Marriage is a practice, and marriage is a practice

What is Marriage? Some people say that marriage is a besieged city, and those who are inside want to come out and those who are outside want to go in; Some people say that marriage is a grave, which buries people's beautiful love; Some people say that marriage, if not heaven, is hell; It is also said that marriage is the destination of beautiful love and the pursuit that everyone dreams of.

Although everyone has their own different interpretations of marriage, there are still batches of people in this world who have a longing for a beautiful love - looking forward to a happy and sweet married life, looking forward to the vow of holding hands romantically to the white head, and have entered the palace of marriage.

However, with the passage of time, some husbands and wives who originally thought that love was indestructible were gradually exhausted by unwarranted dissatisfaction, suspicion, quarrels, complaints, betrayals, etc., and in the escalating contradictions, they were overwhelmed and finally chose to part ways.

To love someone who is not related by blood for a lifetime is an extremely profound knowledge. Therefore, a man and a woman in marriage must learn to practice in marriage.

In marriage, "practice" refers to a way of exercising and restraining oneself in order to achieve a certain goal. Whether the marriage is peaceful and long-term depends on the degree of cultivation of both parties or one of them, which refers to the cultivation of marriage, that is, the degree of understanding of one's own and others' desires and psychology, and the ability to reflect, especially the ability to self-adjust and adapt. People with good marriage cultivation are good at controlling their own desires, have different degrees of understanding of themselves, especially their lover's psychology and personality, are emotionally stable, contented and happy, and have a stronger ability to adapt to life, lovers and marriage.

First: the ability to be independent.

When it comes to independence, many women may scoff at it, thinking that marriage is a matter of two people, where can independence come from.

However, we cannot deny that there are many women in marriage who are unhappy because they are not able to be independent, especially because they are not financially independent, which leads to an imbalance in the status of two people in the marriage, so that the marriage is divided into priorities.

Second: there is connotation and thought.

We know that no matter how beautiful a woman is, if she has no connotation and no thought, then she can only be regarded as a "vase".

Third: know how to manage marriage.

Don't think that the word "management" represents "scheming" and "means", which is a blasphemy against marriage and love. It is important to know that couples in a happy marriage, whether intentionally or unintentionally, must act in accordance with the internal laws of marriage.

Knowing how to improve herself, investing in herself, managing her figure, loving her husband very much, and satisfying the emotional value that her husband needs, such a woman has a very happy marriage.

Don't interfere too much with each other's freedom, don't give up all of yourself for the other party, give the other party enough space, and invest in yourself all the time.