My husband always doesn t trust me enough after marriage, how should I deal with it?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-03
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Hello, I'm glad that if you want to maintain your marriage, then look for the real reason through the appearance, and if you can solve it, you can still maintain a marriage. If you don't want to hold on, break up early—a marriage without trust is worthless.

    Does he approve of you from the bottom of his heart? Marriage is based on mutual trust, and if you are suspicious of each other, you will not be far from the grave of love.

    01 Self-reviewIf we don't have to comment on how many boats you pedal before you registered, I think it's all the freedom of most girls; And if you have become a wife and started a family, should you consider your identity? If you are still like a girl who doesn't care about her home all day long, invites friends to go shopping, has ambiguous relationships with the opposite sex, etc., then the seeds of suspicion will take root in the family. So,Self-examination is a necessary foundation for building mutual trust in marriage.

    02 Proactive communicationIf it is because of your husband who distrusts you, then you, as a wife, should take the initiative to help you. Men often have their own stalks in their feelings, and they need to understand it in many ways, especially for first love, some people have said that no matter how many relationships a man has experienced, first love is the most unforgettable. As a wife, you should help your husband to guide her husband in a good way emotionally, and let him see your hard work and true feelings.

    03 External helpAfter all, the power of the individual is very small, and you must be good at relying on the strength of family and friends, sometimes a word from a family member or friend is better than most of your efforts. For example, planning an outingWhy not change the environment, eliminate mutual suspicion and increase mutual trust through travel?

    04 ConclusionMarriage involves our parents, children, relatives and friends, so don't give up lightly until you have to. Finally, I wish all families in the world happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You should be resolute and have your own bottom line. Tell your husband that he really wants to live with you. And doing things by yourself is above board.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think that if this happens, you should communicate with your husband so that the two of you can trust each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It must be to talk to your husband more, so that your husband can fully understand himself, and he can slowly trust himself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then you have to find a way to gain his trust, and then you can deal with him in his way, so that he can taste the taste of suspicion.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First, it is indeed your fault, and this matter is like a thorn in his heart.

    Second, you have to give him no hold back and give him the freedom to trust him fully.

    Third, spend more time with him every day.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't want people to know, you can't do it unless you do. There are no impermeable walls in the world. What we have to do is not how to steal it back so that the husband and wife can't find out, but not to steal.

    Do you think it's interesting to steal from this one? You steal someone else's husband to accompany your wife, and someone else steals yours. In the end, it's not the same, and there is a style problem.

    This wind can't last long. The landlord is too, you steal people and have a reason to divorce someone else. Bear with it, or just leave and steal hard.

    If you don't leave, behave well, and your husband will know one day.

    Both men and women have a cheap side.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, I say to you, you are a woman's shame! A woman like you deserves not to be trusted by her husband. The real version deserves it, if I want to throw you away, I will have the right to throw you away.

    I won't talk about it if it's too ugly, it will affect the image. But I'm going to tell you that it's a shadow in your husband's heart for a lifetime, and I'll never believe in you again, even if I believe it in my mouth, I will spit on you in my heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I still want your husband to trust you. At that time, your husband didn't fly, you were stupid, and you still wanted people to trust you, you were so thick-skinned.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Reduce contact with the opposite sex, and you can also take your husband to any activities and parties, and avoid contact alone!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's so unmoldy, I was caught once!

    My husband's suspicion shows that you haven't done well enough, so try hard.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The shadow in your heart can never be repaired, who told you not to respect yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think I should do something to win back your husband's trust in you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Judging from your description, your husband always doesn't trust you, and in this case, you can find a time to have a good chat with your husband. Although you have done something wrong before, now you have been actively correcting it and asking your husband to give you another chance.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This mistake of yours has led to his distrust, understandably. But he began.

    Bai can't forgive you in the end, it's just that he is wrong. There is a suggestion, the DAO is that all your friends can let him know, open and transparent. If you can't do it, you will cut off all male friends.

    I have done all this, but I can't do it, so I will break off with him. This is a last resort, I still hope you are happy, I just hope you can get your husband's forgiveness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just be yourself, since you have done your own good, whether you believe it or not is his problem, if your husband is a reasonable person, you can tell him what you think, and the two of you will communicate more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's talk to him, this can only be solved through communication. Communicate each other's opinions and tell him that trust is the foundation of love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you love your husband, then you will try your best to save this marriage and live a good life with him, if he gets worse and makes you unhappy, then you should break up! It's even more troublesome if you have children!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I can only say that there is no way to do this, because with the first time, there are countless times when I tell a lie? People tell all the words as lies, and such words are really difficult to solve.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You are already very lucky that he can give you a chance, and if it is an ordinary person, you should not give you a chance.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My husband always doesn't trust me, what should I do, then you won't go out, I'll always stay with him on the 3 1 line, see what else he thinks.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can have a good talk with your husband, after all, the two of you are married, if this is the case for a long time, the relationship between the two of you will also be affected, you can do something to make your husband believe, and it will slowly improve the relationship between the two of you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In normal times, you should be honest with your husband, and in normal times, the two of you should communicate more and don't lie to him, so that your husband can trust you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The main reason at this time is because you don't give your husband a lot of security, so your husband doesn't trust you after marriage, at this time you have to stay away from the opposite sex, and the second is to give your husband more security.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should take the initiative to communicate with the other party, find a suitable time, and tell the other party all your thoughts, so as to avoid the other party becoming more and more disappointed in yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can talk to your husband more about the things in your life, and you can observe what the reason is for him, and you try to avoid those things.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In this case, it is best to have a good talk with your husband, and after asking the reason, you are making changes.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. Methods of managing married life.

    Sometimes in married life, like making friends, if you treat your other half as a friend, but whether it is between husband and wife or friends, trust is the most important, and it is very tiring to lose a sense of trust between the two, which will cause suspicion.

    Because at this time, if the other party does something, they feel that they are deceiving themselves, so sometimes in the midst of food, clothing, housing and transportation, you miss some of the other party's deeds very much, and gradually the other party will lose self-confidence in you.

    Because you sincerely look at your trust, gradually you will have a lot of various suspicions, but trust must exist in married life, so if there is no trust between the two, there is no need to insist on it at this time.

    2. What to do about the crisis of trust in marriage.

    1. If in married life, the daughter-in-law loses trust in her husband, at this time she must learn to put down her posture, ask her husband's advice if she has something, or ask her husband to help, and sometimes you must have no doubt about her husband's proposal, and the two create a sense of importance and trust for each other.

    2. In fact, there are many cases where you don't trust your husband, because your husband lied to herself, at this time, you must ensure that you are honest with each other, and use your own sincerity to influence him, and the two gradually build a sense of trust between each other.

    3. Sometimes the husband is sincere in lying, if the husband's reference is intentional, at this time you need to consider the relationship between the two and discuss the part of your heart that you have been in his heart.

    4. If he loses his wake-up call, it must be because he often cheats on you, if you lie to you for a long time, the two of us will be estranged from each other, and accept the relationship between the two at this time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello, I'm glad to be able to answer for you, as far as I know, you can do this if you don't trust your husband: 1. If in married life, the daughter-in-law loses trust in her husband, at this time she must learn to put down her posture, and ask her husband for advice when there is something to do in the marriage, or let her husband help, and sometimes you must have no doubt about her husband's proposal, and the two create a sense of importance and trust with each other. 2. In fact, there are many cases where the husband does not trust the husband, because the husband lied to himself, and at this time to ensure that he treats others sincerely, and influences him with his own sincerity, the two gradually create a sense of trust between each other.

    3. Sometimes the husband is sincere when he lies, if the husband's reference is deliberate, at this time you need to consider the relationship between the two people, what is the basis of marriage, let's take a look at the part of your heart that you have been in his heart. 4. If you lose trust in him, it must be because he often cheats on you, if you lie to you for a long time, the two of us will be estranged from each other, what is the basis of marriage, it is best to complete the relationship between the two at this time.

    It is my pleasure to help you, the above is all my reply, I hope to help you, I wish you a happy life If my help to you, I hope to give a thumbs up at your convenience, thank you! If the content is helpful to you, I hope you can get your likes, thank you very much!

    He always told me that I beg you to believe my words, but I am suspicious, all kinds of speculation, and I am more worried about whether there is a woman, so he doesn't like to come home, and when he goes home, he is noisy, and I don't know what to do.

    Dear, the reasons why girls always love to be suspicious are: 1Because women are always not confident enough.

    2.Because girls care too much about each other and are afraid of losing each other. It is also possible that the husband does not give the patient a sense of security, so that the patient suffers from gains and losses, the girl can usually communicate with her husband, to obtain her husband's understanding, and usually do some things to divert attention, don't always think about these things.

    Ask a good question, thank you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Why not trust.

    Find the reason from yourself.

    Get to the crux of the problem.

    Then it's good to settle.

    Nothing is unpassable.

    Everything can be fine.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. If in the marriage, the wife loses trust in her husband, at this time she should put down her body, ask her husband's opinion for something, or ask her husband to help, and sometimes you need to affirm her husband's advice, and the two people should establish a sense of respect and trust with each other.

    2. In fact, there are many times when you don't trust your husband because your husband lied to him, at this time, you must treat each other with sincerity, use your sincerity to influence him, and slowly establish a sense of trust between the two people.

    3. Sometimes the husband is kind to lie, if the husband's reference is malicious, at this time you should consider the relationship between the two people and see where you are in his mind.

    4. If you lose trust in him, it must be because he often cheats on you, if you lie to you for a long time, the two of us will be strangers to each other, and it is best to end the relationship between the two at this time.

    Can a marriage be maintained if you don't trust your husband.

    Sometimes in marriage is like making friends, if you treat your other half as a friend, but whether it is between husband and wife or between friends, trust is the most important, and it is very tiring to have no sense of trust between two people, so there will be suspicion, because at this time, if the other party does something, they feel that they are deceiving themselves, so sometimes in life, they miss each other's whereabouts very much, and slowly the other party will lose confidence in you, because they treat you sincerely, Slowly you will have more and more suspicions, but trust must exist in marriage, so if there is no trust between two people, there is no need to continue at this time.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Once the feeling of distrust arises, it will produce an irreparable crack in the heart, so the crisis of trust is a taboo in marriage, I think if you don't have tangible evidence, then don't be suspicious, are you not confident in your own charm? No, so live your life well and don't think about it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In married life, if this situation occurs and you don't trust your husband, then there is no fun in married life, and only when two people know each other can they recognize each other and be happy.

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