more exciting.

In addition to waiting, life can also do many things, such as studying hard, working hard, chasing dreams, and realizing the value of life.

Because your time and life are valuable, if you live a mediocre life every day, your life will become meaningless.

Because waiting will only waste your own time. Life should be lived in a variety of ways, and taking the initiative is the smartest thing to do.

Because basically good things are not waiting to be obtained. There are many things in life that you have to fight for on your own, and waiting for no result.

Although she likes others, she still has you in her heart.

I often hear people say: when I have time, when I get married, when I have children, when I have children, when I wait for the next season, when I retire, I will do what I like and live the life I like......

Maybe your children are married, maybe the seasons have changed several times, maybe you've been retired for a long time. You're still not able to do what you love and live the life you love.

The years have worn down your physical strength, your health, and the people you want to be with. As a result, your whole life is an endless rush of waiting.

The writer bent Meng Dongli and said: "I just want to take care of eating and sleeping every day, and concentrate on life." When I first heard these words, I felt that his life was too ordinary, and when I dug deeper, I found that he was a person who really knew how to live.

In the past, I was very busy with work every day, and even a meal was hastily finished, and the money in my left hand came and went in my right hand, and I played hide and seek with banknotes every day, which was very unhappy;Nowadays, I often have nothing to do, when I am in a daze, when I am reading, when I am writing, when I am chatting with my family, but I get happiness, and I will not lose my happiness without too much money, because I have begun to live every ordinary 'moment' seriously. ”

I once read a story about when the grapes began to bear seeds on the tree, and the child said, "Mother, let me eat some grapes." However, my mother was reluctant to pick the young grapes and wanted to wait until they were ripe. When the grapes were ripe, the child came back and begged.

Of all the animals that can fly, the bumblebee is an alternative. It is said that there were several zoologists who came to the same conclusion that all animals that can fly must have a light body and slender wings.

As soon as the words fell, several bumblebees flew to the scene, and the zoologists present immediately looked at each other and were embarrassed.

So, they took a specimen of a bumblebee and went to consult a physicist. The physicist pondered for a long time, looking at the bumblebee's fat, clumsy body and a pair of short wings, and finally shook his head in confusion: incredible.

According to the principles of fluid mechanics, it should not be able to fly.

In desperation, they brought in another social behaviorist, and before they could finish their explanation, the social behaviorist laughed and said humorously, "Is this going to be a problem?"The answer is simple!The secret is:

In this life, it must fly, otherwise, the bumblebee has only a dead end. Fortunately, I didn't study biology and didn't know much about fluid mechanics, otherwise, the bumblebee might never have wanted to fly again.

In the course of life, experience and knowledge are indeed the wealth of the years to people, is the stepping stone to success, and it is precisely because it is so precious that it is always difficult for us to understand: sometimes, it will also be transformed into an invisible burden or stumbling block, so that we unconsciously set limits on ourselves, rest on our laurels, and eventually become a heavy "mental barrier", lying in front of us, shielding the higher goals ahead, thereby restricting and stifling the potential of our own life.

Life is always expected and hopeful, it contains too many possibilities and infinite potential. Sometimes, when there is no way out, what you need to do is to break through to yourself.

Eternal life hope to look forward to.