How do you comfort yourself when you can t get used to seeing a lot of things?

Be yourself, be polite to others, be cautious, no one is perfect, selfish ideas, don't subjectively impose on others your own subjective thoughts, care is very good, you can give him choices or suggestions, you think this thing is from your point of view, that's right, then you can ask him, a way of yours, a way of him, you ask him which is good, if he insists on himself, you don't have to say much, everyone has their own way of doing things, we need to respect others, we can be respected!

Everyone has something they don't like to see. It doesn't have to change. If you want to improve, you must first understand that these "unaccustomed" are not necessarily related to the behavior of others, but are related to your own growth experience in the cultural environment, growth experience, moral education, etc., formed by your own cognition of things or brain schema.

So some people don't think about things that you don't like to see, and you may think it's okay for others to hate them.

If you're stung by a scorpion, you're not going to sting, are you? Sting you is the nature of a scorpion, you don't care about the scorpion sting you and let him go is your kind nature, why lose the nature of your pride for the sake of others. Everyone has his character, some people may be the kind of people you hate, don't be too indifferent to this kind of person, don't offend him, don't get too close to him, learn to don't care.

You just think: it doesn't matter to me what people do. It's a little more comfortable to think about it this way.

It's better to try to be tolerant, try to like, perhaps, that's what it's called tolerance.

As the so-called summer insects can't talk about ice, isn't it unpleasant to be angry with this kind of person? People who are not on the same level are already difficult to get along with, and having a senseless battle of words with them will only lower one's identity and put oneself in the same category as them, isn't it much more comfortable to think about it this way? The next time you want to reason with them again, imagine them as people who can't communicate, so naturally you won't be interested in arguing.

For other people's unintentional actions, sincerely apologize, and have a sense of tolerance. For those who affect themselves and refuse to change their ways, it is good to be tolerant and not die in the end. For those who have nothing to do with themselves, either hang high, or stumble to the end, and make their own decisions, this has nothing to do with tolerance and generosity.

It's okay to tell yourself that you're right, there's no need to look down on other people's things that don't involve you, even if he gets the benefits and disadvantages, what can he do, it has nothing to do with you. This kind of emotion should be your feeling, like an emotion similar to a sense of justice, in fact, there is no need to think like this, don't you get used to seeing other people's lack of meat?

Everyone's way of doing things is different, you can slander, but not everyone will live according to your ideas, be a man, you should eat, drink, sleep until you wake up naturally, if you really can't hold it, just think, don't look at incivility, don't listen to incivility, don't say incivility.

When it was the hardest time to borrow money to live, I always comforted myself that there is no mountain of flames that I can't get through, and there must be a road in front of the lane mountain, so I comfort myself not to be depressed. Then look for a new way out.

"Everything will be fine, everything will pass," if I keep comforting myself in times of difficulty, so that I can get out of difficulties, so that I will live happily.

The most difficult times will always pass, as long as you pass through the darkness before the dawn, you will usher in the dawn of victory, and you will be stronger in the future.

I would comfort myself like this: "All things that can't happen are the best arrangement, and if heaven descends on me, I must first experience things that ordinary people can't bear." Try to change yourself, deal with the difficulties in front of you, and wait for a better version of yourself to come. ”

I've been through many, many hard times.

Get married, have children, buy a house and a car, always do it yourself, in order to see the house, dog days and rainy days, with only three months of baby running around.

The way I comfort myself is to write down the dissatisfaction and grievances in my heart, and then when I get through it, I delete what I wrote, and I have survived step by step to this day.

When I'm down, I go to the gym to vent myself, I can sweat through strenuous exercise, and then punch bag, all of which can help me vent my bad feelings.

When I'm down, I eat a lot of delicious food, and then watch the TV series I like to watch, and I don't think about anything, just do what I'm happy about, which can help me vent my bad feelings.

When I'm lost, I choose to go to the playground for a run, and as I run, I forget a lot of unhappy things, and although I feel tired, I feel good that I can take a shower and sleep and forget a lot of unhappy things the next day.

When I am lost, I usually vent myself by singing on KTV, or going abroad with my family, and sometimes I choose to go fishing to vent myself.

Find an open place to yell a few loudly, or have a big meal, barbecue, milk tea, etc., to vent your emotions, and you will find a quiet place to listen alone.

When I am lost, I will talk to my best friend, confide in him about my unhappiness, and at the same time he will comfort me, just like that, and my mood will get better after a long time.

Maybe what happened to me was just a small difficulty, but I was lucky for others.

When I'm down, I'll listen to a song, go for a walk, go out for a big meal, or go to a movie, which will make me relax and catharsis, and I will feel like I'm suddenly less lost.

When I feel lost, I don't vent myself through some overeating, intense exercise, or going to KTV to sing and go crazy with friends.

I would exercise, go to the playground and run a dozen laps to make myself sweat, or go to KTV alone and sing until I was exhausted as a way to vent my emotions.

When I'm down, I buy myself a lot of sweets to eat because sweets make me feel better.

Then go to sleep, there's nothing that can't be solved by a little sleep.

By far the most effective way to do this is to watch something funny or have a chat with a friend. I was very disappointed that I didn't win a prize in the competition that I had worked hard for a long time last week. watched a few episodes of Happy Comedian, and then chatted with friends, and listened to her talk about the happy things around her, which eased a lot.

Friends, this is the most effective way to chat with friends, to make a few good friends, can talk about their troubles.

Listening to rock **, it works, and I think it's at least a lot more comfortable to eat sugar.

Playing games, playing games when you are lost, playing games to vent your feelings, and then calming yourself down and thinking carefully about the road ahead.

Eat. For a foodie, there is nothing that cannot be solved by eating a good meal, and if it doesn't work, it will be two. Loss proves that you are not capable, so eat more to have the motivation to continue to refuel.

I chose to talk to my friends, and I listened to more cheerful songs, so that the mood was really much better.

It's just to watch a happy variety show. For example, if you look at "Let's Run", or "Extreme Challenge" is very funny.

Exercising, running or playing basketball, using exercise as a kind of catharsis, this method is really tried and tested.

I always keep a diary, record my mood, and then learn to adjust it myself.

Life is a mess, but you still have to continue to live, how to eat snacks for yourself, eat delicious food, change your mood, watch movies, play with your mobile phone or something. In fact, I think food is food, it can bring positive energy to people, and it will make you feel happy.

When your life is a mess, you can allow yourself to slowly forget the hurt of your feelings, make a promise to yourself, and let yourself cry enough, make enough trouble, and be stupid enough in the set day; Then get up from scratch. However, if you keep thinking about it in your heart, you will never heal the damage you have suffered.

I think if your life is a mess, it's better for you to watch those inspirational movies, inspirational books, and see how other people are doing. Tell yourself to really do it, meet every day of life, live well, study hard, and make progress every day.

When your life is a mess, you can try to sort out your life, just ask him about the mess that doesn't change, and comfort yourself, in fact, I don't think this kind of comfort is necessary. Sometimes when you want to be your own hand, you feel that powerless, I think it's still uplifted, positive.

There are times when everyone is like this, and the method I am talking about may not be suitable for you, because everyone is a different individual. I used to encounter a very embarrassing thing when I was in the first year of junior high school, I was very tall, so I sat very far back, but the male and female students in the class were all singular, so I was very unlucky, I was at the same table with a super handsome guy in our class, but once he wanted to pass me out to hand in the papers, I didn't move steadily when I moved the bench, and the chair handle suddenly pressed his ......Well, little brother! At that time, he called out, I quickly turned my head to look, and suddenly saw the drum there, and as a result, I never looked at him since then, and every time I recalled, I would be embarrassed to breathe, but then I tried to think about the good side, and felt that at least he remembered me for the rest of his life!!

In fact, there are some things that you feel embarrassed about, but because this is your business, you will remember it so clearly, others don't have time to worry about others, just like you, you must always remember your own embarrassing things, and you can rarely remember other people's embarrassing things, as long as you don't care or even pretend not to care, this forgetful society will quickly forget the things of the previous second, encourage yourself, I hope you can have good luck, and there is, don't think nonsense!! o(∩_o...Come on.

If it were me, I would feel embarrassed at first, and the more I thought about it, the more embarrassed I became, but after a while, I would slowly think about it, since I had done that kind of embarrassing thing, what was the use of being embarrassed? It's better to be generous and face it calmly! Just pay attention to it later.

Who doesn't have a joke about making people laugh about it, it's nothing.

Everyone has their own embarrassing things, and you yourself feel embarrassed! Then you don't have to think about it, the more you think about it, the more embarrassed you become, you just think that the past is the past, there is no need to think about those who know? mentality!

To face it with a calm mind, maybe others have more embarrassing things? In this way, you will get better, learn to forget, forget everything, and believe that you can do it too1

Now for example, if a person hits a telephone pole on the road because he sees a beautiful woman, you may laugh back and laugh when you see it, but do you think of him when you see the telephone pole afterwards? Think about it from another perspective, no one remembers so many embarrassing things, it's just that you think too much about yourself!

Think of it as fun to relax your mind. You think, life is short, and when you get old in the future, it may be impossible to be embarrassed.

Don't care so much, the more you care, the more uncomfortable it becomes, just let it go.

Be optimistic. Man has to learn to forget.

When we stop rebelling against what has already happened and cannot be changed, we will save energy and create a richer life.

It's all in the past and you're still embarrassed about what to overcome, otherwise it will affect your mentality.

I've also encountered such a thing, as long as I don't care about it anymore, it doesn't matter after a long time, but I must vent it at that time, and the way is to talk to a good friend.

This is a kind of life experience of oneself, and it is a proof of the richness and variety of life.

Remember, life is a challenge, and every hour of the day is like an exam, just want to open up and work hard to do something.

Don't take it personally.

It's a tricky question, but if it's dealt with.

There will be a very good counter-effect, depending on your ability to adapt.

First of all, when you encounter something embarrassing, you should smile moderately, and then, under the cover of a smile, accelerate your thinking about how to deal with it. It's best to seek out new topics, etc., so that people can slowly forget.

It depends on what embarrassing things are, and it doesn't hurt to laugh away.

It's a foregone conclusion, what else can I do...

Time is the great ** division....

Enrich your life and slowly forget about hunger.

Maybe others don't really care.

1.Don't think.

2.Think about some good things with an optimistic and positive attitude, and dilute those embarrassing things

This question is a matter of personal character, and even if you listen to other people's advice no matter how good it is, it may not be appropriate for you.

The best way to avoid embarrassment is not to mention it.

There are so many things that you can say and think about yourself.

There is nothing that cannot be passed, there are people who know each other naturally!!

The past is pulled in the past, time is forward, not backward, the past does not need too many memories, not to mention that it is not a beautiful thing! Why bother to make yourself feel bad, you don't have to live in that awkward time all the time!

In fact, everyone will encounter this kind of thing, people are not saints, maybe everyone was embarrassed at the time, but I believe that many parties have slowly forgotten this matter, do people have to remember this thing for the rest of their lives? Those people just think about it once in a while, just smile! So you don't have to worry too much about many things, life is too short, why bother to affect your mood for unhappy things?

Take it calmly, maybe you will still remember that embarrassing feeling, laugh, and everything will pass!