In the end, whether to continue to develop or break up with him

See if you want to continue this life, do you like it? If it's just a habit, ask yourself if you want to change it

Love is not limited by anything, including age and money, lifelong happiness is important, from your point of view you can try to date with several men at the same time, and then choose the one that suits you, marriage is just a form of love, you don't be limited by it, don't think about it, find your true love is important, I hope you are happy!

Falling in love is a very simple thing because it's just two people. Marriage, on the other hand, is much more complicated because there are two families involved. Then the people who love each other begin to face the reality ...

In the same way, if you feel that your love is powerless to change your future life, or if you feel that a family is only supported by you alone, and you feel unwilling or whatever, then it may be better to get rid of it early.

Maybe you can communicate with him, tell him your troubles and worries, see if he will understand, so that there is any change, if it is still like this, then it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible...

Nowadays, women are all realities, your marriage problems, even if you don't want to, your family will help you think about it, I think your family will be unhappy with you like this, have you discussed it with your little boyfriend? Have you ever asked about marriage? Have you ever asked about the house?

Have you told your family about him? Did he tell his family about you?

Go ahead, ask all these questions, and you'll have the answers, women can't afford it.

If he doesn't have these plans, forget it, don't be with him, pay attention to the men around you, remember, the main thing is to be satisfied with both families, if not, you won't be happy together!!

And also. Housework, cooking, only if you love him, you will do it willingly. This is not a big problem, of course, occasionally he has to learn to get it for you, cook 2 people together, he gives you a helper so much fun, on the weekend, try to cook with 2 people.

Look at his attitude, my boyfriend is like this, he is also busy with work, I am also considerate, when I cook, he helps me and looks at me from time to time. I am very happy in my heart ...

I'm just giving you advice.,Go and communicate the problem with him.。。 Make your decision again.

This mainly depends on when the state of long-distance relationship can end, and in what time frame can it be really together, if the time is too long or far away, it will definitely not work, because women need daily warmth the most, and there will be too many problems if the two are not together for a long time, not experiencing things together, lack of communication, quarreling at first, and then having nothing to say, so if the long-term long-distance relationship is still a long pain is better than a short pain.

If it's only for a year or two, it's okay to grit your teeth and endure it, I wish you happiness, dingding.

I also think so, long-distance relationships are very hard, whether you care or not depends on the details, and the details determine success or failure.

Tell him this unhappiness bluntly, whether it is to continue to break up and see how he performs next.

Long-distance relationships are all about where the lover is never around when you need it. If you feel that it is hard to persevere, it is better to break up early.

Men are already coarse-hearted, and coupled with a long-distance relationship, the details are even more cloudy.

A long-distance relationship is inherently very hard and requires both parties to maintain it carefully, because it is a long-distance relationship, so you don't know if he is busy over there, and you don't know if he misses you like ......However, if you still have feelings between you and want to be together in the future, then hold on for a while, but if the relationship between you is weak and uncertain about the future, it depends on whether you both want to continue to maintain it, after all, a long-distance relationship can only last for a long time if it becomes a local relationship.

Can he guarantee that he will be back when and on that date you can accept? If you accept it, go on, and if you can't accept it, break up! And I'm most afraid that he has been eeoo, and he can't tell the date for half a day, and finally says that he makes enough money, and when the time is ripe, he and so on!

If I were a woman, I would definitely not be able to stand it, and I am most afraid of this kind of insecure promise!

You care about the details very much, and your boyfriend is cold and indifferent, you must be very painful, just like the heroine of "Addicted to Death" written by Wang Shuo, there should be a lot of contradictions in the future. You first hint to him that you are going to divide it, see if he is sincere, and if not, he will divide it, who is afraid of whom.

I feel that your situation is okay, I and my object are in a long-distance relationship online, he went to the army in December last year, two years, I have been waiting for more than half a year, although it is very hard, although I can only play once a month, but I am very happy, I believe that if love can go through so many tribulations, it will be long.

Either you go to him, or he comes to you, and after a long time, you will slowly lose love, you decide for yourself.

When you're thinking about it, it's a sign that you want to give up on the long-distance relationship. But I understand you very well, girls still need real hugs and warmth.

Let's try to see if you can go to work with him or if he can work with you, so that the problem of long-distance relationship will be solved. If neither of you will give up your current job for the sake of this relationship, then you don't have to be so tired, let go as soon as possible, and find your true happiness again!

I'm also in a long-distance relationship, and I've been in this situation before. When the long-distance relationship first started, it was very difficult and torturous, as you said, two people always missed the **. You say you care about details, but I don't think it's a matter of details.

Because boys are also busy with study, work, and life, sometimes they may miss your ** intentionally or unintentionally, just like you may also miss him, which is also a normal situation. Nor can he be sentenced to death for this reason, and he will not be given a chance.

In fact, long-distance relationships are hard. On the day we chose to embark on the road of long-distance relationship, we had already anticipated the twists and turns of the future, but because we loved that person, we couldn't help it. I don't know about you, but my boyfriend and I can only see each other during the winter and summer vacations.

Long-distance relationships are particularly challenging, and you will experience more trials and problems in the future. If you feel that you love that person very much, and you can bear it no matter how hard it is, just stick to it, because no one can understand the bitterness of a long-distance relationship, but sweetness can also make people forget everything; If you are really afraid of the future and you don't love him that much, you can give up.

For me, no matter how tormented it is to fall in love, it is better to always be better than to fight. Distance will not ruin love, suspicion will. I hope you can find the happiness you want.

The success rate of long-distance relationships is not high, unless there is a good emotional foundation. For feelings, don't push yourself.

If you really love him, and he loves you very much, then you will work hard together to give each other a good future, so that you can live together, love does not continue by sweet words, but by your own heart that loves each other, understanding and communication. If you are of marriage age, consider whether he will come or you will go.

How to say it, my boyfriend and I are also in a different place, and he also has too much time to accompany me, always**, the Internet, I need to do everything by myself, but I have persisted for nearly 3 years, and I am not a sticky person, I can say that I have the same personality as yours, but the relationship is still worth it, then you still need to look at yourself, if you think he is still worth it, then continue, if it is not worth it, separate it, because I have experienced it, this feeling is very tiring, and I am still continuing.

You are not suitable for long-distance relationships, first of all, you don't like to be clingy, but long-distance relationships need to have a sticky, judging from the information you provide, your boyfriend is not too clingy, otherwise you wouldn't be bothered.

But you care about the details, so you're not suitable for a long-distance relationship.

Wait and see, if you're going to fall in love with another guy, break up decisively! Because if you fall in love with another person, it means that you love the second one more, so break up, on the contrary, if you never have it, then you still have him in your heart Time will prove everything, go down the river and hope to adopt.

Then together, it's difficult to maintain a long-distance relationship.

It depends on whether he is sincere to you, my friend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, sometimes I feel very tired and don't want to persevere, but I think about how good he is to me, and finally I persevered, and he decided to come back to work. However, long-distance relationships do make people feel insecure, and if you really love each other, you can let him go back to work in the city where you are.

I feel a little sympathetic to what happened to you. Since there are so many problems, let's go with the flow, breaking up is not someone else's final say, it seems that it can't be solved, as you said you value the other party's view of love, she doesn't meet your requirements, and you will resist in your heart, so you are uneasy. If she can't change her mind and live well with you, you don't have to force it.

Many people say to live realistically, for example, I am a woman who is pragmatic but does not pursue reality, and has done a very realistic thing (separation, breakup), and sometimes I feel as unreal as fog in it, and I can't accept reality. If your family is next to you, they will also give you a very realistic suggestion, let your family be your spiritual "backer", which has more weight than the majority of netizens, because outsiders are easy to say and innocuous because I am like that. Seeking psychological solace online is mostly temporary.

I've been in a state of breakup for a few months, the reason is that I lost to the distance, and I returned to my hometown after many years of harmonious relationship, and sure enough, marriage is a matter of two families. It's the first love, and it's painful to break up, after all, it's not because you don't love that you separate, because you can't bear the fortune telling of your family and mother. I have always been very confused about the future, I have denied my own value, I dare not and do not want to start a new life, because I doubt my steadfastness and attitude all along, and I may think of myself too highly.

If she is still not tolerant enough, she should break up.

In fact, most of the reasons why the two of you always quarrel together is that you can't let go of her before, I think you two quarrel because of a trivial matter, will you inadvertently mention how it was before? Love is two people, everyone has a temper, but it also depends on things, sometimes girls are very sensitive to certain issues, I feel that she is very honest with you, maybe you are too strict. In this way, she has to deal with a lot of things when she is used to being free like this, firewood, rice, oil and salt, and she is also under a lot of pressure, I think if one of you makes a little concession when you two quarrel, it will not be to the point where it is now, oops, I don't know how to say it, anyway, that's it:

1. Tolerate each other, understand each other, and empathize with each other. 2. If you really want to live forever, you must forget her past. 3. A little more love and care will make a woman's cold heart warm up all of a sudden.

In general, if you love her.

It's better for such a woman to break up, she doesn't take you seriously at all, she just plays with you, even if the two of you are really together in the future, your life won't last long.

When you feel that love brings you only tiredness and mental exhaustion, I think it takes a lot of courage to choose to break up.

That's the case, don't continue! Think about your own future, people don't die for themselves!!

Let's go on for a while.........

In a word, love what you choose, choose what you love.

Where there is love, there is pain, and there is no need to continue the pain for so long.

Another point I hope you can understand that loving someone is hard, but being loved is happy.

First of all, I don't want to say that you are a person who looks at appearances, money, to put it simply, reality.

Since you can't let go of him, it's because you left your job in the first place, you think he's not what you want to be, so you broke up, landlord, did you think about your boyfriend when you did this, how sad he would be at that time, many lovers quarreled, the reason is very simple, I think your boyfriend is not as good as others, no one else's is capable, or other, after the breakup, you start to regret it again.

You should do it now, first think about whether the relationship between you will continue, and then think about yourself, if you meet another boy you like, whether you will abandon him this time, and most importantly, what he thinks now.

This question is very simple, as long as you still love him and he loves you, you should cherish everything you have now and love him well, after all, such feelings depend on fate. If you don't love him and feel that his conditions are much worse than what you think in your heart, then be strong, leave him, and pursue your own happiness. I wish you a happy day.

Emotional matters can't be broken casually! You should now understand what you want! The ideal partner doesn't have to be right for you!

Pull into reality, the most sincere and attentive object is the most practical object of life! You can't forget, but you force yourself to forget, rather than boring mediocrity to disturb yourself, it is still the most cost-effective to be happy and happy. Cherish the person in front of you, unless you can guarantee that you can find the person you want and the right fit for you.

Do you know the answer, are you looking for a reason to forget or something else? The answer lies in your heart, and other people's thoughts are always someone else's. Your own ideas are the last thing you have to do.

In fact, you know what you want to do the most, but you can't cross the threshold of that ideal object.