The child asks why you gave birth to him, and when the child asks why you gave birth to me

It is normal for children to have curiosity problems, but as parents, it is up to the children to continue their offspring.

The child asked why he was born? Then you should tell him that it is because your parents love each other, you are the crystallization of your parents' love, and you are the continuation of your parents' lives, people are like this.

The child asked why he was born? If he is curious, you can tell him because his mother loves him, and if he is asking because of his troubles, you should ask him about his troubles and help him solve them. Don't let him have this kind of burden.

Why did the child give birth to him, then you can say that because you are your mother's flesh and blood, and your mother loves you very much, so she gave birth to you.

Why did the children give birth to him? That's because we want you to come out into the world to live happily and learn to enjoy the good times in the world.

You can say that because of love, because you love your husband or your wife very much, and you also love this family very much, so let the child be born in a loving family.

Because this is the crystallization of the love of my parents, I will give birth to him.

You should express what you want to say to your child so that it can be explained.

When the child asks why he was born, you should tell him that I gave birth to you so that you can experience the world.

That's what most children ask. He should be told about the love of his mom and dad. Only then will there be you, and you will be in order for us to love you together.

The child asked why he was born, and you said that it was destined by God, not that we could control it.

Summary. When the child asks why you gave birth to me, you can say: to make the family whole.

Although two adults will also live happily, we cannot deny that having children in the family will make it more homely. If the atmosphere of home is compared to the aroma, it is to add a hint of sweet and sour orange flavor to the original rose fragrance. Having a child can officially add a family affection to love, so that the whole family is stronger.

At this time, the husband and wife are no longer just husband and wife, but father and mother in the family.

When the child asks why you gave birth to me, you can say: to make the family whole. Although the two adults will also have a happy celebration, we can't deny that there are children in the family, and there will be more home.

If the atmosphere of home is compared to the aroma, it is to add a hint of sweet and sour orange flavor to the original rose fragrance. With children, you can officially add a piece of family affection to your love, so that the whole family will be stronger. At this time, the husband and wife are no longer just husband and wife, but father and mother in the family.

Dear, do you still have any doubts?

Children should be different at different ages and in different situations when asking, but I think that no matter when this question is, it should be told the truth.

But the first step, don't worry.

Therefore, when he asks this question, parents should think carefully.

A child who lives happily may not think about this problem, he may not think about why he came to this world, why his parents gave birth to him, he will subconsciously feel that this is the way it should be, because he has received enough love.

And "Why did you give birth to me?" Behind this point-in-point, angry language, they are asking: Why can't you love me well when you gave birth to me?

A child who asks such a question does not expect the answers of his parents, because every child will feel his parents' feelings for him very intuitively and honestly, and when he finds that his parents do not love him, he may have been desperate to a certain extent when he asks such a question of soul matter.

We are all people who have grown up from childhood, can you imagine how desperate a child can be if he does not experience the love of his parents? He will first think that it is because he is not good enough, but who wants to really accept such a fact? He hopes to find another reason, maybe it's that my dad is too busy, maybe my mom is too tired, so the question is, if it's their problem, haven't they thought that they won't be able to love me well after giving birth to me?

They are "omnipotent" adults! (In the eyes of children, they prefer to idealize their parents, a need based on safe development, until one day they have no reason to idealize their parents anyway, and before that they would rather feel that they are not good enough to be loved than to destroy the idealization of their parents).

Maybe the parents say, why don't I love him anymore? I give him a lot of food and drink, and I do everything for his good ......

This question is not entangled, it is too complicated, but all parents, the heart that is connected to the child, the most honest and pure feeling in it, will tell him what he is doing to the child, and he also knows what his child wants, because he also grew up from the child. But he doesn't want to see it, and if he doesn't have the strength to face it, there's no way.

So when the child can ask this kind of question, parents should do psychological counseling as soon as possible, the child has already had a traumatic experience, and parents may be treating the child with a traumatic experience that they were not aware of in their early years (or difficult to face directly).

When a child asks this question, and the parent thinks it's okay, you're wrong.

It's better to ask him why he asks such a question at this time.

He will tell you a lot, but maybe not, because you may always be a person who has no patience with him, or a person who is emotionally avoidant and unaware, but it is never too late to start noticing the lack of these parent-child relationships in yourself, because the child will always be there waiting for you to love him.

Yes, he will always be there for you to love him, and it is never too late.

Sometimes, pregnant mothers are suddenly told that there is something wrong with their baby, and under the principle of eugenics, doctors will recommend that mothers can terminate the pregnancy. If it were you and you found out that your child was seriously ill during the prenatal checkup, would you choose to keep him or get rid of him? In the end, whether to keep the children and let them be born smoothly is still to be considered from the following directions:

1. Is there a possibility of the child after birthFor pregnant mothers, if it is found that their child has a congenital disease, the first question to consider is not whether to beat the child, but to ask: Can the child's disease be cured after birth? Therefore, whether the child's disease can be ** has become the primary criterion for mothers to **.

Love the child, even if it is a child who has not yet been born, mothers hope to do their best to continue such a mother-son relationship, and will not give up their children easily. Therefore, if the child's disease is likely to be controlled after birth, mothers will consider keeping the child, even if it comes at a huge financial cost. 2. Whether the family's economic strength allows for a family, in the face of a child with congenital deficiency and a serious illness before birth, the most important consideration is whether the family's economic strength allows us to raise such a child to grow up.

No matter what kind of disease it is, the birth of such a child is bound to be a long-term financial expense for a family. Although it is cruel, we also have to accept the fact that treating the sick brother is really a very expensive thing, and in real life, we have also seen many families in order to treat one person, and the originally wealthy family becomes extremely poor. Therefore, if the family's financial strength does not allow it, then it is necessary to give up the child as soon as possible.

3. Will it affect the child's normal life in the futureThere are many congenital diseases that will bring more obstacles to the child's personal life, so that the child may need to be troubled and tormented by this disease after birth, so as mothers, we should also know how to reduce the pain for the child in time. The birth of a child should be happy and innocent, not a lifelong struggle with disease. If the child's illness is very serious, but it will not affect the daily life, such as some congenital heart disease, or hearing and vision impairment, etc., and the child will not have much impact on the daily life after overcoming, then we have no right to deprive the child of the right to live.

Maybe you are not as good as a normal child after birth, but you can also reap a good life.

You are a gift from nature to your mother, because even if your father and I tease Besang again, it is not you at all, you are the only one. You choose to be a mother's child, and your mother feels very lucky. I don't know what your quarrel with your child provokes your child's questioning.

There is no need for this kind of question, you just have to say, Mother Yamaju thank you for coming to be my child, she will not question you. When the child says this to you, you have to reflect on the fact that you may have hurt the child, after all, the child is the child, and some mistakes are corrected by the parents.

Summary. With you, we will live a very happy life, and with you in the home, it will be more homely.

With you, we will live a very happy life, and with you in the home, it will be more homely.

Mom gave birth to you because Jingliang chose you for your mother, and you chose your mother. Before you were born, you chose your mother in heaven, and you wanted your mother to be your mother, and your mother wanted you to be my baby. So when you fall into the world, it goes into your mother's belly, and your mother gives birth to you, and I become a family.

<> ask people whether they have sons or daughters, and you can say whether you own China Construction Bank or China Merchants Bank, or whether you have a daughter or a son. An infant is a child between the ages of 0 and 11 months. At this stage, the baby's growth and development are particularly rapid and difficult, and it is the most vigorous stage of growth and development in a person's life, weighing about 9kg 10kg.

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