Is it reasonable for a 40 year old rural woman to ask for a bride price of 80,000 yuan for remarriag

A 40-year-old rural woman remarried and asked for a bride price of 80,000 yuan.

If the husband's family is poor, then this bride price is not necessary, it is not appropriate to have so much bride price if it is so difficult, if the future husband's family is richer and can afford 80,000 yuan, then it doesn't hurt to ask for it, the bride price shows the importance of the future daughter-in-law, even if it is a 40-year-old rural woman, it cannot be said that it discriminates against people because of age.

The bride price is the tradition of Chinese marriage, generally speaking, the higher the bride price represents the more important the in-laws pay to their future daughter-in-law, which also reflects an attitude of the future in-laws, if you say that they are not willing to take the bride price, then you may have to think about it, if there is really no money then it is okay, the most afraid is that there is money and is not willing to take, I think such a family is not happy to marry in the past, and it is not a huge bride price, the daughter-in-law has to push back and forth, then the mother-in-law is too picky.

Now the bride price seems to have become a fixed number, I remember that many places in Henan are particularly heavy bride price, is the kind of whether you have money or not, anyway, you have to follow the local rules, there is not so much bride price will not get married, resulting in a lot of families with sons in order to marry their sons are smashing pots and selling iron, bankrupt, a lot of loans, and then wait until the daughter-in-law enters the door and then work to repay, I think this is actually unnecessary, marriage is originally a good marriage with two surnames, The bride price is given as much as you can, and there is no need to say that it has to be an astronomical amount.

But I don't think it's appropriate to have no bride price, many mothers-in-law will feel that their daughter-in-law is very "cheap", don't want a bride price to marry in, many mothers-in-law will not be good to their daughter-in-law because of their daughter-in-law's sensibility, but they will feel that their son is very powerful, see if they marry their daughter-in-law home without spending a penny, so the bride price can not be saved, as for how much, it can be agreed according to the family conditions of both parties.

Reasonable, of course. Because the bride price in the countryside is very high now. 80,000 is also very normal.

It's a bit unreasonable, because after all, my conditions are not particularly good, my age is already very old, and I am remarried, so I should appropriately reduce my bride price.

Reasonable, because the amount of the bride price determines the value of the woman, and it also represents the importance of the other party.

Of course it is. No matter how old you are, as long as you marry, the other party should give a bride price, which is a matter of etiquette.

is very reasonable, although it is already the second marriage, but he will be handed over to this man for the rest of his life, and the payment to the family is more than the 80,000 yuan, so the sense of ceremony that should be given to the woman should still be given.

Reasonable, not a lot, no matter how old she is, you are willing to give it because you care about her, so she definitely needs a certain bride price.

I think it's unreasonable, the bride price is just a number, how much is not important, it should be considered according to your own conditions and the other party's conditions, I think this requirement is too high, you should consider carefully.

It's not suitable, because a 40-year-old rural woman may already have children, so it's too much to ask for a bride price of 80,000 yuan when she gets married again, and no one will want him.

Reasonable, because the current bride price is very high, and if you want to marry a daughter-in-law, you will take out all your belongings, and 80,000 is not much.

It is very reasonable, although it is a second marriage, it also needs to be valued, and this bride price is not very high, which can also show the attitude of the man's family.

If the man is a rich man, the 80,000 bride price is not too little, and if the rural woman is very good, the 80,000 bride price is also worth it.

I don't think it makes sense at all. First of all, let's not talk about anything else. You need 80,000 yuan for your second marriage, and everyone in the world has it.

It is very reasonable, because the current bride price is so high, and even if it is remarried, it is still married, and the bride price must be changed.

It's quite reasonable, you can't deny the other party's wedding value because it is someone else's second marriage, this still depends on the feelings of both parties.

It is very appropriate to ask for a bride price of 80,000 yuan for marriage, and a woman of this age is married home by someone else, just to let you help them cook and wash clothes, and this money is a guarantee for yourself.

It is unreasonable, because such a situation is completely out of step with the status quo and can easily create a class burden.

I think it's unreasonable, I think the bride price is a bit high, and many young people don't get married to reach this number.

As long as the man is willing to give and the woman is willing to receive, there is no unreasonable statement. However, men and women who are married for the second time, in addition to looking at money, should also consider whether both parties are suitable and whether they can live together through thick and thin.

It's very unreasonable, at least more than 200,000.

The bride price originated as one of the ancient Chinese wedding procedures, and since ancient times, the marriage has been concluded with the man giving the woman a bride price when the agreement is initially reached. Today's bride price has slowly changed its taste, for age and whether to remarry, it depends on the love concept of both parties, of course, the amount of the gift money also depends on the woman's requirements and the man's own conditions.

You can't let the other party ask for a bride price because someone else is older, she may also want a more secure life in the future, so she chose to ask for a bride price, and it is also because of the unhappiness of her previous marriage, so she wants a bride price.

If you are over 40 years old and are a second-married woman, of course, you have the capital to ask for a bride price, after all, this is a necessary ceremony for marriage and starting a family. It's just that the amount of this bride price depends on the depth of the relationship between the two parties, and also depends on the man's economic strength.

Divorced women in their 40s, who want to get married again and start a family, are mostly just making do with life, talking about love or something is too extravagant, and they can no longer be as willful as when they were young. If you are obsessed with exorbitant bride price, I am afraid that few men are willing to pay.

Generally speaking, in today's society, women in their 40s already have a certain amount of economic power. He does not attach as much importance to the bride price as he did when he was younger, but pays more attention to the family background of both parties. They are no longer simply married, but the union of two families.

Both parties may have children and daughters, and the interests involved are more complex, and if they are not handled well, it is difficult to come together.

The remarriage of older men and women is not a matter of the consent of the parents, but also of the feelings and opinions of their respective children. It's definitely not something that the adults on both sides can hastily combine when they have a good feeling. Compared to these troubles, the bride price has become an inconsequential matter.

Unless they had a relationship when they were young, it is difficult for older men and women to have the same fiery love as when they were young, and the reason why both parties form a family is more to find a partner to live with. Both sides should have a clear understanding of this point, consider all factors comprehensively, and try to get the support of their children.

In any case, there is still a certain emotional foundation for older men and women to restart a family. You can't hastily combine in order to get by, such as not dealing with the problems of the two families before getting married, once the conflict erupts, it will be anxious.

Of course, there is capital, although it is a second marriage, but there is also the right to pursue happiness.

It depends on your position in the heart of your marriage partner, if he really loves you and gives you as much bride price as he wants.

When I remarried, I felt that I really didn't have the capital to ask for a bride price, and I was already 40 years old.

I think the bride price should still be wanted, but it should be a little less, but at least the process should be there.

I feel that it is indeed true, you are already 40 years old and still divorced, what do you want as a bride price?

It's all about bride price, you can't want it, you can't look down on yourself too much.

I don't think there's really any need for a bride price, because I don't have any capital anymore.

You can ask for a bride price, if you don't want to give it, it can only mean that in his heart, you are not very important.

Of course, you can ask for a bride price, as long as you are good enough.