I sometimes teach my children impatiently, so I fan my head, and I regret it and ask what to do 20

Think about the child's feelings, my mother was like that when I was a child, although I grew up and understood, but many times I hated my mother. If you are a child and your mother does not have the patience to teach you what your mood will be, just think about it. I have also taught my younger siblings or something, there is a way to teach people, you teach children, you can't use adult thinking, you have to use children's ideas, use what children can think of, can easily understand to analogy is the best, educating children is important, but methods are also needed.

What can I do? You are impatient with your own children, so who do you want to take care of him? Correct your mentality, don't always be busy with work, party playing cards, and what affects the mood of tight expenses.

Develop some hobbies, preferably in sports, a woman, a married woman who has given birth most needs vitality, health and intellectual beauty from the bones. Housework does not necessarily have to be everything, but one thing must be done, that is, to make a good dish, men and children will have a special plot about the dishes at home, and to control their taste buds is to control the pulse of the family. You'll notice that the way your husband looks at you will change, like.

The look in the eyes of the first date.

Does this need to be asked? Just change it! Parents are role models for their children and strongly demand to get rid of your bad habits.

If you regret it, you can't be impatient. Think about the possible consequences and control yourself. Cultivate carefully and slowly, and patience will improve!

Don't fan your head easily, it's dangerous!

A baby's endurance is always inversely proportional to its age, but the trait of "patience" needs to be cultivated from an early age. And the best way for parents is to guide and teach their children what patience is. Patience is a long-term process, not only to teach the child what to do while he is waiting, but also to convince him that waiting patiently for a little time will eventually get what he expects.

The self-control ability of such a big child is very poor, always look at this, look at that, there is no patience, everything is basically three minutes of heat, Bao Ma don't have to worry, the child will be better when he grows up, take his time! If the child is interested, it can be cultivated well! Now you just have to take your time and observe!

I don't know how old the child is.

The old child told him to practice chopsticks to hold peanuts.

The children who went to school told him to copy the texts. Write natural numbers, you can't be wrong.

In short, find something that requires patience for him to do and cultivate slowly.

Letting children learn to play the piano or draw can cultivate children's patience, of course, it is normal for children to be impatient, such children are smarter. The key is nurture.

Cultivate. Usually pay attention to his every move, see what he is interested in, and then slowly enlighten, at the same time, you can also tell him some beautiful stories to guide him.

Normal. It changes with age. Also, parents should be tolerant and patient with him.

Hello, I often hear some parents complain about their children: "My child is not stupid than other children, but he is impatient, and he always does things in a hurry, and gives up halfway." So, how should parents develop patience in their children?

What should I do if my child is impatient? First of all, the child should be praised more, more encouraged, less blamed, less complained, so that the child is happy, only interested, the child will inevitably be distracted and make mistakes when doing homework, and it is a good thing for parents to point out mistakes for the child and ask him to correct them. But some children get bored or upset. In addition, every time parents watch their children do their homework, they think that their children will develop the habit of being cautious, but their children's homework still makes mistakes, so many parents will be anxious and even say things that damage their children's self-esteem.

The anxiety and anxiety of parents is understandable. But from the child's point of view, every time he does his homework, he will be corrected, which not only increases his psychological pressure and trouble, but also has no sense of accomplishment at all, of course the child will feel frustrated, bored, and nervous, so "annoyed to death!" The revolt erupted involuntarily.

Today's children are known to be impatient, they lose their temper at every turn, fight with children, and give up when they encounter a small difficulty.

What should I do if my child is impatient? Recognize your child's patience first

1 You can't do things from the beginning to the end. 2 Capricious. 3 Crying often and easily.

4 Emotions are easily agitated, and it is difficult to ** what they will do.

5 Loves to move when eating. 6 When watching television, one will sit and the other will stand.

7 You can't stick to one toy, but take this and touch that.

8 Selfish, caring only for himself. 9 Bite your fingernails.

10 Nervous sensitivity, nervousness, or frequent upset.

11 Emotional instability and fickleness.

12 What is done is not proportionate to age.

13 Quarrels are frequent. 14 Fidgeting, hyperactivity.

15 Frequently break friends or household belongings.

16 Not being in harmony with friends.

17 Frequent fights. 18 Impulsive, not thinking before doing things.

19 Poor diet regulation.

20 When angry, he curses or says something hurtful.

21 When you can't do what you want, you do. 22 Weeping and weeping and making trouble.

It is recommended that you read the book "Developmental Psychology" for children and adolescents to understand the characteristics of each stage of children's growth and prescribe the right medicine to educate.

In addition, you must be clear about your life goals, you must be clear about what you want at each stage, you are not living for your husband, you are not living for your children, your husband and children are just your accessories. Otherwise, you will live a very tired life. The temper naturally came up.

There is a woman who used to live very tired, cooking for her husband and children every day, and she felt very annoyed. Later, a friend told her that you only need to cook for yourself every day, don't you have to eat every day? Just do a little more, your husband and children are just coming to eat with you.

When the concept changes, the mood also changes.

If the child does not eat well, is it not the right meal for the child's appetite. The child's spleen and stomach are weak.

I also have this situation of yours, and I am also like you, I hit the child when I am in a hurry, and I regret it when I am just done. In fact, think about what the child has done wrong? He is so young, you should reason with him and encourage him, and children are encouraged to grow faster than they are criticized.

The child is more than 3 years old, if you tell him a little more simple truth, he will understand. My daughter is, and will not make the same mistake in the future.

If you are in a hurry, you will put the child aside, ignore him, and wait for yourself to slowly calm down, and then go to accompany the child, and reduce the beating of the child for the sake of the child's mental health.

Read more books that are the same age as your child's growth age, so you can understand his psychology and communicate more with your child.

Woo woo, why is it the same as me, every time I get angry, I blame myself to death, I swear that I can't go back, but I can't control my anger, let's work together.

It's really hard to educate children nowadays!! The two of you have to keep the same position, but nothing can be solved by force, especially today's children, who fight too much, and it is easy to let the child's self-esteem be frustrated, try to persuade and educate as much as possible, but if your husband can't help but beat the child, you don't interfere at that time, and you can't protect the child, communicate with the child afterwards, so that he doesn't become hostile to his father, and you also have to tell your husband "If his father keeps beating him, what he thinks"!! In fact, it is easy to understand what is as long as you empathize With Jackie Chan of course, it is the wish of all parents!!

But don't hurt your child's self-esteem!!

Actually, men are like that...You don't have much patience with your child, you can talk to her and don't use too strong a tone...

Maybe hating iron doesn't make steel.

My dad is the same, in fact, there are two pros and cons.

It depends on your child's level of acceptance, some eat this set, and some are the opposite.

Usually when children are young, it is not too much for this kind of education, but it is necessary to grasp the degree, and when they grow up, this set is really useless.

For yourself, you can read more books on education, there are so many books about education now.

May you have a harmonious family, smart children.

If he hits the child once, you hit him twice! Look who's cross!!

Have you tutored children personally? If you can do it without beating or scolding, then replace you. If you can't do it, then bear with it. Tutoring children can be a draining task.

What else can you do if you come by yourself?

Learning is more dependent on the child to take the initiative to learn, if the child himself does not want to learn you are patient to tutor is useless, the most important thing for parents is to educate their children how to be a person, to care about the healthy growth of children's physical and mental health, learning counseling is only an auxiliary, after all, there are many teachers and classmates in the school, isn't it.

Either you have to change the way you treat your children, as the saying goes: three points to teach, seven points to wait, that is to say, you must be patient in teaching children, or you are to send children to a place that has the ability to help children learn, just spend more money.

Nursery, or early education, let professional teachers tutor. If it is an older child, go to a more humane tutoring class.

Three-year-old children's attention span will not exceed 15 minutes, and the requirements are not too high, only three years old.

This is true for children, and parents should be more patient to educate their children.

It's ADHD, hurry to the hospital**.