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1. After experiencing the first failed marriage, both parties will have higher requirements for their other half, understand what they want and what they don't want, and have higher psychological requirements.
2. If the three views and cognitions of both parties are not at a unified level, then it is impossible to choose a second marriage.
3. To be a husband and wife must be after thinking twice, if you can't do it with heart for heart, then what is a husband and wife?
4. Marriage is the choice of two people, and they can only come together if they have each other in their hearts.
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Absolutely! The premise is that you don't treat each other as a "second marriage"! Once you define your relationship in your head, it means that you have divided your marriage into a "good and bad class".
In fact, the first marriage and the second marriage are essentially marriages, and they are both intimate relationships between two people, so if it is true love, let alone being able to "exchange hearts for hearts", it is no problem to "exchange lives for lives". However, why are many "second-married couples" more likely to be "half-hearted" and unable to be "single-minded"? That's because they had the psychology of "bartering" before they got married, that is, the purpose of establishing a marriage again was very realistic and utilitarian, just to live together, and the emotional foundation was very poor.
Then, remarriage is the same as first marriage, if you want to have a smooth relationship and treat each other sincerely, there is a rule to follow:
1.Keep your eyes open in love, find a suitable partner for yourself, and avoid the "pit" of unhappiness in marriage;
2.Two people must have appreciation and love, which is the basis for resisting all risks in the future;
3.Open yourself, let go of the past, and improve your ability to manage your marriage;
4.Able to properly resolve and coordinate the relationship between the parties and their ex-children;
5.Economic independence and spiritual freedom make this marriage achieve the effect of 1+1>2;
6.Don't look up to each other and don't look down on yourself, be equal and respectful in the relationship.
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Hello, it is actually very difficult for two people to marry for the second time and then start a family, if there are no children, it is better, if each has children, then in the matter of children, it will never be possible to sincerely exchange hearts for hearts, because people are selfish, and they all hope that their flesh and blood can live better. But as long as you negotiate these matters well, be fair, impartial, and deal with the contradictions in the family, you can also love each other and treat each other with true affection under the conditions of equality and respect.
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Second-married couples can also do heart-to-heart, as long as they truly love each other, they must respect each other, trust each other, and understand each other.
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It is difficult to do, especially in the case of a second marriage with children, it is easier to create estrangement, after all, their actions and motives are for their own children
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Yes. But it's hard. Because the first love and the first marriage are difficult to forget.
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If the first marriage can be heart-to-heart, there will be no second marriage.
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In fact, I think the focus of this question is not whether it is a second marriage or not, but the important issue is the way the husband and wife get along with each other and the compatibility of your life. It does not mean that the second marriage has a problem with each other, and they can't see through each other in this life, many first marriages, find that love and marriage are two concepts, and they can't stand the love and can't stand the firewood, rice, oil and salt.
But after the divorce, accept the reality and find a suitable one, understand oneself, and have a relatively high degree of fit. Then we face our feelings and life again, just like normal. Everyone has the right to choose their own life and the qualification to have love, everyone is a person with a story, there is no need to explore too much past experiences and pain, how to grasp each other and the present, and look forward to the future is the most important.
In fact, according to relevant research, the happiness rate of reconstituted families is relatively higher, and after experiencing many failures and setbacks, they are more realistic and know how to cherish the people in front of them.
Heart-to-heart, but if you, as a woman, prefer to be more independent and don't rely too much on men, who are the only ones in your life. We must have our own ideas, change the previous vulgar ideas of grabbing a man's heart, how to improve ourselves, make our charm value continuous, constantly enrich ourselves, increase added value, and become an excellent woman behind every man. In this way, not only will it not be up to the man to decide the life, but it will improve the quality of life and the happiness index.
And if you, as a man, hope that you can take more care of women's hearts and thoughts, it is normal for a second-married woman to lack a sense of security in the early stage, trust her to pay more attention to her, and spend more effort to manage your feelings, which is also a good choice. Because women can really help you with big trivial matters. does not discriminate against one party, but in the family, only by turning yourself into a mellow can you go on better, be more tolerant, and take responsibility for your own obligations and responsibilities.
The second marriage is not your contradiction, comparing your heart to your heart is not a matter of worry, it is important to communicate!
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Even if your second marriage is very good together and the relationship is very harmonious, but in fact, as long as it involves a very important decision, there is still a trace of distrust. However, there are many people who say that many people get married for the first time, they don't meet the right person, they get married in a hurry, and then they find that they are not happy or happy, and then they get divorced. When you get married for the second time, is it really not trusted, so is it necessary to get married again?
In fact, sometimes we don't have to think too long-term, and we don't know what will happen in the next moment in the world.
We just need to do what we have to do at the moment. As long as you feel that he gives you a good feeling when you get married for the second time, the two of you can get along well, and you don't really want that kind of vigorous love, just want a plain and long-term life. So at this time, it is actually good to choose to get married, as long as you take the initiative to avoid suspicion when making very important matters and decisions, you have to reassure him, let him know that you are not a threat to him, and the relationship between you at this time should be very smooth and stable.
Although a lot of the real situation is really sad, sometimes life has to go on. Not only in the second marriage, but even if it is the first marriage, it is the person you once loved vigorously, and there will be some distrust between you. Therefore, there are very few people in this world who believe in you unconditionally.
What you have to do is not to let others believe in you unconditionally when something happens, but to let yourself slowly grow stronger, let yourself slowly learn more things, and become more successful. When something happens, you have the ability to prove your innocence, you have the ability to make him have to believe you. Although there is not much emotional trust between you, sometimes it is very pleasant to give in physically.
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The first reason: second-married women treat the purpose of marriage more realistically and don't want to believe in love.
We have to admit that some second-married women may not simply want to pursue love, but more often just to find a partner, so that they can have someone to talk to in their future life, and they can have someone to accompany them when they encounter some trouble. If you can find a man whose economic conditions are relatively good, then at least you can maintain your own life.
may be because I have made clear my goal for marriage, my pursuit of love is not so strong, and I don't believe in the so-called beautiful promises. As long as the basic conditions of the man in all aspects can meet his own requirements, then he can consider marrying this man. Especially some women who still live with their children after divorce, forced by the helplessness of life, they may have no time to pursue the so-called romantic love, and only want to find a good home for themselves and their children.
Some women think that they must marry love, even if the man they love is not yet able to meet their requirements for life, they can still firmly choose to marry him. But such a situation is not easy to appear in a second-married woman, because the woman has already failed once, and she does not want to take the risk of losing everything again, after all, she has no capital to overthrow everything and start over.
Even if there is no love, you can become a husband and wife, and you can live together even if you have no emotional foundation, but this kind of love without an emotional foundation will make people vigilant, and the purpose of a woman's marriage is too realistic, but it will make the man feel estranged, and it will be difficult for the husband and wife to have a heart-to-heart relationship.
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Answer: To do heart-to-heart, then both of them must be reasonable, have the spirit of dedication, dare to suffer losses, deal with others, and be able to think about others.
The most important point is that both of them have very kind personalities. No matter what happens at home, keep a fair and just heart, be open and transparent, and discuss together.
Only with the above conditions can the second marriage be able to exchange heart for heart, otherwise heart for heart can only be an empty word, because it is difficult for second marriage couples to deal with and set up children on both sides.
In short, second-married couples are not good and not concentric.
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Second-married couples will be relatively more cautious about getting married, and with the lessons learned from the previous time, after the second marriage, they can understand each other better and know how to manage their marriage.
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It's better if you don't have children.
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If it's true love, it's fine.
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I think so.
If you want to live happily in the first and second marriages, your attitude towards each other's children should be consistent, not distinguishing between each other, not partiality, so that the children can feel love and warmth, and the family atmosphere will be warm, which is more conducive to the warming of the couple's feelings. Although it is a bit difficult to regard the other party's children as already out, it is necessary to think about the difficulty of marriage, the children are innocent, and in order to be happy, some things must be accepted in order to get more. If you can't make up your mind about how to deal with it, you can talk to your partner about how to deal with the child's problem, so that you can know each other's hearts, and the discussed solution is more acceptable to the child.
Second, people who enter marriage again have the experience of a failed marriage, more or less hurt, and their hearts instinctively desire to have a happy marriage, but the defense mechanism will make them tighten their inner strings, unwilling to trust the other half easily, and dare not give without reservation.
In getting along, each other will test each other, and will be overly reserved in terms of money in order to retain their own interests.
However, for second-time couples, the most important thing is the mutual trust between the two people.
3. Remarried men and women who reorganize their families cannot avoid having contact with their ex, and it is easy for their partners to have opinions if they are not handled well.
In order to avoid making their partner angry and sneaking in when contacting their ex for the sake of their children, some people make their partner more thoughtful, feel that they are not cared about and have no right to speak, and there will be conflicts.
Some exs deliberately contact their ex-husbands (wives) to destroy the relationship between husband and wife, but some people can't see it, maybe they enjoy this ambiguity in their hearts and pretend not to know, and they have two hearts for their re-partner.
Thanks for the thumbs up!
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Most second-married couples can't do heart-to-heart, second-married couples are combined in order to rely on each other, pay more attention to reality, and there are not many second-married couples who can do heart-to-heart.
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I think of course this is possible, as long as you are a husband and wife who treat each other sincerely, care for each other, and understand each other, you can do it.
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There are too few second-married couples who can do heart-to-heart, and most of them can't do it, because they each have children, so they are each hiding a little cautious.
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Although the second couple can also do heart-to-heart, but such is still a relatively minority, most of them may still have a certain estrangement, the main problem is that they have before they have it, so if they start a family, they will more or less consider the factors of their own children.
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Second-married couples can do heart-to-heart, as long as they treat each other with sincerity, put each other's warmth and well-being in their hearts, and regard each other's burden as their own burden, then it is not difficult to do it.
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Can second-married couples exchange hearts for hearts? Personally, I think that as long as two people truly love each other, even if they are second-married couples, they can exchange hearts for hearts, and they can also be sincerely relative. As long as you can be honest with each other.
I believe that the other person can feel it. Whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, as long as two people treat each other sincerely, they can understand each other. I believe it is possible to exchange hearts for hearts.
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99% of second-married couples cannot exchange hearts for hearts. Second-married couples, especially girls, are holding the idea of letting each other help them through economic difficulties, as a free long-term job to help raise children, buy a car for their children, buy a house, and marry a daughter-in-law, so that they can make do with their lives, otherwise they will not get married for the second time. Second-married couples can only do it in TV dramas.
Who do second-married men love more? You ask this question, if you don't think he loves you enough, why do you choose a second marriage? If you choose a second marriage, there must be something you like
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