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Girls who don't have a family at the age of 30 shouldn't be anything if they are in the city, and there are women in the city who haven't married after the age of 30, but it's different if it's in the countryside. I'm afraid that even if you don't find your in-laws at the age of 26 or 7 in the countryside, there will be no shortage of people who talk nonsense behind you. The family Cui you get married because they care about you, and the concept of the old people is that the man should get married, and the woman should get married.
They want you to find someone who cares about you, is good to you, and can protect you and take care of you for the rest of your life. Parents will think like this, when they are old, their daughter will have a happy home and someone to take care of her, and they will be relieved. Which parent is not heartbroken for their children, pity the hearts of parents all over the world.
If you really don't want to get married, then live by yourself, and communicate with your parents more, I believe they will understand, after all, marriage is for happiness, if you are unhappy, why force yourself, women are very independent now, earn their own money and spend it themselves, and live a wonderful life alone. As long as you do your parents' work, as for others who like to say who they like, after all, life is lived by yourself, no one has the right to interfere with you, just be happy.
The idea of the older generation is to start a family, and when they reach the age, they must get married, one is to hope that their children can be stable, they feel that they are stable when they get married, and someone will take care of them, they can rest assured, and a small number of parents will feel that they are old and lose face if they don't get married, relatives and friends talk nonsense, and parents are under great pressure, but I still want to say that marriage must find someone who you think is suitable, even if you are reluctant to get married, everyone is not doing well, and your parents are not happy, and they are not happy. Take care of yourself, but you can't blindly pursue love, this is too lacking, meet someone who can be good to yourself, let's tie it! I wish you a happy life partner soon!
If you don't want to listen to their urging to get married, don't tell them that you are not going to get married, as long as you are not young, this idea will be less than a year to tell them, they will be less anxious for a year, and your ears will be quieter.
In the future, when you are older, if you don't get married for a year, they urge them to help you find a partner for a year, but as long as you insist on your own opinions, there is really no one you like, if you can really survive until ten and not get married, they will naturally have less nagging, because you really see that you don't want to get married, how many years you say, no matter how useless you say, you are so old, they are in a hurry, and the time when they are anxious has passed, what are you anxious about.
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I directly told my parents my truest thoughts at present, that is, I feel that I can live a good life alone, and the two of them together may make life more uncomfortable, so my parents slowly accepted my idea.
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You can tell your parents that instead of living with someone you don't like, you'd rather not get married in this life.
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I think you can calmly express your thoughts to your parents, and I think that as long as you plan your life well, your parents will be able to understand you, so there is no need to worry too much.
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You can tell your parents about your situation and your own thoughts, and you must communicate with them calmly.
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If a girl does not want to get married after 32, she should seriously tell her parents what she thinks, tell her parents that she has not met a very suitable person for her, and she does not want to compromise on marriage, and hopes that her parents can understand her choice.
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If you don't want to get married at the age of 30, your parents must be the most anxious, because your parents' thinking is feudal, and it is difficult or even unacceptable for young people in modern society to choose not to get married. Marriage is a besieged city, and whether life is sweet or bitter is unknown. Marriage is not just about love, it's also about pots and pans and trifles.
So, it's up to you whether you want to get married or not. Don't get married blindly because of outside pressure. You can easily get hurt in a marriage.
Your parents are the people who care about you in the world, and you can calmly tell them about your plans or plans for your future life, so that they can rest assured and let them know what you really think. First of all, if my career is successful and my family is worried, I will tell my parents that my career is on the rise. Although he is a little older now, if his career is affected by love, the gains outweigh the losses.
If your career goes uphill, it means that your income will increase, and you will be one step closer to your dream of buying a house. Secondly, if I had nothing and a mediocre family background, I would tell my parents that it would not be surprising that someone like me had left. After all, what do I want, and what qualifications do I have to get married?
As far as I'm concerned. > if I am a leftover girl, how can I persuade my parents that she became a leftover girl because her diploma is too high and no one dares to marry her, or because her ability is too low and she looks ugly. If a girl with an ordinary appearance and an ordinary job does not want to get married at the age of 30, then I can only convince my parents that I will be filial to them for a few more years.
It's a real problem, it depends on your parents' ability to accept it, if you set the facts and reasons, tell your parents. Parents are more open-minded and will respect your choice because of their high cultivation. The ideological realm is naturally different from that of ordinary people.
If your parents are ordinary people, it can be difficult to understand your behavior! Have a healthy body. If you have a regular income, why don't you have children?
Children are the coagulant of the family and the source of happiness. Why give up the opportunity to be a parent so easily? You just arrived in a well-off society, and you reluctantly bought me a house.
At the age of 30, I couldn't live a rich life, let alone the daughter of a billionaire, which was far from my ideals. I would definitely not want to get married under such conditions.
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If a girl doesn't want to get married after 31. You should talk to your parents about why you don't want to get married. Because your parents definitely want you to get married and have children.
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I think you can find an appropriate time, and then ask your parents out, and say what you want to say in your heart, I think your parents should also understand you, so there is no need to be too anxious.
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When communicating with parents, you must be sincere, tell your parents why you don't want to get married, and tell them that you don't want to get married, that the person who suits you has not yet appeared, that you want to live your life well, and that you can take good care of yourself, and they don't think too much.
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Tell your parents that you haven't found the right person yet, and wait until you find the right person before you think about getting married.
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Be sure to communicate calmly with your parents, and tell your parents that I don't think about this kind of thing at all now, because I haven't met myself yet, don't force me to marry, because marriage can't be forced at all, and your parents will definitely understand you.
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You can go and talk to your parents about your thoughts, and tell them that you don't want to get married, not that you never want to get married.
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This is no longer a problem of communication, it is necessary to change the concept of parents, so that parents can live well without getting married, and marriage is not necessarily happy, so that parents can understand you.
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It's okay to tell your parents what you really think, and you also have to tell your parents that you don't want to get married yet, and I hope your parents can understand you.
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You can tell your parents that you are living well alone, and you have no plans to get married for the time being, and you can communicate with your parents calmly.
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Tell parents not to worry about their future selves and say sorry for not allowing them to enjoy holding their grandchildren.
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It's okay to communicate your thoughts directly with your parents, but be sure to be calm and mindful of how you express them. Then you can reduce some of your parents' concerns about you.
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You should tell your parents about your plans for the future, and you can tell your parents how you feel now, so that your parents can understand you.
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I think you should be honest with your parents and don't want to get married yet. Now your career is developing, and you are not ready to marry someone, and you have not met that person. You can tactfully tell your parents not to have too heated discussions.
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Be open and communicate with your parents about your thoughts and let them know why you don't get married.
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You can tell your parents that you are living well alone now, and you have the ability to support yourself, and you don't want to find the other half, and you feel very troublesome, just say that, as long as you are firm in your mind, no one can change it.
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When communicating with our parents, we must control our emotions, and do not communicate with our parents in a particularly serious tone, in the process of communication, we must let our parents know all their thoughts, and let our parents know that they will live a special life alone.
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The first is to make your position clear, and you must make your parents respect your own ideas, and also to make your parents realize that this matter is not urgent.
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First of all, you can tell your parents that you have your own life plans and arrangements, and you want to be by your parents' side for the rest of your life, so you don't want to get married.
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Today's society is getting bigger and bigger, and the pressure on young people is also increasing. But when a person reaches an age, especially a girl, when he reaches a certain age, he will reach the age of talking about marriage. There will be a large number of people who choose to find a favorite person to fall in love with when they are in their prime, deal with the object, and the two depend on each other, slowly get acquainted, communicate slowly, and communicate slowly.
Finally, step by step to the palace of marriage. Put on a white wedding dress and marry the gentleman you love. This is something that many girls dream of.
But there are also some young people who think differently, these people are not in a hurry to get married, but when they reach the age, parents should start to worry about us, and in the face of their anxious appearance, the heart of being a child is actually not very good. How do you communicate with your parents? How to accurately express to your parents that you don't really want to get married?
Here are a few ways we can help. First of all, find a suitable opportunity, choose the more open one of the father and mother to communicate, it should be noted here, you can't communicate together, the effect will be greatly reduced. You can only break them one by one, and listen to their thoughts, and talk to them about your thoughts.
If you choose to talk to your mother, you say that you haven't met the Prince Charming who you think is the best, so you don't think the choice is suitable for marriage. And you need to have a certain strength before getting married, the current age is the rising period of a woman's career, so you must seize the opportunity, while you are young, and fight again, if you meet the right person, you will consider getting married. Maybe in the process of hard work, the pride of heaven will appear.
If I talk to my father, I have to say this: I don't think I have met the boy who can take care of me for the rest of my life. So I want to wait a little longer, of course Dad won't see his little padded jacket being married by an irresponsible man, if I really think about marriage, I want to find a boy with eyes full of me.
This is the general advice for communicating with your parents, and I hope your communication is smooth enough. <>
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I think you can find an opportunity to calm down and communicate with your parents about this issue, I think as long as you express your thoughts well, your parents should be able to understand you.
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Tell your parents directly why you don't want to get married, and let your parents know that you don't want to get married, after all, you are an adult, and your parents will not force you when they see your determination.
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Parents should be told that a low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single, and if you can't meet a suitable one, it's better not to get married.
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Personally, I think that the proof of action is more convincing than the verbal communication. First of all, you must have enough material foundation and a good living state, so that your parents can believe that you can live a full and beautiful life even if you live alone in the future. Secondly, you should also care more about your parents, so that they can live a better life with you and live a happier and more satisfying life.
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In fact, you can tell your parents that you must meet the right person, and you must meet the person you like very much to be together, otherwise the marriage will not be happy.
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It's good to tell your parents what you think in your heart, tell them that you can live well alone, and you don't have to rely on men, and I think your parents will definitely respect your ideas.
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At this time, it is necessary to let parents realize their emotions, and let them understand your heart, and also to let parents realize that feelings must go with the flow.
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You should communicate with your parents calmly, tell your parents what you really think, and I think your parents will understand you.
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You should tell your parents that you have no plans to do this now, and hope that your parents will not interfere in your life.
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Tell your parents that you are still looking for someone who is suitable for you, and don't worry too much about it, if you find a suitable one, I will take it home in time for you to see.
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Communicate well with your parents. Say what you think and let your parents try to understand you, don't lose your temper, communicate effectively so that your parents can understand you.
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Every parent wants their children to start a family as soon as possible, but some people don't want to get married, their ideas are not accepted by their parents, and the relationship between them will be affected. At this time, you need to take proactive measures to deal with it and maintain a harmonious relationship with your parents. Specifically, when the idea of not getting married is not accepted by the parents, you can take the three aspects of in-depth communication with the parents, let them understand their ideas, explain the specific difficulties they encounter to their parents, get their understanding and support, and accept the suggestions of their parents to change their decision not to get married.
1. Communicate deeply with your parents so that they can fully understand their ideas.
Each of us has our own unique ideas, and it is normal for different people to have different perceptions of the same thing. At this time, the problem can only be solved through communication and communication with each other. When you don't get your parents' support for not getting married, you should have in-depth communication with your parents so that they can fully understand your true thoughts, which is the most beneficial to solve the problem in the end.
2. Explain the specific difficulties you encounter to your parents and strive for their understanding and support.
Sometimes, the reason why I make the decision not to get married is because I have encountered practical difficulties. Because parents don't understand their own difficulties, they don't accept the idea that they don't get married. At this time, you need to explain it in detail with your parents and let them know about the situation, so that you can win their understanding and support for you.
3. Follow your parents' advice and change your wrong idea of not getting married.
The idea of not getting married yourself is not right at some point, and it will be very bad for yourself. In this case, of course, parents will not accept it. At the same time, they will persuade themselves to realize the problem with their own ideas.
When you realize all this, you should follow your parents' advice and change your wrong ideas, so as to avoid the situation that your interests are damaged because of the wrong decision, take the initiative to fall in love, pursue perfect love, and live a happy life.
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