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When I found out that my husband was a mom boy.
I don't think you can easily choose to divorce the other party, many times you can make a person change, you can't divorce just because the other party is a mother's boy, and you should also give the other party a chance to change.
Many women are disgusted with mom bao men, because such men have no ideas and opinions of their own, and being with such a man is like living with the other party's mother, which will be more uncomfortable. Although I found out that my husband is a mother's boy, since the two people are married, they should consider it carefully and give each other a chance to change, I believe that if the other party loves him enough, he will change for himself.
Marriage is not so simple, if you encounter something and choose to use divorce to escape the problem, this will definitely not achieve happiness. Now that he has found out that the other party is a mother's treasure man, at this time, he needs to be able to get along with each other to help him escape from his mother's control, so that he can complete things independently and become a responsible man. I think that when you encounter something, you should give each other's marriage a chance, and if you don't work hard, you will never know the result, and don't beat each other to death with a single stroke.
When I chose to marry the other party, I must have made up my mind, and I was willing to choose such a result when I saw the other party's good to me. Think more about the experience of two people before marriage, and don't choose to divorce because of this matter, otherwise you won't meet someone who loves you more.
Ma Bao Nan is indeed unpopular, but you can't divorce the other party immediately because your husband is Ma Bao Nan, which is a reflection of your irresponsibility to yourself and the other party. When you encounter things in your marriage, you should solve them well, rather than choosing to solve them by divorce, so that treating the symptoms will not solve any practical problems at all, and you are sacrificing your own happiness.
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Yes, because such a person has no bottom line, no principles, no judgment, and needs to consult his mother's opinion to do things, and it is easy to be wronged as his wife.
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Yes, you must divorce as soon as possible, because such a person will not be able to protect you at all, and then you will be wronged.
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You can't divorce just because your husband is a mother's boy, marriage is not child's play. You can communicate with your husband first and ask him to change this problem, as long as he doesn't do anything very excessive, let's live well, marriage is to be managed, not impulsive.
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In this case, I will choose to divorce, because there are many harms of Ma Bao man, and the man has to listen to his mother for a little thing, regardless of his own feelings, he will let himself be wronged.
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I won't choose to divorce, because after all, I'm married, everyone has more or less shortcomings, and we should tolerate him.
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I will, mom bao man is very addictive, sometimes getting along with such a person will make you very stressed, and it will make you very angry.
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My opinion is that once you are married, you should not mention divorce lightly, but first look to see if there are other ways to solve the problem. According to your title, you should have not been married for a long time, and you are still in the run-in period with each other, and you still need to know more about each other. Maybe your husband and his mother have always been just because of the deep relationship between mother and son, and it must be a bit difficult to keep them at a distance at this time.
When a woman gets married, she and her mother-in-law and husband immediately become a triangular relationship. So, you'll have to dig a little deeper to see if there's room for manoeuvre. Besides, since you found out that your husband is a mom boy after you got married, it at least shows that your relationship period has come through independently.
It also proves that your husband has his own independent thinking and independent behavior without his mother by his side.
Tell him what is in your heart. You have to make him understand that you are in charge of your own affairs and that you don't rely too much on his mother. You also make it clear to him that the intimacy between their mother and son makes you uncomfortable, and you hope that he will take your feelings into account.
If your husband listens to you, he will naturally start to pay attention to what he says and does. If he's willing to work hard to improve himself, and his mother sticks like kraft candy, then you can consider moving out and living alone.
When communicating with your husband, you must not insist that he and his mother must keep their distance. Because the relationship between mother and child is unlimited, and it is also continuous. And all you need to do is help your husband slowly break away from his mother and live an independent life with you.
Moreover, no matter how independent your life is, you must also have his mother in your life circle.
Everyone walks into marriage with a beautiful vision, thinking that they will find a lifetime of happiness when they get married. In fact, getting married is just the first stop that starts the dream of beauty. Later, what awaits us is the real ups and downs.
All the gains are not easy, let's not give up easily, the outcome of hard work may be an unexpected surprise.
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chose to divorce decisively, marriage is a matter of two people, and Ma Bao Nan is equivalent to needing his mother's intervention in everything.
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It is necessary to divorce decisively, this man does not know how to feel sorry for himself at all, he will only listen to his mother's opinion.
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It should be divorced decisively, the other party is a mom boy, so he will not face himself at any time, and the last two people will also separate, it is only a matter of time.
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Since two people choose to form a new family, they should take on their responsibilities and responsibilities, work hard to manage their married life, and let happiness always surround them. But in real life, my husband often talks about divorce, and he says everything to his parents, is this a mom boy?
The first one, often talking about divorce, shows that marriage is regarded as child's play, and it also reflects that this man does not have any responsibilities and responsibilities.
When two people choose to get married, they hope to be able to hold the hand of their son, grow old with their son, and hope to be able to work at sunrise and rest at sunset, and be able to be by each other's side all the time. However, his other half often talks about divorce in marriage, and when something unsatisfactory happens, two people quarrel, and they will have fierce conflicts on the topic of divorce. Often such a man also shows that he does not have a serious and responsible attitude towards marriage, regards marriage as child's play, and does not understand the true meaning of marriage.
If the other half of the marriage always threatens himself with divorce, then such a marriage must think carefully and make the right choice in time.
The second is to tell his parents everything, without his own opinions, such a man is undoubtedly a mother's treasure man.
After getting married, two people should face the wind and rain of the future together, and discuss the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life together. If your other half in the marriage says everything to your parents, does not discuss with yourself, and blindly listens to the opinions of your parents, this also shows that this man has no own opinions, and does not integrate his wife into the family, such a man is undoubtedly a mother's treasure man.
Marriage is a major event in life, and it is also a major decision, so when choosing a marriage partner, you must carefully investigate and understand it, which is responsible for your marriage and a guarantee for your future life.
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I want to advise all girls here, run away when you meet Ma Bao Nan, and don't think that you can change them after being together for a long time
The reason why I say this is because I have seen too many and heard too many examples after being with Ma Bao Nan, among which the unfortunate ones account for the vast majority, and the luck and misfortune most likely depend on the man's mother, if the mother is a very reasonable and reasonable woman, the relationship between the two people will not be too bad; But if the man's mother is not a good child, there will definitely be no way for the two of them to fall in love or live a good life. <>
The most direct way to judge whether your husband is a mom Bao Nan is to see if he listens to his mother for everything, if it's just the right thing to listen to the old man, I think it's okay,The main thing is that Ma Bao Nan belongs to no matter whether it is good or bad, there is no subjective opinion of his own,Everything is a matter ofHis mother told him to do whatever he wanted, and this is the one that makes people angry the most. <>
Like the situation you're experiencing right nowYou's husband often says divorce in front of you, and I feel that this man is not worth entrusting based on this aloneAfter all, how can such a serious thing as divorce be said casually, if you say too much, you will really take it seriously, and I don't recognize this point when he says everything to his parents, I think there will definitely be something bad about the husband and wife, and when you talk to your parents, you should say as good as possible, and you can know what is not good, but the problem will change when you talk to your parents. As for whether your husband is a mom or not, I think it's completely true, just telling them doesn't mean that he will obey them in everything. <>
I can understand your current entanglement, you may think that the reason why your husband often asks you for divorce is because they are instructed by their parents, because they want you to divorce you and that's why they are like this, but I think you should not speculate too much now, don't directly deny your mother-in-law and father-in-law, maybe they will educate your son when he talks about things! So you should find an opportunity to talk to your husband about this now, and don't let him tell his elders everythingYoung people's affairs should be solved by young people themselves, and in most cases, the intervention of elders will only make things worse.
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I don't think that's counted, because he just confides in his parents for these words, and he doesn't listen to his parents for anything. Ma Bao men are generally not assertive, like to listen to their parents, and will not consider your feelings.
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It's a mom boy, and your husband is also very impulsive, not very mature in the relationship, and has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband.
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Yes. Because this is a typical performance of Ma Bao Nan, and he lacks assertiveness, I think this is Ma Bao Nan.
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This situation depends on people, if you can accept it, you won't leave, if you can't accept it, if I encounter this situation, I will leave, I think it's a matter of two people, it's not good for parents to mix, of course, honoring parents is what you should.
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Kiss, first of all, before we don't know what is going on in the wild, we will definitely not draw conclusions about who is right and who is wrong, but from the perspective of your husband choosing to divorce you for the sake of his mother, from this point of view, I think his feelings for you must not be as deep as his parents, on the one hand, it may be that he himself feels that his mother is doing the right thing, and his, his heart is more biased towards his mother's side, on the other hand, Zheng Sun may be his parents to blackmail him, that is, to force him to divorce you, he has to make a choice, so it depends on what kind of situation it is. But all in all, I think it's more about what your attitude is, whether you have the relevant will, and then make a decision <>
Yes, if you truly love each other, you will be able to stand the test of time. While I am still young, I will work hard for a few more years, and I will earn enough money to honor my parents, and it is not too late to remarry, I love my parents and want to honor them, I will not get married very early, unless he is very rich, I think so.
Do mold work first, save some money, learn it, and improve yourself, you will be more promising.
First of all, that girl is still so young, he is not sensible, plus you and your dad are a sudden "episode" in his life, so you don't have to worry too much about these, I believe that when she grows up, she will understand your father's love for her, she is a girl after all, you can rest assured, when she grows up, her attitude towards her father will definitely come to a 180-degree turn! I wish you a happy family!
It depends on the seriousness of the matter, and if it doesn't violate the principle, don't get a divorce, and don't divorce easily.
Actually, you yourself know a lot of truths that can solve your current predicament, don't you? All you need is someone to affirm you, and that's what I'm really going to say to you. >>>More