How serious will the practice of flash marriage for the sake of marriage have?

If you get married for the sake of getting married, then it is really easy for two people to have conflicts without an emotional foundation, and in the end, the two people may also go to the point of divorce because of this.

I think the consequences are still very serious, because I didn't get along well with my other half when I got married, so there will be a lot of conflicts in my future life.

The most serious thing is that the family is unhappy and full of contradictions after marriage. The husband's incomprehension, the accusations of the parents-in-law, and all kinds of family pressures are not something that people who marry at will can bear. It is difficult to maintain a marriage without true love and affection.

If the two do not get along well, the possibility of divorce will be very high, which will cause harm to both families.

The practice of marriage and flash marriage is often the end of divorce, so we must be cautious about this kind of marriage.

It should be said that it may lead to a flash marriage, because both parties do not have a particularly clear understanding of each other, and they are too impulsive.

After marriage, the two parties do not love each other, and often quarrel over trivial things, and from time to time they say that each other is not good.

<> is also called flash divorce, that is, the marriage starts very quickly and ends very quickly, and there is no shortage of such examples around. Next, I have sorted out three possible problems with flash marriage, I hope that friends who are considering flash marriage can choose carefully, and consider that marriage is a lifelong thing, and cannot cause tragedy because of impulse and blindness.

1.The two have known each other for a short time, and it is easy not to understand the authenticity of the other party, so they don't know how to deal with it when the two have run-in and deviations.

When two strangers first get to know each other, they will definitely want to leave the best impression on each other, so in the limited contact time, it is easy to disguise themselves as the best person to show each other, and it is easy to compromise themselves in order to cater to others.

There is a saying that people see people's hearts for a long time, so most relationships are generally very beautiful and sweet before three months, everything seems to be the happiest person in the world, but the fact is that each other comes from different family environments, from different experience factors, different personality ideas and thinking, etc., it is destined that there are no two people who are born together, and any relationship that can go to the long term needs to go through the process of running-in and adjustment. What's even more remarkable is when you're not more aware of each other's shortcomings or you may not be able to tolerate the lead parsley years of age once it's time for marriage.

If it is exposed, the price of your run-in will be very high, and it is easy to feel the happiness and security that marriage should bring.

In particular, I need to remind that some people who are accustomed to domestic violence are easy to expose the nature of domestic violence after a flash marriage.

2.Flash marriage may bring about the fact that the two have no emotional foundation and do not have much accumulation and precipitation of trust, so when problems and conflicts occur between the two, it will be easy to have no patience to face and deal with them, so that the frequency of conflicts will be higher, and the possibility of divorce will be higher. Be patient enough to face a thing, not blind.

1. Flash marriage will lead to too big a gap after marriage.

Flash marriages often make you feel a big gap after marriage. Before marriage, you may fall in love at first sight, and the lover's eyes are shih hì. However, after the flash marriage, due to your lack of full knowledge and understanding before, you will find that your partner is not as perfect as you imagined.

Of course, no one is perfect. There is no such thing as a perfect person, and there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. When we face any marriage or relationship, we may face all kinds of blows and all kinds of tests.

The point is that we need to adjust our mentality.

After a flash marriage, if two people can't calmly face the friction in the marriage, then such a marriage will face a lot of unimaginable risks. A flash marriage will cause your relationship to face more tests. How to make your test or difficulties smoothly resolved, so that your marriage crisis can be turned into a danger, this is a science.

You need to weigh it carefully. Flash marriage is not as beautiful as you think, and there may be hidden dangers behind it. In this regard, you must be mentally prepared and able to bear it.

Flash marriage is easy to cause the two to need more run-in after marriage, because you lack a comprehensive and detailed understanding before marriage, so after the flash marriage, you will have a long run-in period like Zheng San. Although Cong Wangran said that feelings need time to cultivate slowly, flash marriage will exacerbate the contradictions and misunderstandings between you. Before flash marriage, you may feel that each other is the partner you are looking for in your life.

After a flash marriage, you will find that the marriage is full of pitfalls and hurdles. You have to go through one hurdle after another, and without a little tacit understanding, it is impossible to achieve long-term peace and stability in marriage.

Therefore, flash marriage will make your relationship face more run-in and test. If you can successfully pass the tempering of marriage and you become a better version of yourself, then this marriage can be regarded as a better existence. If you can't get through the run-in period of flash marriage, in the process of running in with each other, get tired of each other and spurn, then this marriage will inevitably face the risk of disintegration.

You have to know that once you get married in a flash, it means that you may get rid of singleness prematurely. You need more energy and time to deal with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage, eating, drinking, and lazing. You will no longer be a complete version of yourself, and you will not be able to be as free as you are in a single life, and you will go if you want.

After a flash marriage, you will be faced with an important choice in life, and that is when to decide when to have children. You may lose more time enjoying the world as a result. You may keep giving in, constantly giving up the things you once insisted on, such as freedom, such as romance, such as travel, such as love.

You will miss the self before the flash marriage, fearless and courageous.

There are many young people who lack enough understanding of each other, and often make a hasty decision to marry two people after knowing each other for less than a year, or even less than half a year, which is what we often call flash marriage, however, this flash marriage is likely to have some problems in later life, and may even lead to the final breakdown of the relationship between two people.

First of all, a marriage, whether a relationship can be a long-term brother, depends on the couple, whether the two people can be highly compatible in the three views, and for couples who have not been together for a long time, for two people, it is difficult for each other to have a real understanding of their respective three views, if only by virtue of the surface understanding of each other and a momentary dust impulse, choose two people to marry together, then after two people get married, they find that there are too many differences and difficult to adapt to each other. will feel that this marriage brings you not real happiness, but a kind of torment, Zhiliang is likely to cause a rift in the relationship between two people, and even very likely to lead to the final breakdown of the marriage between two people.

So I personally think that for two couples, from the moment they just realized that they decided to get married, two people should get along for at least 2 to 3 years, as the so-called road knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people for a long time, only two people can understand each other for a long enough time, and can finally determine whether each other can achieve general agreement and agreement in terms of three views, so as to slowly run in the feelings between the two people during this time, and see if the two people can really make each other feel comfortable, especially after such a long timeAfter all, no one is perfect, and anyone will have their own shortcomings and shortcomings, and only if they can truly tolerate each other and accept each other, it is one of the important conditions for two people to live for a long time after marriage.

Half a year to a year is enough for a person's basic understanding, including the other party's character, personality, hobbies, family background, outlook on life, values, views on marriage, views on married life, future plans, advantages and disadvantages, etc. Therefore, if the two parties are still together at this time, marriage is the most suitable. After six months to two years, there are more people who get married.

Many people want to forget the hurt they brought before because they were hurt in their last relationship, and then choose to get married quickly. This is not right, if you choose to get married when you are impulsive, it is easy to have problems after marriage.

Generally speaking, for couples with flash marriages, the probability of divorce is also relatively high, and many times it is love at first sight when they meet, and they don't know each other well enough, which is easy to cause a lot of quarrels after a long time. Since you don't know this person yet, you don't know what kind of person he is, if you choose to get married at this time, the consequences may not be something you can afford to sell. Although it is possible that the matchmaker will tell you something about him when he knows each other, it is not necessarily true.

Flash marriages are not uncommon in today's society, and flash marriages are a good thing for those who are very entangled in the choice of partners, but for some people it is not like that.

Flash marriage is easy to form a crisis of trust, flash marriage is like a ripening fruit, although the fruiting period of the fruit is shorter, but it actually reduces the taste of the fruit, the ripening fruit can not withstand long-term preservation, and the same is true for marriage. Flash marriages increase the probability of divorce because it is not enough to know the other party, or the family, at the beginning. Love at first sight is a long-term marriage, and life is not as beautiful as imagined.

Life after marriage is all about some complicated little things, but these little things will change many people, so you have to know clearly that each other can bear the troubles and pressures brought by these lives after flash marriage?

The "flash marriage" of marriage reduces the quality of its fruit, and more importantly, the fruit produced in this way is quite unpreserved for time, and rots much earlier than the fruit that ripens naturally. The disadvantage of flash marriage: couples have no emotional foundation. So Zheng teased that the flash marriage, in fact, the two knew each other for a very short time, and both parties did not have enough understanding and cognition of each other.

Whether the two parties understand each other, the handling of family relations after marriage, and the two parties are together without running-in, so the views on some broken things in life.