Why can t remarried couples last long? Why?

Couples who remarry will not be able to last long because of children and financial problems, and the main problem is that both people have been married to each other before, and the relationship is relatively complicated. There are many people who are still in the litigation stage, and they are always inextricably linked with their predecessors. Although it is true that the divorce is nominally divorced, there are still some things that have not been dealt with in life, such as the issue of child support, if the child is left with him to raise him, the other party will have to pay child support.

There are some people who are not punctual when paying child support, so they will delay the payment of fees, and the two parties will have some entanglements. There are also mothers-in-law and daughters-in

The relationship between the two cannot be ignored, and it will only make the remarried couple feel particularly troublesome, so let's find out in detail!

First, why can't remarried couples last long?

The reason why it can't last long is because the two of them have their own hearts, both fight for the interests of their children, and want the children to get the best care. Some people are more short-tempered, their own children are like this, not to mention the children of their partners, although they love their partners very much, and the two of them have also spent a sweet period, and it is impossible to have so much patience every day after marriage. When they see that the other party's child is disobedient, they will also come out to scold, and the other party will definitely feel very uncomfortable, and it will not be the case if it is a biological parent.

Second, the reason is **?

It is mainly due to economic and family conflicts, and most of the remarried families have more problems. Some remarried couples even have an AA system, they don't want the other party to interfere in their own economy, and the money in the bank is not public, and their purpose is very obvious. It's not really for love, it's just for the child to have a nominal father or mother.

In fact, this is extremely sad, children under the long-term family edification, will only think that their parents are particularly scheming, and they will also live unhappy.

In short, marriage needs to be managed well, and those who remarry also need courage, and it is not easy to get to this point. We should persist a little longer, and only by solving the current problems can we go in the long run.

Because after they remarry, they will also think of their previous conflicts, and when they quarrel again, they will be insecure, and they will not give their hearts to each other very easily; The reason is that because they are too familiar with each other and know each other too well, they will feel that it is difficult for each other to change, so the relationship will not last long.

Because remarried couples all think about each other, each for their own good, they will not be honest with each other, they both hide some careful thoughts, and they are very selfish, which is why they can't last long.

I think it may be that both parties have their own children, so there will inevitably be friction when they are reunited, and the two people may have their own thoughts, and the love is not so pure.

I don't think there is love between people for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason.

If the child is well-behaved and sensible, does not act in heaven and earth, and does not reject adults unreasonably, I think he should love it too! If the parents really have a good relationship, then the other party will also tolerate your child.

But now there are many people who remarry, not to find a partner for themselves, but to find a mother or father for their children, I think the motive itself is not pure, remarry with such a mentality, the expectations of the other half of the attitude towards your children are too high, if the other party does not meet your expectations, you will definitely be disappointed, and the contradiction will naturally arise.

Personally, I think that no matter whether a man or a woman wants to remarry, there is no reason to force the other half to do something to your child, your child has his own parents, if his own parents can't love him well, he has to throw the pot of love for the child to the stepfather and stepmother, making it clear that defeat is a moral kidnapping.

Of course, if both parents have feelings and love each other very much, how can the other half be bad to your child? And such a small child is also very sincere, as long as the adult can pay sincerely, the relationship should not be very difficult, I am afraid that the adult will set limits for himself, if you suspect that others will not be good to your child at the beginning, in such a heart hint, even if you find a kind person, the result is not better.

Of course, you can, but the most important thing is to trust, not to be suspicious of each other, to be honest with each other, so that you can love each other.

This must be there, otherwise I wouldn't remarry.

I feel that it is the psychology of the child and yourself, you must forget the past, welcome the new life with the greatest enthusiasm, face the child, whether it is biological or not, all the same, give them the greatest love, and they will also give you the greatest love, and you will be happy.

1.Acceptable to your child. 2.From living expenses, to the marriage of children in the future.

For those who remarry, how to deal with the relationship with the other person's children has a significant impact on whether the marriage can be happy. ......For a person who remarries, since he has chosen the other party, he must accept everything from the other party. Therefore, people who remarry should love each other's children.

First of all, the feelings between family members can only be harmonious if they love each other's children.

The affection between family members is the most crucial factor in maintaining family harmony. ......If you don't love each other's children, your feelings for each other will be affected, and your marriage will not be happy. ......Therefore, it is necessary to love each other's children in the future.

Secondly, loving each other's children can make life more harmonious.

An important prerequisite for a harmonious life is a harmonious relationship between family members. ......If you don't love each other's children, family harmony will not be realized, and life after remarriage will not be happy. ...Therefore, Brother Zheng, in order to live a happy life after remarriage, he must love each other's children.

In the end, love each other's children, so that the family can truly not distinguish each other.

If you don't love each other's children, the relationship between yourself and the other party will not reach the level of talking about marriage. ......Only when you love each other's children can you truly reach the level where the family does not distinguish between each other, and you can truly reap love and happiness after remarriage.

To sum up, only by loving each other's children can one's remarriage be possible, and one's filial piety can reap happiness. Therefore, the person who remarries must love each other's children.

I wonder if remarried couples can be happy? The most important thing is to see if two people can tolerate each other and understand more?

Remarried couples generally have more conflicts than first-married couples, the first is the economic aspect, if two people each have a child brought over, then they must have their own ghosts, always feel that the other party is not good enough for their children, and then secretly hide the money. Especially men, because after experiencing a failed marriage, will regard money as more important than anything else, they are afraid that this woman will run away with the money. Then this woman will feel that if you don't even give me the money for safekeeping, this is a distrust of me.

What's the point of me living with you, it's better than that, then this marriage is likely to fail again.

The second is the issue of education, because the other party's child is not your own, you can't beat or scold, but if you don't educate, you can't. In addition, the two children, there is no blood relationship, it is impossible to get along with the same brothers and sisters, if there is any conflict, the parents do not handle it well, this is very embarrassing, and the two people are prone to have relatively large differences on the issue of children. It is very difficult to be a stepfather or stepmother, and this sense of proportion is very good.

There is also the relationship between two adults, and some people may have a great sense of trust in each other after experiencing a relationship. may compare the current husband with the ex-husband, and feel that he has done nothing wrong, but the other party thinks that since your predecessor is so good, why do you still marry me?

So I think that if you choose the other party, then you must choose to accept the other person's child, and you must treat other people's children as if they were your own biological children. And don't be suspicious of the other person, you must trust the other person and give him more love. But when choosing a second marriage, many things have to be considered, you have already chosen the wrong one, don't choose the wrong second time.

Remarried couples will definitely be happy, as long as they have the right mentality, treat each other sincerely, be considerate of each other, tolerate and respect, they will definitely be happy.

I don't think we should think that remarriage will determine that the marriage is unhappy, because maybe the first marriage is unhappy, then the second marriage proves that the two are suitable, and then we will remarry, and the married life is not necessarily unhappy, maybe the second marriage will bring real happiness.

Yes, as long as two people treat each other sincerely, consult each other in everything, care about each other's feelings, tolerate each other, and accommodate each other, the marriage can still be happy.

Concern. Now there are more and more second-married families, and the second marriage should be very happy in our concept, because both of them are people who have experienced hurt and been hurt, and they should know how to cherish each other's current family, but why are many second-married families unhappy? is called a "partner couple" by others, and the only name is better than "dew couple", in fact, some married life is not as good as dew couples.

Couples who are not second-married families do not want to be happy, and they face too many problems, pressures, and resistances. This is much harder than dizziness, it's not that you can be happy if you want to be happy, it's not what you want to get, so if you want to be happy in the second marriage, both husband and wife must do the following things to be happier and happier:

1. Be open to each other.

Don't always close your feelings in the depths of your heart because you have been hurt, and live with numbness and improvisation for your second marriage.

2. Cherish and care for each other.

No matter what happened before, the most important thing is to cherish each other now and care about each other's lives and health.

3. Don't hurt the other person again.

The heart that has been hurt is very sensitive, and you should consider the other person's feelings when you speak and do things, and don't just care about your own happiness and not notice that you have hurt the other person.

4. Economic transparency.

Many second-married couples have the phenomenon of hiding their secrets, no matter what you are from, but your behavior is a taboo in husband and wife, which means that I don't believe you, I doubt you, I want to leave a way back for myself, second-married couples should be economic and transparent, so that there will be centripetal force between husband and wife, there is a common language, and trust in each other can be established.

5. Draw a line with your ex-wife or ex-husband.

6. Treat each other's children as "godsons and daughters".

Children are the biggest obstacle and resistance in the second marriage, why is Lu Aqiu a godson and goddaughter here? If you want to be a son and a daughter, I don't think you can do it, you change your mentality as a godson and a goddaughter, you are the nominal "parents" of the child, your contribution will give you a sense of balance in your heart, so that you will win the enviable second marriage, you will be happier and happier, and the other party will cherish you more and more and cherish you.