I m nervous and uncomfortable with boys. What s going on?

I feel like the experience is a bit like me, well... Let it be, don't deliberately remind yourself, maybe one day you will meet your "Prince Charming", sometimes, try to date, maybe it will make a difference!

It's the opposite of me, I play with boys, I'm never nervous, I'm very playful, I don't fall in love with anyone, no, that's your real destiny yet, I see one more handsome guy like one. (*Hee-hee.......)

I haven't met the right one yet. Or maybe you don't want to be in a relationship yet.

When a guy feels nervous and overwhelmed while with someone, there can be a variety of reasons. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Social anxiety: Some boys may be naturally more nervous and uncomfortable, which may be due to social anxiety. Social anxiety refers to feeling uncomfortable and nervous in social situations that can affect a person's behavior and performance.

2.Like the other person: Another possible reason is that the guy may be interested in the person and may even already be in love with the other person.

In this case, the guy may feel very nervous and overwhelmed because he may not know how to present himself or be afraid of making the wrong decision.

3.Too much self-awareness: Some guys may be too focused on their performance and image, which can cause them to feel nervous and overwhelmed in front of others.

They may worry about whether their appearance, words and deeds are in line with society's standards, or whether they can be recognized and liked by the other person.

4.Lack of social experience: For some guys with little social experience, being with someone can make them feel nervous and overwhelmed.

They may lack self-confidence, don't know how to communicate with the other person, or don't know how to deal with awkward situations that arise.

Whatever the reason, if the guy is feeling nervous and overwhelmed, you can try to give him some support and encouragement to make him feel more relaxed and at ease. Try to have some light-hearted conversations with him to help him get used to social situations, and also give him some positive feedback and praise to boost his self-confidence.

Hello beauty, if you are with a guy and he is particularly nervous, it means that he likes you very much, and he is overwhelmed with you.

He can't control himself anymore, because he likes you so much that he doesn't know how to face you, and maybe he's a little shy.

I'm like that, I'm very nervous when I see a man, like it's deliberate, it's temporary, and I think some things take some courage to face, um. It is to see the male face and actively talk and communicate, and then smile. Then try to make friends, right?

After all, it's normal for friends of the opposite sex to be human, and people need friends of the opposite sex in addition to friends of the same sex. Yes, exactly.

First of all, you have to let yourself find self-confidence in life, if you are nervous to speak, you must keep yourself exercising every day, you can talk to yourself in the mirror to practice, so that you can eliminate the state of timidity.

At the same time, when talking to boys, let yourself hold something in your hand to cover up your shortcomings, you can take a book, you can use a small fan, so that it will not appear more embarrassing.

Because you're still a little girl, it's estimated that your personality is more easily restrained, not very cheerful, or a bit of a two-way personality, with familiar people, talk about everything, but as long as it's a stranger, you don't want to talk. I don't know if I'm right, it's your personality, this is a stage that people with your personality need to go through to grow up, and when you're a little older, or you're a little more mature, you'll get better, and you may have a little bit of inferiority, you have to cultivate your own self-confidence, and as soon as you are confident, this situation will not appear. Don't be so shy, little girl, it's not a big deal, it shows that you are still very simple, you like to fantasize, this is your precious side.

Don't think of it as a disadvantage.

I remember when I was younger, I was so shy, let alone with boys. Sometimes I blush when I talk to girls I don't know, in fact, this is all exercise again and again, just like the first time the teacher asks a question, my face will be red when I stand up, my heart will be panicked, and I don't know what to say, but I don't think it's okay to ask more questions, I won't stand up is no, and I will recite it out loud, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

In the end, I am very thick-skinned, I feel that there is nothing, you look down on me, I look down on me, I still look down on you, there are more people who don't like me, how old are you?

I used to be like this, because I didn't often contact boys, I was often shy, and I didn't know what to do when I talked to them, but then I gradually got some friends of the opposite sex, and I thought it was okay to talk to them. Slowly, I let go of myself and became more active.

The main thing is that I am not confident enough in my heart to have such a performance.

First of all, you have to exercise your courage, you can usually read more books on this kind of communication, so that these people become very strong inside, when they have time, they go out for a walk with their classmates and friends, communicate more and talk more, and after a long time, you will find that people who often communicate with people will have strong self-confidence, and they will not be nervous when talking to anyone.

1. When talking to boys, you should appear to be down-to-earth and generous, and don't have any scruples. Don't care too much about what the other person thinks of you, just show your true and generous side.

2. Treat the other party as an ordinary person, so ordinary that it can't be more ordinary. Even if the other party is a boy, he is an ordinary person, he is nothing special, you don't need to be scared or nervous.

3. Participate in extracurricular activities more, and you can also chat with your father, brother, brother and other relatives of the opposite sex more often, so as to create opportunities for yourself to talk to boys.

4. Express your thoughts boldly, say whatever you want, and talk directly and generously to relax yourself, and at the same time show your frank side.

5. It is very important to be lively and confident. No matter what the occasion or who you are talking to, a lively, confident personality can make you put aside your nervousness and allow you to talk eloquently when talking to boys.

6. Exercise more speech and courage. In the process of communicating with people, courage and speaking skills are extremely important. You get nervous talking to a guy because you're afraid you're saying the wrong thing. Don't be afraid, speak boldly, and change if you are wrong, so that you can change and progress.

7. Adjust your mentality. It's not a disease of yours, it's just that you lack some experience in communicating with boys, so don't be nervous. Believe that in the near future you can do better, believe in yourself.