What should I do if I move on or break up 20

Always watching others on stage, performing love.

Always shed their own tears for the love of others.

And I'm just a supporting role in the dance, no one pays attention to.

Use loneliness to set off other people's love, and the performance is someone else's expression.

I finally understood that love is like a model.

That beautiful dress.

Worn on someone else's body, it is always dazzling and beautiful.

Wear it on your body, and it becomes a clown costume.

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

Life is not a good life for one person.

It's how two people live well together.

It's hard for outsiders to help you decide this kind of thing, and you have to rely on yourself. Well, from what you said, you can know that he is a relatively boring person, and of course this can be changed slowly....Besides, you wouldn't be too boring with him, would you? Well, as for work, I think you should find a calm time to communicate...In short, fate is not easy to come by...Think about it for yourself.

You also know that marriage is a lifelong thing after all! So let's think again. Do you really love him?

Or are you worried about your future life? If he loves you, ask him to change himself for you. There is no need to be overly demanding, just to see his efforts.

Love can change everything If he doesn't even try, it's still painful.

I'm also struggling with relationship issues.

At least we have to understand each other, to determine whether we love or not, if two people's hearts are together, there is nothing.

Of course, the reality is cruel, but you always have to deal with (although it is difficult) that the average man who is quiet and quiet is easy to be perceived as "mature" by the other party, but this is not the case.

Talking too much is not necessarily immature.

I found your boyfriend to be a man who pays attention to words.

If I don't describe myself well, I take it to heart, and I feel a blow to my self-esteem and heart.

Introverts are now more self-conscious.

I don't know if he has changed himself, he has always reinvented himself, and if he can change himself, it would be good.

If you blindly don't seek to be motivated and decadent, then it is unforgivable, I think you have not yet reached the point where love is dead and alive, men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, which is true.

We are now in the early stages of taking a good look at your future.

Some things are not as much to look forward to as you think they are, and they are worth waiting for.

From what you described, I know that you still have expectations for him, and if you want to continue, you need to motivate her, encourage him, let him know for himself who he is.

Men also have a vulnerable side.

Don't ignore other people's gossip, don't be gullible about it, and it's good for everyone.

Men will do anything for the woman they love, even more than you think.

I always thought that you told me about it, and I can understand your pain, upset, contradictions, distress, hatred, and sometimes I want to cry without tears

The name of Hai Hai Fu upstairs is really good, "Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man".

I and my former boyfriend have had an awkward relationship over his work, and I have also had a lot of trouble because of his lack of opinion, because there are too many external factors that we can't make it to the end It's not that I choose to give up, it's not that he chooses to let go, and now we occasionally text and get in touch, but we know that it's no longer possible for the two of us Friends say that there will be miracles if we go on like this, and the impossible will be possible

I said so much, I hope you can make the right decision, the future is a matter for the two of you, as long as your parents see that you are doing well, everything will be tolerated, who does not have their own shortcomings, who has not made mistakes, there is no perfect person in the world Sometimes giving each other a chance is also for yourself The most afraid is that you don't give yourself a chance

The man you love will change for his woman, (I have really experienced it, but it is too late by then,) you have to see his efforts, and see him change for you

While giving the other person time, you have to think clearly, do you really want to realize that he really loves you? When you have it, you must learn to cherish it, let it go when you should let go, don't make unwise decisions in a momentary anger, two people can know each other is fate, and getting along is a point

Hey......Look at what you guys wrote. I'm so sad ......

I think a love should be tolerated ......

However, 10 months ago, someone said to me, "You are looking for a boyfriend to protect you and rely on you, if you can't give you anything, why bother?" ”

So, I don't know. It's true.

Think about it......

I don't think I'll marry someone like that.

Because, rely on it......

Talk about it well, break up if you can't integrate Marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't settle down.

Farewell, what's the point?

Breaking up, for most young people, is a chance, someone has only been in love once in their life, that is, marriage; While living in marriage, he began to grope for love; From being single in the mother and fetus to the age of talking about marriage, I met a person who was almost suitable, and I decided to live the rest of my life. There are also some people who have many twists and turns in their relationship, start a new relationship after breaking up, and break up again not long after falling in love; The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, dare to love and hate.

There are also some people who may only need 1 or 2 breakup experiences to consume all their courage and patience; He could no longer fall in love with anyone, and he could not devote all his love. Because of the breakup, he has lost half of his soul. In fact, breaking up is an opportunity for young people; This kind of chance may not have results, but it will be a rare experience in your life.

When you are old, you will feel that this life has been in vain when you recall the love and hate of your youth, and the bravery and romance of your youth. It is very normal to feel sad after a breakup, but how to face a breakup is a difficult problem.

Whether you are 20 or 40 years old, you have the right to pursue love; Whether you're 20 or 40, it's going to be sad when you break up. It's just that ending a relationship at different ages has different ways of coping. Some people spend it easily, and some people need to spend months, or even years, to digest the scars brought by their broken love.

Falling out of love is not a trivial matter, compared to the feelings you yourself experience; But if compared to your long life journey, falling out of love is a small thing, the key is how you look at it. -

02 The way to break up, you should make some decisions, do not procrastinate, decide, and break up, which are some suggestions I give to everyone who has fallen out of love. There is a saying that "long pain is better than short pain".

What awaits you is a long period of pain. Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, the ** of your ex, and the gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.

If you break up, you break up, there is no one else in the world, there are girls, and there are many good men, so it is better to break up early if you can't talk about it, because it is still difficult to get married.

Now that you've broken up, don't think about it, don't drag it out, hold on to what belongs to you, let go if it doesn't belong to you, and be reborn to find your happiness.

If your problem is not resolved, please describe your problem in detail.

After a breakup, I miss each other for a few reasons:

1.Emotional emptiness and loss: After a breakup, people face emotional emptiness and loss.

The other became a part of their lives, accustomed to each other's presence and companionship. After a breakup, the sudden loss of this companionship can lead to feelings of loneliness and emptiness, longing to re-experience the feeling of being loved and cared for.

2.Daily habits and memories: After a breakup, people will miss the daily habits they have established with each other, chain calendars, and shared memories and experiences.

These memories may include time spent together, travel, laughter, mutual support and understanding, etc., and these fond memories may make people feel missed.

3.The traits and qualities of the other person: Each person has their own unique attraction and strengths, and after a breakup, people may miss each other's traits and qualities.

This includes the other person's appearance, personality, IQ, sense of humor, caring and considerate, and so on. These traits can make people feel regrets and misses, and they cannot be easily forgotten.

4.Unfulfilled emotional needs: Sometimes a breakup doesn't mean that the relationship has been completely extinguished, but rather that certain emotional needs have not been met. People may miss each other because they haven't received the love, emotional support, or other satisfaction they crave.

While people miss each other for the above reasons, it takes time to heal and adjust to a breakup so that people can face and accept reality, gear up and gradually re-establish their lives and emotional stability.